This is an extremely long story so I want to make it short and see what you folks would do in my situation>be married>brother in law starts dating new girl 4 years back>girl reminds me of all my ex-gfs before I got married>she gravitates toward me in any room, I can always feel her eyes on me, this weird magnetism>we like the same music, she laughs at everything I say, asks follow-up questions>even in a crowded room, music playing, if I'm talking to someone else, she's listening in on the conversation and will comment on it like she's been >BIL treats her like shit, ignores her, talks over her>she mentions how hot my wife is all the time>she gets interested in whatever subject I'm talking about>my wife absolutely hates her fucking guts and says so all the time, but has no choice but to see her all the time because we live right by my BIL>I tell my wife I think this girl is dumb/ugly just to make my wife feel better (wife was much better looking than this girl when we got married, but wife put on 150 pounds after we got married and this girl still has a cheerleader body)>she always figures out a way to bump into me or touch me somehow anytime we're around each other (feet under the table, handing me a glass and her fingers touch mine, slapping my arm/chest when I make a joke)>she's usually really quiet and shy until I say a few words to her and she opens up>when we all drink together, she's always trying to match me. She'll look at me and ask if it's time for shots. >she has great big deer-in-headlight eyes and her gaze lingers on me for far longer than it should>she once bent over in front of me in a short skirt and let her entire ass hang out for two full seconds knowing I was the only one behind her. Once at a pool party, her nipple popped out and I was the only one who noticed. I gestured at her, warning her it had popped out, and she gave me a knowing smile before fixing it.I've been around this girl now for years bros. The fuck do I do?
>>33806099Stay the fuck away from your brother's wife jesus christ. You should probably leave your poor "wife" as well, who to you seems more like a friend or annoying roommate. And this is how all your relationships will end up like unless you do some serious growing up.
Hit it. Secretly at first, then leave your fat wife and her brother high and dry. It'll be funny and exciting.
You probably shouldn't cheat on your wife, OP.
>>33806358How would they find the opportunity to do that? It is pretty depraved to suggest something so evil.
>>33806381They live near each other, it would be easy. Both just make an excuse to leave for a bit. Or secretly take off work. Couples still have seperate lives.
>>33806324I'm in my mid-30s and this shit has been going on for years. >>33806368I've successfully not cheated on her all this time man
>>33806099I know she sounds like the perfect cute girl for you but this girl is showing you in no uncertain terms that she's a huge slut who will stoop so low as to flash men and drink herself stupid for a crumb of attention.
>>33807845I understand this and mostly think of her this way. But she is usually around other men and still prefers my attention. It's almost like my wife and BIL connected us together in a weird way. I feel like I'm going to live the rest of my life knowing the ONE is right there, but we can never share any kind of intimacy. I guess that's all right.
>>33806324I've tried leaving her multiple times, but I always end up staying. I don't have it in me to cheat/leave her. But yeah, she feels like a roommate.
>>33806099don't listen to this incel >>33806324run away with your brother in law's gf. You have no kids, zero obligations to live with a fat landwhale that just consumes and lives off the comfort you give and possibly the house or food or goods that you pay for.Do not settle, you have ONE life.
>>33808117nigger don't implode your entire family for some whore who will eventually do the same to you. These 'teehee look at me' married women should be shot in the head, and you're a fucking queer if you think she won't monkey branch away from you in the same manner once you 'elope' and have your fantasy.Ignore her completely and move the fuck on. Also leave your fat wife, 150 pounds is a whole ass person.
>>33806099grass is always greener until it isnt. chasing grass vs cultivating grass is what sets apart dogs from men.
