I am a 25 yo male. I have a job, I have some sort of a social circle, even people outside of my family have called me attractive. And yet I have nevet felt a touch of a femoid. Why? What the fuck am I doing wrong?
>>3380658>people outside of my family have called me attractive. They were just being nice. Serial killer pedo lookin style no offence. Grow out bangs to hide your 5head and get different glasses (rec rayban classic style for your face shape). Pluck your eyebrows to make the border neater and less autistic looking. Grow out a beard with minoxidil to hide the asymmetrical jaw. Ditch the robot black hoodies. For skincare something with arbutin like hada labo whitening toner can get rid of freckles. Honestly I would dye your hair eyebrows beard and lashes black to draw attention to your eyes.
>>33806623>Serial killer pedo lookin styleLmao
>>33806581>What the fuck am I doing wrong?Lack of confidence, probably.
>>33806667>confidenceThat's a massive cope
Don’t post your picture on here. But the reason why you don’t have one isn’t confidence or anything like that it’s luck. You can raise your chances of getting one by of course working on yourself and your social skills and game, but it’s still luck. When you see a fat retard dating a 9/10 like I did even though he’s not rich you’ll get the idea. Constantly putting yourself down by saying you never have one will make your cold streak even worse. My advice is go out of the country like I’m doing and fuck some whores just to blow off that negative energy
>>33806581Drop the glasses and lean out your jawline and take neurotypical pictures outside like you have a life and you'll be doing fine on tinder.
>>33806581You have to talk to them, you can't wait for women to come to you. Also, you need to hit the gym.
Dont post ur face here.Also get some beard, get lenses for when u go outdoors and lose the butthurt autismal expression.
>>33806581Don't get a beard, do this >>33807082Also, smile.
You look depressed and sociable
>>33807121*unsociable
>>33806581have you tried asking women for dates?
>>33806581>I am a 25 yo male. I have a jobThere will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.>some sort of a social circleand what some sort of a social circle might that look like?
>>33807194>and what some sort of a social circle might that look like?your mom
>>33806581Bro.For some people it’s not meant to be. Sex and love is not something everyone gets.
>>33806697>That's a massive copeNo, it's objective reality. Women are more attracted to confidence than they are to anything else. Just shy of my 24th birthday I was a full-blown khhv incel; I now have a body count of 40 and I just celebrated my thirteenth anniversary with a lovely Italian lady who makes me very happy. Literally the ONLY thing that changed between me being a full-on incel and me getting laid was me learning how to fake confidence convincingly. That's all it takes.
>>33807222Maybe that’s not in his personality
>>33807194>their fuckin job as if that even mattersKek, I've gotten laid so many times as a jobless bum. Can honestly say it doesn't matter at all. The only thing that matters to women is having good energy and they can smell a fake from a mile away.
Haha don’t call them femoid. Just relax and get comfortable hanging around the opposite sex without trying to force touching.
>>33807230>Maybe that’s not in his personalityDoesn't matter. He doesn't have to *be* confident, just mimic it convincingly.
>>33806581Have you ever shown genuine initiative throughout the entire process? Not just asking them out, although you probably haven't even done that, but during the date, on the way home, on the second date?Women very rarely make the first move. It took me way too long to figure this out. You either make things happen or things won't happen.
>>33806581>call women femoids>why don't femoids touch me?
>>33806581For a start, you're the type of person who seriously uses words like femoid. If you're the type of person who does that, then you exude creep energy. Leave this website, stop listening to incel/manosphere garbage, and then you'll have an infinitely better shot.
>>33806581Get some contact lenses.Shave the pedo stubble.You actually have a nice face and hair.And work on your mental stuff, you seem unhappy with life. Women pick up on that a mile away.
>>33807947>>33808113Do you niggers realise, that I DON'T USE such type of language in real life? How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense my ""creep energy""/"""bad personality"""/whatever noncense you are talking? Irl I'm able to speak without any problems with me female coworkers/groupmates in university. >>33807194>There will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers? Those faggots say that the bar is soooo fucking low, and yet I can't find a gf/ons/fwb, while being employed/without bad hygiene/having hobbies.
>>33808474How often do you meet them? It doesn't matter if you can clear the bar if you never go anywhere near it.
>>33807194>There will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.Wrong. That is a rarity as very few incels have jobs.
>>33807082The absolute state of normie advice. Meanwhile reality..
>>33806581It's likely social. Are you social circles all dudes? You also need to be spending time with women and going out on dates. If your female friends aren't hooking you up, you could mention to one that you're want to try dating somebody. Although they might get weirded out if they think you want to date them. That or get on a dating app as soul draining as that is.
>>33808474Seeing how you're referring to women as "cum dumpsters" shows your inner attitude. You might mask it and not say anything like how you type on here in public, and maybe you're just typing it out to be edgy because it's 4chan, but if you truly deep down in your soul think of women as cum dumpsters. They will 100% sense your attitude in how you carry yourself. You have to be a damn good actor to hide your darkness for them not to sense it.
>>33808474>How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense my ""creep energy""/"""bad personality"""/whatever noncense you are talking?NTA, but they can sense it effortlessly, I'm afraid. You don't understand non-verbal communication because you're autistic, but women are very good at it.
>>33808819>Are you social circles all dudes?Yep. I have basically zero female friends. >>33808574Kinda rare, ngl. I have a very small amount of matches on the dating apps, so it's kinda hard for me to get a date...
>femoidlmao
>>33808474>Irl I'm able to speak without any problems with me female coworkers/groupmates in university.Ok. So, what do you think, those women in your life think of you? Do they like talking to you? Do they share personal stories with you? Do they laugh at your jokes? Do they suggest you come have coffee, breakfast, lunch with them?
>>33808474It's not that they can sense you use the language here, retard. It's that they can sense you're the type to use it to begin with.You think you're hiding that you think of them as femoids and cumdumpsters from them, but trust me you're not.>Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers?Some incels have jobs and some don't. Neetcels and careercels both exist as valid subspecies of incel and we see them both here. But I'd argue more of the latter, it's amazing how many faggot OPs start their posts off with "I have a job, where's my gf?"Also you seem well versed in what they say on reddit, maybe you should go back there.>and yet I can't find a gf/ons/fwb, while being employed/without bad hygiene/having hobbies.And what have you done to find a gf? Having hygiene and a job is not an acceptable answer here by the way. And why should you have a ons or fwb at all? What makes you worthy of that? Just because you want it?
>>33808814Look at the post you're replying to and actually read it retard.That anon said take better pictures. You post a shot of another bad picture that didn't work. Were you actually setting out to prove his point or...?
>>33806581You are mid but also have an asymmetrical face, which brings you below mid, which is also a death sentence in front of women as they subconsciously reject you based on asymmetry.
>>33807222Can you give an example? Was it how you carried yourself/pulled off outfits?
Sweet another girl advice thread where the only advice is "just be confident, take a shower, dont be an incel :^)"
>>33809336>And what have you done to find a gf?Creating a Tinder account is not enough? Asking out femodis irl is not enough? What answer do you want from me, you brain dead imbecile? >And why should you have a ons or fwb at all? What makes you worthy of that? Just because you want it?Ok, fine, nigger. I am not entitled to sex. I will just wallow in all that anger and hatred till I'll go completly insane, or commit suicide or go ER.Are you satisfied, moron?
>>33806581FYou’re cute objectively but you look mentally ill, misogynistic and evil>>33806623>pluck eyebrowsDon’t follow any of this dude’s suggestions>>33806581
>>33810027>Creating a Tinder account is not enough?Not really. It's something, but it's still one of the most passive, low-risk approaches possible.>Asking out femodis irl is not enough?Ok, so describe what happened? Where and when did you do it? Where did you ask her out to? How long did you know her for? What did the "femoid" say?>I will just wallow in all that anger and hatred till I'll go completly insane, or commit suicide or go ER.Lmao, what a weak-willed, melodramatic little bitch.
>>33810038>Don’t follow any of this dude’s suggestionsDon't sabotage him, he needs to learn how to style himself and hide the psycho expression. I got immediate female warning bells seeing his pic.
>>33806581you want the real truth anon, film yourself talking about something, we are losing mannerisms, tone of voice, if you act socially awkward etc. But I'd reccomend ditching the glasses, and growing out your hair to medium length in the least.
>>33808814you don't get it dude, dating apps are for whores because they are for hookups not longterm dating. They just dick farm the hottest guy to bounce on their cock, not for anything serious.
>>33810038He has aspie face, aspies will act misogynistic and evil often if they are male, but aspies aren't like that when you dig deeper. Anyways the dahmer glasses don't help him.
>>33808474the language you use is a direct expression of your values and morals and personality - there is no difference between "real life" and the internet. The guy who chooses to be talking about cum dumpsters and femoids and all this tryhard incel shit is still the same guy who goes around buying groceries and working a job and living his daily life. Even if you're not calling women femoid female foid roastie broken goods used cum dumpsters and the rest of the incel language to their face - you're still the same guy who uses that language on the internet, and those ideas bouncing around in your head don't stop when you walk away from the computer.
>>33808474>Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers?do they? I haven't been on the site in years, let alone whatever specific posts from whatever specific subreddit you're being mad at here.Some incels are complete NEETs, of course. Probably just as many if not more aren't, they just happen to focus on school and grades and work and money and buying cars all the while ignoring women and/or being unable to form social connections with them.Mostly because all they do is work/gym/sleep
>>33810999shut up you fucking legbeard, go back to crystalcafe. I have a wife who loves me, and I still call women foids, most of these women are trash, not my girl, but the vast majority of you bitches are FERAL.
>>33811104>and I still call women foidswhat'd you call them before 2025? you been on 4chan all your life?
>>33811104>most of these women>the vast majorityfakecel, real ones hate 1000% of all women
>>33810999And how does this manifest
>>33811283>And how does this manifestnotably by your lack of gf and female friends, even male friends you said you only had a few and "some sort of social circle"you look angry/annoyed all the time, you avoid social situations, you can't enjoy nice normal things, etc.
>>33806581You look hard to approach and you probably don't approach them. You have a good face but again you got a mean look. Also you call them femoids like lol.>>33811283You probably subscribe to the ressentiment morals of 4chan. This attitude of life is harsh, not worth living, unfair, etc. Women are the ultimate arbiters of life. If you're weak and follow the morals of the weak women will not select you in the same way life won't.
>>33809336>It's not that they can sense you use the language here, retard. It's that they can sense you're the type to use it to begin with.ntabut fucking how? i’m not autistic but i don’t go around “sensing” shit like this about people. i just take them as they present themselves, like a normal person. and that means i “sense” very little about people, because they don’t give me any info to work with
>>33806581>femoidThat you use words like this is a sign that your mind is infected with the ick.
>>33807370It’s not something you can fake. People can tell when you’re faking it. I know this from experience.
>>33808474yeah you got us. there is no way that anyone as self-aware as you might actually be putting out really creepy vibes without knowing it. you are, after all, very intelligentgood luck never being capable of introspection, that will get you far with women
>>33806581stopping calling women femoids and cum dumpsters is a good startyou mentioned having a job, is there any women that work with you? my parents meet each other while working, i think it works. you could approach them, ask them about their lives and stuff,
>>33806581Could be anything really, women can get the ick for thousands of small reasons. Maybe you don't smile enough and have a constant resting bitch face, you don't try to be funny / have a good vibe, not talking enough. Btw, get contacts the glasses distrort your face.
>>33806581I am way uglier than you, and have gotten laid. It's your fault at this point man.
>>33806581>What the fuck am I doing wrong?described what happened the last 3 times you actively tried to fuck a woman
>>33811949>i’m not autistic>i just take them as they present themselves, like a normal personYou sure about that? Most normal people can pick up on someone's attitude or bad vibes pretty quickly.Well, maybe I should say *some* normal people, because I guess it's true that a lot of people out there are pretty oblivious.
>>33813465>I don't feel anything towards you, I'm sorry, it has nothing to do with you and bla bla bla >You are weird and schizoid>ghosting That's basically all.
>>33812517>is there any women that work with you?Basically, there are no women at my workplace. I was able to meet females only through the social cirle and dating apps.
>>33813694>You are weird and schizoidThere you got it. How much more straightforward do you need it?
>>33813694it's fine. rejection sucks but you're trying so you're on the right track.are you exclusively going after conventionally attractive women?
>>33807222I will agree insofar that confidence indeed is huge.At the same time, most guys here won't even figure out how to fake it.And it's hard to explain.
just take better pics and start with tinder also are you a American?
how do guys like him get chicks like her? he looks worse than OP and he's not even a famous musician
>>33808825>They will 100% sense your attitudeYeah like how they sense every scumbag and think they can fix himWomen are notorious for being bad at noticing anything, and being attracted to worse
>>33813716>are you exclusively going after conventionally attractive women?I'm not that braindead, anon. Like, I'm trying to hit on a cute girls, not the IG type >>33813732>are you a American?Sadly, I'm not :c
>>33813765>I'm trying to hit on a cute girlI'd suggest lowering your standards as a way to get some practice & success. the >nevet felt a touch of a femoidthing is already a problem and will only get more serious with age(lack of preselection in the eye of potential mates, and mental blocks for you)You're a healthy male, you'll be able to get it up when it matters, even if she's not that cute.>older women>single moms>(reasonably) overweight>mid black womenetc. fuck a few of those. success will breed confidence. then go for cuter girls.
>>33808474this next level spergout tells me everything i need to know about why you have never known the touch of a "femoid"
>>33808474in more detail; you clearly have a superiority complex and think you are better than others, which seeps into your interactions whether you know it or not. your face looks like a serial killer or potential school shooter from the picture. and your personality as shown by your posts isn't much different. you look like you're one bad day away from writing a manifesto.whatever "creep" energy is, you exude it, because you look and feel dangerous and unhinged, and trying to keep it under wraps work just give you patrick bateman in american psycho vibes.all in all, your best option here is to either do hallucinogens to reset your brain fully or off yourself
>>33812023No, people can tell when YOU are faking it.>>33806623Everything this poster says after "offence" is wrong & faggotted
>>33808474Fix your nigger language."How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense...?"should be"How the fuck CAN cum dumpsters sense...?also"Then why normgroids on reddit always blame incels in (BITCH WHAT?) being..."should be"Then why DO normgroids (use any other word here, you stupid, likely trolfaggot) always blame incels FOR being"You speak like a fucking Indian. Fix that, along with everything else about your valueless self. If English isn't your 1st language, don't "refine" it on the internet - web parlance is commonly derived from aolspeak/giving niggers phones.Furthermore, you look like someone who calls themselves Scandinavian, but isn't blonde. Good luck fixing that.
>>33813755I am now convinced that this is an AI testnobody is this stereotypicalvalidation not required
>>33811949hello, mr makebelieveYou said you aren't autistic, but you described Autism.
>>33806581I'm not sure how tall you are but if you're 6ft 1 or above its really easy to get a gf if you approach a bunch of girls everyday. If you can't approach a girl you will never get a woman, this is the reality.
>>33809346This shithole just reeks off Reddit. The real advice is in those reply somewhere. albeit. For me, I smile more (women compliment my smile a lot). It's just "vibes" like how the foids said. And they aren't going to smell your energy you fucking retarded Reddit normgroids. Most bitches don't even understand what foids mean, and if they like your vibe or even love you, they just don't give a shit.
>>33814007there's also a culture aspect to it guys from western countries have it easier when it comes to approaching women as its a normal thing in western culture than it is asian
>>33813612>>33813939i was tested a few times as a kid and they all came back negative
>Local incel who has spent the last 3 days on 4chan having melties about foids and cum dumpsters is convinced that no one can tell he's a 4chan incel
>>33813755Your badboy chad scumbags are at least able to pretend to be normal for a minute to talk to women. Their charisma and social skills are actually through the roof.You're unable to navigate to the social dynamics of posting anonymously on 4chan, nevermind trying to flirt with women.
>>33814007Height is a cope. I'm about 6 feet tall, and yet I'm an incel, despite all my efforts...
>>33814204You might not be "autistic" in a medical sense but you're still clueless, dense, naive...whatever terminology you want to put to it.
>>33806581Girls can smell your insecurity
>>33806581>Are there any reasons, why am I still an incel?Number one is you refer to yourself as an incel. You need to eject everything you've learned from the internet, not because it's wrong, but because parasocial internet use has made you retarded, and you need to revert to an earlier version of your operating system that can function in meatspace. This is not up for debate, this is not wrong, if you can't do this then everything else is a nonstarter. That being said why do YOU think you're still where you are? Are you a loser autist weirdo? Please be honest.
>>33814260There's like seven checkboxes and each one makes you significantly more valuable. Height is just one box.
>>33814431i want a detailed, point by point breakdown of the tells for insecurity
>>33814454NTA but my experience the biggest tells anons on here give are. >Avoidance of vulnerability>omg I dont want to do X because it would mean I have face the fact im a fucking loser>People pleasing>im so nice and i never say no to people why dont they respect or like me?>Jealousy or possessivenessother people dont seem to have to try and they have everything and I have shit we live in a society!>Attention seeking>im so smart and correct why doesnt everyone like me for how smart and correct i am about shit nobody cares about >Black and white thinking>Comparison obsession>Hypercritical inner voiceThere's also>Overly rigid posture or forced confidence>Inconsistent eye contact>Nervous habits>Smirking or mocking expressions>Need for control over imageThere's more but these are the main ones I usually see in anons here.
>>33813748Is that sophie? Need
>>33806581You lack agency. I don't know how. I don't know why. But you do.
>>33806581>I have a jobCongrats on achieving the absolute bare minimum expected of an adult. Did you want a medal?>I have a social circleLet me guess: D&D night and a discord server full of other guys who complain about "femoids.">people outside of my family have called me attractiveYour aunt doesn't count, and the barista was just being polite because she's paid to.>Why can't I feel the touch of a femoid?Because you just called her a "femoid." You radiate this bitter, resentful energy. You think you're hiding it, but you're not. They can smell it on you like cheap cologne. You reek of desperation and contempt, and nothing on earth is less attractive than that.
>>33806581You’re a good-looking guy, but a few tweaks could make a big difference: consider changing your glasses style, avoid looking at the camera too menacingly, and maybe rethink the black clothing — right now it gives off some unsettling vibes.I do like the Andy Dufresne haircut you’ve got going on.Also, for safety, it’s probably best not to post your picture here — not everyone has good intentions. That said, once you embrace your confidence and tweak your aesthetic choices, you’ll likely kill it on the apps.
>>33806581I really don't understand how in such threads about a guy not being able to find a girlfriend, no one suggests or discusses that you can fly to a country like the Philippines, Thailand or some other country in Africa and fuck for free.
>>33814475You just summed up at least 70% of this board
>>33814956OP doesn't strike me as someone who requires consent. I can't - in good conscience - suggest that he go to some poorer country & further ruin some child slave's life.Also, get rid of the shooting range/dad glasses, OP. Your stare just screams, "This is happening one way or another, whether you like it or not"
>>33814956Normal white men want normal white women you degenerate yellow monkey. Nobody wants your no name temu brand pussy.
>>33806581>I have a job>Why am I not getting pussies?There is your answer! You’re too busy to meet women. Take me for exemple. I’m a bum and I have all the time in the world to ask out as many women as possible until one of them say yes!
>>33806581>What the fuck am I doing wrong?Caring about pussy, retard. You care too much and it comes off as cringe. Doesn't matter how good looking you are, or how rich you are... desperate niggas will never get any unless they pay for it.
