I want to start by saying my bf is really sweet and that it's just this one particular exception to his sweetness that's getting under my skin.He's real old fashioned style sexist, casually and openly, bcus he grew up in like the deep South. I overheard him talking to his friends and he said in complete sincerity that he thinks women exist in a state of arrested development and are mentally equal to children. He tried to explain it as like a biological thing to make women more suited to raising children and when I confronted him about it he just nodded along and I could tell he wasn't being sincere in apologizing. Like he was only trying to calm me down.I can't get what he said out of my head. I work a full time shift at work just like he does, but I still do more upkeep around the house and he has the nerve to say I'm somehow mentally less than he is?I've been distant ever since. Knowing the kind of misogyny inside him it's like everything he does I see filtered through knowing he's doing it because of a weird sexist philosophy. Can he really even love me if his worldview is so twisted to presume so much of half the world?I know I'm not perfect but I feel like dropping me into the "mentally a child" basket is both disrespectful and uncalled for considering how hard I work to help us both.
>>33805442You sound ungrateful.
Speaking as a man, um... break up with him?I really don't understand people who stay together despite having massive clashes in their core beliefs such as this one.He believes women are children. You find that deeply troubling.>Can he really even love me if his worldview is so twisted to presume so much of half the world?No.You really think you're gonna have a happy life being the wife of somebody like that? This is why people end up in divorce years down the road, because they let small things like this fly under the radar and sweep it under the rug.Fucking breakup with this guy right now. Right the fuck now.Plenty of dudes out there that don't think like he does.Right the fuck now.
>>33805442>Can he really even love me if his worldview is so twisted to presume so much of half the world?You know the answer to that: no. Dump him and find someone who respects you.
>>33805606>>33805612Bitter incels.>>33805442OP, mankind has evolved over countless ages. The prejudices people hold are a result of that evolution socially. Women are held as children because women have failed to handle responsibility maturely throughout history. Don't break off a good relationship just because your bf is smart enough to notice shit.
Leave his ass.Not to mention:>people who are mentally children are best suited to raise childrendumb as fuck take if he believes that. Might as well only have retards raise kids, then. Or have them raise themselves. In reality maturity levels vary by individual, and being childish (being dumb or irresponsible) vs. childlike (being able to have innocent whimsical fun) are very different. The fact you take on the same, if not more, responsibility to him makes his take even more stupid.
>>33805442he's right though, every man that isn't some liberal sex pest creeo thinks that way.Women are only good for sex and... uht.33yo, ~80 body count
>>33805442>I overheard him talking to his friends and he said in complete sincerity that he thinks women exist in a state of arrested development and are mentally equal to children.Based. What did he say wrong?
>>33805749t. Cheeto fingered basement dweller
>>33806073nigger literally every problem plaguing western society right now can be directly traced back to the women's suffrage movement.Why do you think women were second class citizens for all time?hint: it's because they're emotionally driven sex objects with zero agency
>>33805617I agree. Bunch of emotional fags in the replies. Most men absolutely think like OPs bf, they're just not retarded enough to show their power level to the woman. Any guy that can get a modicum of ass/relationships knows how dumb women are and vice versa. OP I'm pretty sure you have some dark thoughts about men yourself, you're just not expressing them so that your bf can be in the wrong
>>33805656Calm down roast. What he's saying is that since women don't mentally mature, they're perfect for rearing actual children due to being almost similar in mindset. Do the millions of female teachers over men not tip you off to this?
>>33805442Welcome to life. You honestly think most guys don't think this way? Has the dozens of red pill content not shown you this? Your man doesn't care because that's how the autistic south works, but dont be fooled. MOST men, especially zoomers and millennials, think like your bf. They may not be as abrasive but they definitely think like your bf deep down. Especially if you're a typical woman not breaking any molds
>>33805442It’s somewhere in between. Women also hold unfair prejudices against men. Regardless if his feelings are just parroted or based on true observation does it really matter if your relationship is good. It’s also true anyway, he honest with yourself if your life was ever truly at stake would you trust a man or a woman? He’s being excessive about it, he’s probably stupid
>>33806140Exactly. I find it comical when my gf says I disrespect women but really it's just me treating her like the dumb woman she is, I dont hit or scream at her, I just let her know she isn't as smart or capable as she thinks simply because she has girl magic or whatever the fuck. It's good to ground your partner sometimes. Now if he was just going on red pill incel rants daily then I could see the problem.
>>33805442>women exist in a state of arrested development and are mentally equal to children>Can he really even love me if his worldview is so twisted to presume so much of half the world?can someone love a child?
He didn't even say it to your face, it was talk between men that you overheard just like how girl talk can sound "bad" to male ears. He's right anyway. It's not hateful, men enjoy taking care of women so it's not a bad thing that they're dumb and naive as long as they have a man to correct when they go astray. Women subconsciously view themselves as children and their partner as "the adult" and this is largely correct.
>>33806086>Why do you think women were second class citizens for all time?>hint: it's because they're emotionally driven sex objects with zero agencyAnd just like that... this is officially a troll thread. OP, disregard every reply you read from this point onwards.
>>33806161>I find it comical when my gf says I disrespect women but really it's just me treating her like the dumb woman she islmao seriously OP just delete 4chan from your bookmarks there's nothing useful here
>>33806185>>33806202She's not gonna fuck you bro
>>33806120>since women don't mentally mature, they're perfect for rearing actual children due to being almost similar in mindset. Do the millions of female teachers over men not tip you off to this?lol oh god OP lol just leave now and save yourself from this shit lol
>>33806204lol I already have a girlfriend lmao
>>33805442He's absolutely correct and I can tell because you have assumed based on that one comment that he perfectly fits a trope introduced to you by politically biased mediaWomen always vote against their own interests. They want a man who earns more, but also that's misogyny and government should redistribute money from men to women.That's the sort of doublethink only possible for the mentally challenged
>>33805442Men aren't capable of emotional intelligence or genuine love, the closest thing they can muster is a sense of possessiveness because their brains are wired to combat/conquer even when society has evolved to permit more peaceful lifestyles and coexistence. Your bf will never "love" you OP, he's just not capable of it. You're better off becoming a lesbian if you want real love.
>>33805442I am a man and think you should dump him over this. Him being from the south doesn't mean shit. So am I.
>>33806267This is the same shit in reverse btw
>>33806223>>33806202And yet I can attract a woman enough to have one even with this mindset and so is OP's bf. Good day you jaded cunt :3
>>33806281Doesn't make it any less true. Men are just projecting their own inadequacies onto women and trying to use it to keep women oppressed.
>>33806378If men wanted to "oppress" women they could have you naked locked up in a cage with zero rights to be used as a breeding sow within 24 hours99% of western men are extremely nice to women and give them every allowance and affordance possible. We respect your rights so much that we won't even stop you from actively trying to ruin our entire civilization because that would be "mean". You can't name a single right you don't have that men do in the west.
>>33806326>and so is OP's bflol well he ain't keeping her for long lol that's for sure
This is evident to any man who ever had a relationship with a woman lmao. The bickering, the insecurities over dumb shit, the shit tests etc all make it clear that you're not dealing with someone on the same mental level of development. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, he just accidentally dropped a truth nuke near you and you heard it by accident. He should have been more careful imo.
>>33806378I think the biggest mistake made by femminist authors is assuming we care about women and actively want to oppress them. In reality, we just don't care. Oppression was a tool to force men and women to remain married and to be good husbands and wives. In ancient Rome it was literally illegal to be a bachelor past a certain age, for instance.But now, with women's suffrage and the decline of the institution of marriage, it should be pretty clear that men don't really care. Men deprived of patriarchy have basically no reason to get married and the only people trying to LARP traditional marriage back into existence are incels, and that's only when they don't become apathetic and just coom to 2d women instead.
Who gives a fuck whether she's right and he's wrong or vice versa. No matter which one of them is right, they're incompatible. To all the people in the comments saying he's based and she should stay, would he be happy with someone who's that uncooperative?Leave him, whether it's because you're the problem or he's the problem is up to you, but you two clearly cannot get along. Let him find a wife that enjoys being a second class citizen and find yourself a man who sees you as an equal.
>>33806709Yeah, what this fucker said.
>>33806653Women are annoying but they don't act like children.>>33806396This is not the rebuttal you think it is. Someone being stronger than someone else doesn't mean they're doing you a favor by not simply bending you to their will through sheer physical force.
>>33805442Considering you view everything else about him in a positive light, how long have you known him? If it's only for a couple months, even up to a year, then maybe he's putting on a good act.But assuming he's genuine, then I'd be inclined to interpret it more charitably (he really dug himself into a hole by his explanation, but he might have been trying to rationalize what he said on the spot), because how he treats you is more important than phrasing that makes you upset (but you're well within the rights to be hurt by it, and to talk about it with him). Just as a verbal apology or agreement with you doesn't mean much if his heart isn't in it--although I don't know what he actually thought in the moment.>I work a full time shift at work just like he does, but I still do more upkeep around the house and he has the nerve to say I'm somehow mentally less than he is?Say this in a more diplomatic/non-accusatory way. Say how it made you feel and have a discussion about it. Try not to make it an interrogation or a dressing down, but make it clear that it's something important for you to talk through--basically, give him a chance to explain himself in detail.>Can he really even love me if his worldview is so twisted to presume so much of half the world?I'd find out what he actually thinks before you make the worst interpretation possible of what he said. Your concern is perfectly legitimate, but if you'd like a way to resolve it other than breaking up (which is within your rights), you have to allow the possibility that he just put his foot in his mouth.Anyway the most charitable explanation is that he made a sweeping generalization you're not part of and/or repeated something he read that caught his attention. Thinking that modern women in general have arrested development thanks to social media and a tendency for people to mob any sort of criticism isn't wrong, for example (nor is the modern manchild phenomenon).
>>33805442>I am...at Aldi is getting fanart nowwhat a world
>>33807029Is that a meme?
>>33805442Hello child, he may not be perfect but branch swinging can only get you so far. You made this thread so you can justifiy your chaotic lilith energy present in all vaginas. There is nothing wrong with what he said and unless you plan on going lesbian and cutting the ability to love men out of your life then I suggest you think about the fact that he said all women and not you specifically.
>>33806858>Someone being stronger than someone else doesn't mean they're doing you a favor by not simply bending you to their will through sheer physical force.yes it doesnot brutalising anything you don't like is a very new idea
>>33805606>Speaking as a man, um... break up with him?You come across as a giant faggot when you post stuff like this.
>>33807177I don't care :)
>>33807217We know.
this is the funniest thread I read so farthe type of delusional shit incels come up with is on par with flat earthers, thanks for the laugh faggots
>>33807339Which incels are you talking about? The ones that believe women are children?
>>33805617You sound like an idiot I wouldn't be surprised if you were the boyfriend saying that as well as comments like >>33805559Horrible
>>33806113UNFORTUNATELY MAJORITY OF COMMENTS IN THIS THREAD ARE NOW THE FAGGOT BOYFRIEND WHO IS SAME FAGGING
Really sad to see and hopefully Op is able to see this and dump the shitter. Being insecure fagot and spamming the thread to influence her is spineless pathetic behavior
>>33805442Yeah he loves you... Like a puppy. Gender norms are weird for men right now. You're either a masculine man in which case you're likely sexist. The way of man in regards to women is dominance and providing. It is only natural to regard them as lesser.Or you're one of the simps of feminism. If they're true believers in equality then they don't develop. Everyone is of equal regard so why improve? Thus they're men of mediocrity and low worth. "If everyone is super then no one will be." If they're of the pop feminism type then they hold women on a pedestal and thus cannot be your equal. Masculine values tend to be pretty shunned in feminism and thus the men are soft. Neither is really a good option from a woman's perspective. If a man doesn't develop any worthwhile qualities, of what worth is he? Can he even be attractive? If a man is masculine he'll treat you as a lesser and possibly resent you.
>If a man is masculine he'll treat you as a lesser and possibly resent you.Behavior you're describing is of someone who is spineless and So insecure of themselves that they have to judge others this way just to feel better about themselves often projecting their own insecurities on them. A real man sees her as an equal comment an individual who is just born as a different sex and has different life experiences. That doesn't make her less than. She is not defined by her sex, but by her individual choices and who she chooses to be, as well as who she naturally is, her truth. That is the core of it that is how she is seen and charged by others truly. Ops bf is a insecure spineless child who feels like puffing up his chest on the playground will make people respect him. No all it does is make other see how insecure he is
>>33807559Men otherwise than I stated are uncommon which is kind of the point.>A real man sees her as an equal comment an individual who is just born as a different sex and has different life experiences.The ideology of the weak who put everyone on the same level.
>>33807559> her truthHillary lost, m8
>>33807588>>33807618Exactly the spineless child I was describing Pathetic Not a man, needs to grow up still
>>33807655People who embrace the ideology of total equality can't face their own weakness. All they have is words like spineless for not bowing the knee.
>>33805442all males hate women
>>33805606all males hate women, and if she breaks up with him, you'll call him a victim.>>33805617males admit that they will all commit rape if they think they can get away with it. males have LESS self-control than a child, and are objectively the inferior gender>>33805738moids are only good for money. not even mocking you, this is just true.>>33806086moids are the ones who admit that they are simple creatures who will all commit rape if they think they can get away with it. moids are the inferior gender.you say that women lack agency, yet you refuse to control yourself, and you believe what every moid believes.>>33806175moids love making shit up instead of taking accountability. moids hate women, and if you didnt, you wouldnt be violent wild animals
>>33807835>all males hate women, and if she breaks up with him, you'll call him a victim.No, I do not hate women, and no I absolutely will not call him a victim. She needs to leave his ass.
>>33807835You will never be a woman and I'm sorry for your gay boyfriend who made you like this.
>>33808220kek
>>33808078you males admit that you just want women to suffer>>33808220im a virgin and not trans.
