Is a healthy interracial relationship even possible? No resentment, no guilt, cultural differences aren't a big problem, both see each other as humans? Also, not into "raceplay" and don't want my marriage to be a political statement.
>>33809987I'm fully Asian and prefer Asian guys. thought my bf (he's dark skinned and dark eyed like me) was Filipino but learned he's Mexican. I think he's very attractive, we haven't had problems in our relationship, but this information means it would have new implications if he or his family called me a slur.Btw my only other crush was my Asian ex boyfriend, he broke up with me.
>>33809993There were Mexicans in the Philippines and Filipinos in Mexico during the Spanish rule over both nations.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mexican_settlement_in_the_Philippineshttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanish_Filipinoshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filipino_immigration_to_Mexico
>>33809987>No resentment, no guilt, cultural differences aren't a big problem,If it doesn't affect you, why care? Exploit it
>>33809993Filipinos are essentially the mexicans of asians anyway so it's not that big of a change.
>>33809987Yes, that's possible. t. white guy with south Asian girlfriend
>>33809987No.Minorities want a mate of the superior white race, which is understandable.Whites who date minorities ALWAYS do it because of rebellion (jej) or because they have no other options.
>>33809987I won't read race-mixing threads.
>>33810181I think the idea is that in an interracial marriage, external factors affect your relationship much moreFor example if you're a white woman married to a black man then news stories of black criminals murdering white women will make you more uncomfortable than if you were married to a white man.If we assume OP is Chinese then reading the history of, say, anti-Chinese sentiment in Mexico would be more painful. Of course the Chinese aren't always welcomed in the Philippines either but if the two people look similar to each other then a lot of potential problems go away.>>33810235Honest question, are you truly not bothered by anti-western sentiments from Indians and Pakistanis? Or is your wife the white looking sort of south Asian so it's fine?
>>33810263Is it less ugly if they're both minorities? Though there still is the issue of mixed people having difficulty finding organ donors
>>33810355>Honest question, are you truly not bothered by anti-western sentiments from Indians and Pakistanis? I've never encountered any anti-western sentiments from Indians and Pakistanis. Her family may have originally come from India, but if you ask either of her parents where they're from, they wouldn't say "India". They were both born here. And I've known several dozen people of Indian descent really quite well - at school, at university, at work - and not one of them has ever expressed any anti-western sentiments, nor even hinted that anyone they know ever has.>Or is your wife the white looking sort of south Asian so it's fine?She doesn't look white, no, but I don't really see how that's relevant.
>>33810427You will see plenty of anti-western sentiments from Indians on twitter. You can also find plenty of anti-Indian sentiment from westerners and other people. I am not white but if I was, both would make me uncomfortable with dating an Indian.
>>33810530>You will see plenty of anti-western sentiments from Indians on twitter.Why the fuck would I ever want to go on there? Seriously, social media "influencers" are not in any way representative of normal, ordinary, healthy people. Their only priority is to get NOTICED, and the way they do that is to adopt the most extreme positions possible. Chances are, even they don't believe most of what they say.
>>33810355Chinese intermixed with Filipinos alot, arond 25% of Filipinos are part Chinese. Far more than the mixed Spanish-Filipinos who are merely 5% and the mixed Mexican-Filipinos who are 2% of the country.
>>33809987I'm a white guy, my fiance is from the Carribean so she's mixed black and Indian. >No resentment, no guilt, cultural differences aren't a big problem, both see each other as humans? No resentment, no guilt, cultural differences have actually been very fun for us (mostly food, traditions, the way we celebrate things) and something we're excited to share with eachother. It's all been super compatible and complimentary. We respect, admire and appreciate one another deeply.>Also, not into "raceplay" and don't want my marriage to be a political statement.You'd be pleasantly surprised at how quickly race stops mattering.
>>33810235cuck
>>33810413Have you even seen something like that? I think I have only ever seen sea+indian irl.And mixed abominations dying off is good, anyway.
>>33811204>child is dying>"Well anon doesn't like you so that's fine"I know several Asians in interracial marriages with whites and I can imagine some of them unironically believing that. This is a good reason to not race mix, generally speaking. People who do it are often mentally unwell.>have you ever seen a non-white marrying a non-white of another raceActually yeah, I have, come to think of it the marriages between Asians and Blacks or between Whites and Georgians seem to be much less awful in nature than the Asian White ones. Alan Keyes was one of the only genuine black conservatives and he married a dark skinned Indian
>>33810235>white fags thinking other races date them for love and not a status larpLol of course you'd vouch for race mixing, gotta have muh waifu geisha right?
>>33809987if you're a white guy you pretty much have to play into the BWC superior seed fetish. it makes everything better for both parties.
I'm a Jew and we have a lot of international relationships where the common thing is our faith. I suspect this may be a good point to learn from.
>>33811627South Asian, not East Asian.
>>33809987People can be individualists and form their own values. Not everyone is part of the herd.
>>33811771My bad pimp.
>>33811627Asian women who want white men always want "blue eyed mixed children" and it's creepy as fuck. White men who marry Asian women are either retarded liberals, or misogynists who think they're marrying a submissive wife but will end up with incel sons and a lifetime of regret.Black man/ Asian woman relationships seem healthier on the surface, but then there's the uncomfortable feeling they probably experience hearing a news story of a black guy punching an Asian granny.I really wouldn't advocate it unless maybe both parties are minorities in their society and look similar enough to each other >>33811652They'll just have incel sons and prevent a white child from being born in the future. No serious white nationalist would marry out
>>33809987you are asking for advice about healthy relationships on 4chan, dude. moids are so retarded.
>>33809987>Is a healthy interracial relationship even possible?Yes. Obviously.
>>33809987No, there's always something. The fetishists will claim it's fine, but they inevitably strip their kids of identity for the sake of their selfish experiment.
yeah, it’s called stop caring about race lmao. impossible for both the average chud and average leftist.
>>33809987>No resentment, no guilt, cultural differences aren't a big problem, both see each other as humans?This is a problem that 90% of the grass touching population doesn't have. Also, cultural difference have nothing to do with race. A white guy from San Francisco and a white guy from rural Louisiana have absolutely nothing in common despite having identical skin color. Spending too much time on this website has actually brain fucked an entire generation of autistic virgins to fret over problems that only exist in their minds.
yes, normies do it all of the time. The only reason why you think it may not even be possible is because you're on the chud site that has brainwashed you into thinking of raceplay terms like "BBC" "BWC" "BLACKED" "BLEACHED" "COLONIZED" etc etc. Most people don't give a shit about race. This isn't reflective of my opinion, but yes, you can be happy in an interracial relationship.
>>33810355>if you're a white woman married to a black man then news stories of black criminals murdering white women will make you more uncomfortable than if you were married to a white manMost people don't view the world like this - "oh my god someone the same color as my partner did a bad thing now I'm uncomfortable". This is a very rare, silly and strikingly autistic mindset.
>>33811838>Asian women who want white men always want "blue eyed mixed children" and it's creepy as fuck. White men who marry Asian women are either retarded liberals, or misogynists who think they're marrying a submissive wife but will end up with incel sons and a lifetime of regret.
