Have you ever thought or considered killing yourself over unrequited love?How did you forget about her and move on?
No, but I have thought of killing other people, or the one in question, yesCuz I'm not a pathetic beta fag like you are, fucking Chad homicide ideator honour restorer
>>33799041broif she doesn't love you back, then you find one that you like and loves you back, what's the problem i don't get itdo you not understand probabilities or what, it's very difficult to find a compatible partnerjust keep trying and it's all goodrelax and have funhere have a cool trackhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IeOZn5g7L58take a walk outside with some headphones, enjoy some tunes, relaxcheers :)
>>33799041the idealized version of her that you love isn't real. your life is just boring so you need something to fixate on
>>33799041You will come to a crossroads where you either grow from this experience and get back up to try again, or wallow in it forever. People place so much of their self worth in the hands of others.. I think you need to just learn from the experience, and remember it.. but decide you are done suffering from it.
>>33799712Do you really think it's that easy to find someone who loves you back that you like?
>>33799041nah.I eventually learned that when I thought I had met a girl who was my soulmate, my devotion to her was more about what my mind needed than who she actually was.There’s an abundance of attractive women to meet if you go out, and honestly, most of them have the same copy-paste personalities anyway.
Think about girls you like before her. Then go out and try to get another woman. Possibly a woman you previously liked
>>33799041>Have you ever thought or considered killing yourself over unrequited love?No, because I have a faint glimmer of self-respect.
>>33799041>unrequited loveYou sure you were in love and weren't just feeling butterflies?
>>33802244Any butterflies there were are dead now. No worries
>>33799041I just... Uh, distracted myself.
>>33799041Bro, you just get up one day and say I'm gonna fly again starting today. I'm done being grounded. Why should I keep being miserable over someone who didn't love me back or respect me like I should have been? When you can accept flying solo again and present yourself to the world with confidence, it will notice you. It's not easy to get out of the funk but it DOES start with a simple change but you have to be consistent about it. Join a group that gets you out of the house for social activities or physical activities. Hiking groups, walking, dancing, foodies, pub crawlers, whatever it may be and whatever you like. Just fucking DO IT. That is the single hardest part of moving on. D-O-I-N-G something/it differently. Now is the time to branch out and build your future. You will find another girlfriend someday. She can't help but notice you when you're smiling, confident, outgoing and happy. But you stand zero chance being a mopey wallflower who just wishes they were part of the action. Those people go home and jerk off alone every single night. Nothing changes for those who don't put themselves out there and take some calculated chances. Girls don't come to those who are sad and depressed...
>>33802706Part 2 since it was too long to post...Only you can break your depression. Getting on a treadmill to rage walk it out for 45 minutes to your favorite music is a healthy way for a dopamine rush. You'll sleep better. Look better. Feel better. Hopefully it catches fire in your life in other ways. Causes you to dress better, get out of bed on time. Improve your eating habits. Improve your cleanliness habits on both yourself and in your environment. Have some faith in yourself again. It will light up something inside you again. Time to let her go man. I have had to do the same fucking thing 9 months ago now. It's taken this long to get over it without wanting to break down or reach out and contact her and it's only because I'm sick and fucking tired of feeling like shit over HER narcissism and bullshit. One just makes that simple decision and BOOM, change has happened...
>>33802706Op hereJust before my meltdown I got into the Pokemon Trading Card Game and it's a completely new hobby to me but now I just can't feel the will to actually go out and play it.I was super devoted to this girl and now it's all gone. I'm 34 and I feel my time is running out, I've met people who are already married and set for life with a loved one at ages way younger than me and my biggest fear is loneliness and dying alone and unloved.
>>33799041Yeah I thought about it, and then I realized that would be some faggot ass pussy shit.
>>33799041>Have you ever thought or considered killing yourself over unrequited love?Killing yourself over something that worthless? why?
What can happen is that you're just really insecure and write posts like this as larps to deter the person you're with from leaving you for someone they like.
>>33799041Nope, but I'd recommend just focusing on constructive things. Exercise, spend time in nature, spend time with animals or otherwise do things that bring you a sense of peace. You'll meet someone new in time, don't worry.
>>33799041>How did you forget about her and move on?Realise that this woman, her future partner and her kin are not your friends. They would get rid of you (even in the literal dense of the word) in order to advance and preserve their self-interest. We live in a very feminized culture where you're just supposed to think otherwise but it bears little to no resemblance with the actual world. They're not your friends. They don't care about you. They will murder and hurt and lie and cheat like a wild animal to survive. It isn't personal as such but prejudice is definitely at.Knowing all of this, you'll recognize that she is an enemy (she is, she really is) but culture and particularly women and the incel looking babyfaced bald head and glasses kinda type will tell you otherwise and then be gangraped in prison and stabbed when getting false sexual harassment charges for looking like human waste. And you all, each and every single anon reading this post, knows this deep deep deep down inside. Wake up you fools.
>>33805240More so that you are just an insecure little fagot and feels justified in your emotional manipulatiom to trap her in a relationship built of lies
>>33801583>I eventually learned that when I thought I had met a girl who was my soulmate, my devotion to her was more about what my mind needed than who she actually was.not OP but god damn that's some good self reflection.I'm starting to understand that about myself too, sometimes I attribute amazing features to a girl, or a person, who looks really good to me (even guys, and I'm not gay) because they just look so fucking good so my mind makes these assumptions that they are great.Truth is, great people are the ones that treat you like YOU'RE great. So that's my answer to you as well OP. For me to love a girl she MUST ALSO BE INTERESTED IN ME, otherwise It's futile!! and I HAVE to move on to preserve my own mental health!! good luck <3
>>33805312It is different when the person is actually your soulmate. Just as you and I know soulmate
You can Larp garbage as much as you want. I know who my soulmate is and it will work out for us.
>>33805330You have never made a good post on this mongolian basket weave forum.
It's what happens off of it that matters.
True.
>>33799041>Have you ever thought or considered killing yourselfPlenty of times.
>>33799041Yes.I didn't forget about her, but I have things I'd like to do that being dead would get in the way of.
>>33799041I have. I simped for a girl for 5 years, the last 3 she was in a long term relationship with her now husband. I used to think all I had to do was remain platonic, wait until I had graduated and got a job to make a move, then God would open up the chance for me to be with her.I went to a psychiatrist, got 1 year of antidepressives, and actively avoided her the years to follow, and I STILL had feelings for her. If I were to see her I'd probably thirst for her but wouldn't try to get close to her.5 years later I'm a 30 yo virgin, hair started to fall off, youth is going away, still can't get my act together, unemployed, gonna drop out second degree, plain refuse to love over trauma.I'll have to settle for any roastie coming for the money I'd make in a job I hate just to have a child and live vicariously through him.
>>33806928Don't have kids, that will make everything worse.
>>33799041>Have you ever thought or considered killing yourself over unrequited love?Kek. No. Not since I was like 14. I can't imagine being a fully grown adult whose only purpose in living is some fucking girl liking me. Very pathetic.
Killing myself? Never.Extremely sad? Yes.
>>33799041Yeah, but I didn't, and eventually you stop caring about every single one. They're never as great as you think, and even if they were they change dramatically every five years or so.
>>33807032What do you mean? Without kids my life is pointless. I have gone great lengths to learn math, learn biology, learn medicine, learn to draw, learn music, even a bit of compsci. I have suffered a lot to learn what went wrong in my life, what my parents did wrong, what I should have done when it was in my hands. I've been living a life that was not mine, only through my eyes.To think all of these answers die with me is cruel. It's an insult. Only passing on the remedy to suffering my life gets any meaning at all.
>>33807136You can always choose a successor instead of forcing your knowledge and career on your potential kid.Someone's son should still be allowed to choose and have a sense of individuality.
>>33806928That's the bad ending and it's just as horrid for her as she is miserable The rest of her life gets worse everyday
>>33799041in 10 years you'll find photos of her and find out she's a blown out washed up whore who looks ROUGH and has a receding hairline and no one who truly loves her, and you'll be wealthy and have your own wife and family if you want
>>33807544The pic gave me a chuckle, thanks anon. No joking it's was a long time since I kinda genuinely laughed.
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>>33799041No, but I've laughed at those who've
Only one. Time is what allows you to move on generally. I find not getting attached to people as you get older tends to help. When you're younger getting attached to people is typically the problem.
>>33808780It's just that I'm extremely scared of living and dying alone and unloved.Last night I filled this bingo and made me realize how miserable and alone I am
