My fiancée always keeps bullying me for being fat despite being the bread winner, and driving her everywhere How can I put her in place? I was skinny in my twenties now I’m enjoying the fruits of my labor
>>33799751Choosing to continue to be unnatractive to your fiancee seems like a recipe for getting broken up with or cheated on
>>33799751Either get skinny or dump or, best option, get skinny and then dump her because you shouldn't marry someone who is mean to you
>>33799751Backhand was invented for a reason
Consume the bitch
>>33799751>driving her everywherestop doing this
>>33799751raise your voice, look her in the eye, and tell her to quit that shit[optional] a slap in the face (think carefully about this one, there are places and families where this is routine, while the wrong woman + law enforcement paradigm could land you in jail)either she complies or she's out. life's too short to waste it on women who don't understand their roleanyway, your relationship probably started very wrong if she thinks this behavior is acceptable
>>33799751I won't read fat slob threads.
>>33799751Height and weight?
>>33799751Suppressing a woman's insolence once you get to the bullying stage is difficult.You really don't want to lay a hand on her like the others suggest because that makes you appear like your ego is fragile and you lose Godly respect.You want Godly respect. So tell her,"What I'm about to say is serious, and our relationship relies on your co-operation... ok, now that I have your attention - Do not call me fat anymore. I know I am overweight, and have disrespected you for becoming this way. But starting now, I will work towards a healthy BMI because I want to respect you and myself. So stop immediately."If neither of you can take that seriously, you deserve to be miserable.Looking forward to your reply.
>>33799751Realize she can get any bread winner she wants at anytime because she has a pussy and you don't. Then take the hint that you're a fat fuck and need to get on the treadmill everyday until you're not a fat fuck anymore and start to attract more women OTHER THAN your fiancee. Then the tables will have turned and you can begin to bully HER. But you need to lose weight you fat fuck, you're fat. Don't be fat, you fat fuck.
>>33799751There’s nothing wrong with getting some chub if it’s the result of you working hard and busting your ass.If you don’t want to break up it’s time for dread game. Stay out at night without telling her, show her pictures of you with attractive female colleagues, if you can’t exercise at least groom and dress well. To all the other posters ITT, you go to the gym because you’re vain and have nothing better to do, and this is coming from a guy who had a 3/4/5 pl8 bench/squat/DL at his peak. If being in shape was the be all end all for women, there would be no such thing as a gymcel. All the billionaires in the news got jacked AFTER making their fortunes because you do not have time to grind for hours in the gym if you’re actually making things happen.
>>33799751>How can I put her in place?Lose some weight.
>>33799751>now I’m enjoying the fruits of my laborEat less of your "fruits"
>>33799751Lose weight and work out.And watch for any further signs of disrespect on her part. It's reasonable for her to want you to be in shape. But it's also a risk to you if she doesn't respect you as a person.
>>33802028>>33802051>>33802062>>33802071OP should lose weight for his own sake but you're deluded if you think being fit is a guarantee of romantic success. Yes it's correlated but it's not the end all be all.I'm at a trade show right now and I can't tell you how many fat and balding CEOs and business owners are walking around with dime piece wives?>hurr they're cheatingSo? They're also cheating with their dime piece secretaries and escorts. They get all the pussy they can handle, the wife is just one of the pieces.God you people need to grow up and get a clue.
>>33802094You seem triggered, you must be fat AND lonely.
>>33802106Not triggered just saying you guys don't have a clue how women work. When I was at my fittest, I got the least amount of attention from women in my life. When I started to grind at my business and didn't have time for the gym and got a little chubby, attention in me skyrocketed because, and I fucking hate this term, I gained "aura" as a person actually making things happen.Anyway how many businesses have you built that are doing 7 figures in ARR?
>>33802113TL;DR you fat, lonely, jealous loser who is probably OP.
>>33802146That man in that pic is not fat, but it says it's me, how can it be me if I'm fat?You're not too bright are you son? That's why you're a register jockey.
>>33802094>you're deluded if you think being fit is a guarantee of romantic successNo one even mentioned "romantic success". Do you spout incel memes in your sleep?
>>33802157>No one even mentioned "romantic success">In the thread entirely about romantic relationshipsGot another 3 watt here
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>>33799751Insolence at this level is a death knell in most relationships. Your fiancée doesn't respect you anymore. Getting upset at her for that won't change anything, so don't think about raising your voice or slapping her like some of the retards in this thread suggest. That's pathetic. If you really want to stay with her, your best bet is to cut weight and pull back emotionally. Make it known through your actions that being with her is optional, and that your life will go on regardless of whether she's in it. Personally, I wouldn't risk marrying someone comfortable with disrespect. If she doesn't respect you, don't be surprised when the insults compound, she doesn't help around the house, cheats, etc.
>>33799751Make her wear a shock collar and stay in one place
>>33799751stop winning bread and win something with more protein
>>33802710Damn that is pretty large.
