During a date, how do you know/feel when it's time to kiss the girl or escalate the situation?
You just know. It's not a meme.
>>33795683I guess you should close distance before to not make it akward and stuff like that?
>>33795683>You just know.If you're autistic, you don't.
>>33795679>During a date, how do you know/feel when it's time to kiss the girl or escalate the situation?I assume you're on the autistic spectrum somewhere if you're asking that question? As an autist myself, it's hard. When I was on a date I always used to ask. The incels on here who have never actually met a woman will tell you not to do this, and that women find it off-putting; in my experience, they don't, if you ask the right way. Wait till it feels like the date is going well, the conversation is flowing nicely, she's smiling and laughing; then put the question in a way that sounds good-humoured, and as if you're expecting her to say yes, but also makes it clear that she can actually say no. I would usually look exaggeratedly thoughtful and then say something like "Hmm, I think perhaps I ought to kiss you at this point..." (friendly grin) "what do you think?" A number of women said afterwards they'd been surprised I asked, but without exception they were *pleased* I asked, and they virtually always said yes. It's a lot less nerve-wracking to ask. But *how* you ask does matter: if you sound like you're begging, or awkwardly asking permission, that won't go well.
>>33795679In one of Woody Allen's early movies (Annie Hall?) he's on a date, walking along, and stops and says "Look, I'm enjoying this date and I like you and I'm going to want to kiss you at the end and it will get all awkward. So let's get it out of the way now." and he gives her a quick chaste kiss. And he gets his real kiss later.I've tried it. It startles them but it turns into a shared joke. And I do get the real kiss later.
>>33795813>Annie HallNice anon. Is your girlfriend in highschool too?
>>33795711yes the cue is essentially that you've been getting her smiling and laughing and angled yourself towards her and touch her and are in her personal space now. get next to her, talk slower, hold eye contact more than you would with anyone else and start to lean in. if she leans back kiss her
>>33795679try to sit next to your date, across sucksI'm handsy from the get-go, light touches on the arm, shoulder, upper back, etc. while talking.good indicators you should go further are her leaning into it, smiling/laughing, or simply enjoying the contact
Usually is after touching arms, holding hands, then you hug and you get close, if your face very close to the other person tension builds up, then it's your choice to follow through. But by that point there will be a lot of hints
>>33796221Im too autistic for this
>>33796088she's an 18 year old senior. Is that a problem?
>>33796088You're thinking of Manhattan, not Annie Hall