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I'll go to my first date ever next Sunday. Before my question, I'd like to thank all the white-pilled hopemaxxed posters who give sensible, well thought and useful advice for those in need. So, the thing is, what are the dos and dont's of a first date? My main intention is to know her better. Since I'm somehwhat broke I don't really have money to show off.
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>>33807319
DO:
go for a kiss within the first 3 minutes
DONT:
pay for the meal
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>>33807319
Don't treat your dates as friends. The point isn't just to "get to know them better", but rather it's to understand whether or not you're interested in them as a romantic and/or sexual partner. If this person is to be your fuck buddy/gf/wife you should treat them as such by being outwardly forward with your intentions. If you're interested you should show romantic interest and if you're not interested then end things there.
As for paying there are a range of different attitudes towards it. My philosophy is that I'm not willing to pay for someone if I'm not willing to eat the loss.
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>>33809386
>as a romantic and/or sexual partner.
How do you work towards that goal?
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>>33809806
together. both putting in a little extra effort.
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>>33807319
>Since I'm somehwhat broke I don't really have money to show off.
I'd be fascinated to hear your strategy. Broke $0 is a lot trickier than like $20 each budget.
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>>33809859
I mean, how do you avoid acting as a friend and letting the other you could be interested in her/him as a sexual or life partner
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>>33810148
grab them romanticly, kiss them, physical interactions. maybe even erotic communication. love letters? actions?
i dunno mf'r, figure out her love language and express yours?
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>>33810151
>grab them romanticly, kiss them, physical interactions
from the get go? OP is going on his first date and I'm having a 1st date with this girl, the fuck



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