im a virgin and i want to learn to lose my urge to be affectionate toward males.i only recently learned that moids hate women, and now im sad. i can handle the horniness in other ways but im sad that moids can never be fond of a woman and i wish moids were just honest about it. i thought the "friend" in boyfriend was literalis there any way i can stop yearning for something that does exist?also, not really related to anything, but i have a weird urge to lick a mans face? i have no idea why? do most women want to do that?
doesn't exist* ffs
You sure are here a lot. I can see you're not okay but maybe you should take a step back and breathe.Anyway, lusts and attractions are natural urges but you are suppress them if you really want. I'd suggest doing any activity that takes up a fair amount of mental bandwith.As far as face-licking goes I've seen it happen so I suppose it's normal enough. Probably go away after some time since it seems to be a thing younger girls do.
>>33810719Once you notice enough times how desperate and simpy men generally are, you'll find it easy to disregard them. Especially once you notice that the meaner and colder you act like as the woman, the more simpy men get towards you compared to when you're just nice and polite. Disgusting really lol.
>>33810719>also, not really related to anything, but i have a weird urge to lick a mans face? i have no idea why? do most women want to do that?Hell no, think about how little he washes his face. Just like you don't touch their hands, he's probably touched his penis with it already today
>>33810719Not all men hate women
>>33810780Half the posts on this board are about hating women my nigger
>>33810719???
>>33810719I won't read ATOGA escapees.
really? a bunch of clankers pretenting to be women on a forum with a bunch of sulky virgin men? what's the intent? to get me to comment? and then what? what happens after that? is it just pleasure for the dirty pajeet who runs these bots?fucking keep yourself safe saar
>>33810719>i only recently learned that moids hate womenwhich one are moids again?It's very fun and normal to have to learn a new meme language every 3 months
>>33810788That's like two anons spamming
>>33810719Hurt people are bitter. If you aren't hurt, don't skip to the bitter. Find a non-better moid to be happy with.I love my wife so much it's unreal.
I hate only very sparingly.I like the women in my social life.Sometimes I love one.Sometimes one loves me.Had some great times with that.
>>33810742i'm not talking about horniness but you dont understand that because youre a moid.i can just jack off but i cant change the fact that moids hate women, and im asking how do get rid of the desire to make a moid not hate me.i'm perfectly fine, and you must be here a lot if you recognize who i am>>33810760that's pretty much what i expect but i dont want to interact with moids in the first place :(>>33810780yes they do, and they always have. are you a 13 year old girl? moids talk about wanting to rape and torture women all the time. cant imagine what they say in private :/>>33810799what are you not understanding?>>33810887OK>>33811040i seriously dont know why y'all are like this>>33811044the ones who admit that theyll all commit rape if they think they can get away with it.>>33811066more like four billion>>33811187>>33811275i'm not talking about sex omg!! women have more complex desires than moids. i'm upset because im just now learning that moids are sadistic and dishonest to women.
>>33811770>i'm not talking about sex omg!! women have more complex desires than moids. i'm upset because im just now learning that moids are sadistic and dishonest to women.>>33811275 hereDo you spend time on >>>/r9k/ too? Don't.4chan in general is a terrible place to use as a reference about people.Plenty men like women, but you still have to look for decent ones.What I wrote is about a healthy relationship, mutual respect, affection, spending time together, experiencing things, making memories, a family...and possibly also having sex, but that really is kind of a bonus and not even necessary for at least some people.Yes I'm a guy, talking about relationships with women.
>>33812563again, I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX. i'm talking about the fact that moids want women to suffer.moids never respect wwomen. that's just not a thing that has ever happened.i'm sure what moids say in private is way worse than 4chan. 4chan is moderated after all.moids do not want to spend time with women. you treat it like a chore. "achieving an emotional connection with a chick is the gauntlet you have to run in order to fuck""decent man" is an oxymoronthere was a thread last night about how moids have a "duty" to rape women because we refuse to have sex with them.moids admit that "all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it."moids say that "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" even though much of what you do can only be explained by sadism
When is the last time you went outside and talked to a male?
>>33812969why the fuck would i do that? moids lie for sex. you are two-headed vipers.a moid only talks to a woman if he is trying to harm her
>>33812969i dont want brain damage from being choked dude. no reason why i would ever talk to a moid.
You seem interesting. That's all I have to say about that.
Seriously, take the advice you were given multiple times: seek help. Go to therapy. You are mentally unwell.
>>33813508Yeah, just gaslight her, that's crazy.
>>33810719It’s because women in their prime only share their body with men that aren’t virgin and then blame their choice on men for their problems when us men are still virgins in our 30s
>>33813647Imagine I am not a virgin anymore, but I still can pair-bound.What now?
>>33813710Depends how many you gave your body to and what races
>>33812964You are a chore, not most women.
can somebody proficient in stalking people on internet find her address and rape her? or if not then at least give that location to me and I will do that instead
>>33813906she’s not white
>>33810719Once you meet a guy you like and get some good dick, you will change your view entirely.
>>33812964I'm the person that you replied to.Either your reply is bait or you leave some things to be desired.How old are you?
>>33810719Rage bait thread. Please go away. Nobody is going to feel pity for you. Attraction is something ingrained into us as humans to proliferate, you can't get rid of it naturally. Once you recognize that not all men are like what you perceive, you will be happy and not sad.
>>33810719Get off of social media, man hating bs feminist shit is rotting your brain, incels on 4chan are the minority. Good men who love their gf and are friends with them are real. I've been with my gf for 3 years and we're best friends as well. You have to find an honest real man who trust you being in his life as a part of him. Also my gf loves licking my face, I like licking hers too. Idk why lol
>>33813508because i believe the things that moids say about themselves, because i think rape is bad, or because i dont want brain damage from choking?>>33813647i said im a virgin, retard. literally at the start of my post. interesting how moids can type, but not read.>>33813740all moids hate women, and you always have.>>33813906this is why all moids should kill themselves>>33814069i think i made it pretty clear that i refuse to lose my virginity. i'm not asexual, i just control myself.>>33814173fellas, is it bait to think they lying for sex and nonconsensual choking and rape and cheating are bad? i just got moids telling me im jealous of someone i used to know who was raped by her dad when she was like 7stop asking my age, i am not gonna fuck you.>>33814689you think you're a victim because you dont have a fucking sex slave. ive made it VERY CLEAR that im not asking to get rid of horniness, because i can just goon. i dont care if i do it naturally or not.i was born thinking all moids were different. i only know that all moids are the same because you brag about it.>>33814706i'm obviously not a feminist, retard. i didnt claim to be. i STOPPED being a feminist because i learned that males are fucking monsters.all moids are the same. i know it because you brag about it. whatever you say in private is worse than anything on 4chan.YOU ARE RIGHT TO THINK that the female mind can never comprehend how evil moids are. >Good men who love their gf and are friends with them are real. HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY THAT IM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX? i'm talking about the fact that moids are sadistically dishonest and violent to women.>I've been with my gf for 3 years and we're best friends as well.do you seriously think anyone is going to believe that? moids straight up want to torture women.>honest real manputting the moron in oxymoron
>>33814706>who trust you being in his life as a part of him.moids literally say that a female's only purpose is to get raped.>incels on 4chan are the minoritymoids lie for access to women. you are all the same
>>33810719if you really want sex, just pick a guy you like and ask him. He'll most likely say yes. It's like that for gay men. Be more like gay men.
>>33814765>stop asking my age, i am not gonna fuck you.you are a special kind of retarded.
>>33814765I need to raise a child with this one.
>>33814765If you aren’t still in your prime then you prove my point, nobody wants an old lady’s virginity.
>>33814773i know that moids dont turn down sex, retard. i've said this a billion times, IM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX. I CAN JUST JACK OFF. I DONT WANT BRAIN DAMAGE FROM BEING CHOKED. MOIDS MAKE SEX EXCRUTIATING ON PURPOSE. you moids are so fucking retarded it's actually impossible to believethe last thing i want to be is a moid.>>33814792yall are the ones who are asking to fuck a literal female supremacist off 4chan>>33814898i'm 18, but i guess that's an old lady to a moid. i was recently banned because i wasnt 18 yet and forgot not to mention my age lmfaoagain, moids are the ones who demand sex slaves. hence moid horniness epidemic
>>33814915>yall are the ones who are asking to fuck a literal female supremacist off 4chanI would just be fine if you stopped making retarded posts.
it's a definitely a woman because all they do is yap yap yap
>>33814915What if I want to get pegged?
>>33814915>literally BEGGING for sex with me>I'm not gonna fuck you, moid :) (even doe I secretly really want to)
>>33814949he said on a website full of moids yapping.moid moment.>>33814950bold of you to assume you have a choice>>33814959i could have sex with you if i wanted to. the moid horniness epidemic isnt an accident.
>>33815043Sadly, you couldn't (even doe you want to). Lovey dovey babymaking sex will sadly not be a reality. Very sad! Very true!
>>33814949Always the center of attention even when the man gets shot in the neck. His wife makes it about her.
>>33815094moids are the ones who are so entitled, they call their own horniness an epidemic.>>33815136i'm not erika kirk, retard. kill all monarchists
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>>33810719not all men hate women lol, some are downright simps.
>>33815502being horny doesnt change the fact that yall hate women. the other day, there was a thread on r9k about how yall think its your "duty" to rape women as our punishment for being against rape
>>33815502This.
>>33815552>being horny doesnt change the fact that yall hate women.this.
don't bother. get a hobby, sex toys to masturbate with, project that urge onto fiction, go out to fun places more, and make more friends. the more you think about something the more you want it, so think about and do shit thats actually fun and productive. you'll meet the guy you want eventually, so don't force yourself to become apathetic and don't force yourself to meet him now.as a lesbian, don't take the route other annoying femcels take and pretend to be one of us and/or try to change your sexuality. please. that will just make both men and women hate you more.face licking? i dont know? i think everyone has weird shit they wanna do to people. i want to bite people i like and i've met other people who want to do that. all humans are retarded.
>>33815613another thing, something that kills my urge for affection is to give affection to myself. as in, when i yearn for that i usually just make myself super comfy, surround myself with shit i can hug/cuddle (plushies for me but that can also be pillows or weighted blankets), and watch/play something cute (been really enjoying the OG animal crossing).
>>33815625another another thing, gtfo 4chan and social media in general. it just shows you the worst of humanity and fuels this hatred you have. surround yourself with things you enjoy and maybe see a psychiatrist.
>>33815607Well, I do admit there there are these timely urges; but I am really okay with most of the women I met so far. Some of them even good sources of knowledge and wisdom.There are those whom I do not have good feelings towards, but I don't hate women entirely.
>>33815613im not trying to be lesbian lol. thanks for the advice though>>33815743thats cap. y'all admit that you all hate women and want to rape and torture us. is it really a surprise that i believe you?
I'm sure it has been mentioned but not all men hate women, I am one of those men. I live life always been slightly annoyed by everyone's lack of common sense. Gender doesn't annoy me, lack of critical thinking does. People's NPC behavior stresses me out more than anything but I try not to let it ruin my day.Anyways OP, you're stressing yourself out, hormones are most to blame. Is there anything you can do that relaxes you?
You sound extremely stupid.
>>33815977dude, i've been fully grown for years and like a couple months ago i didnt hate moids at all.hormones are the reason yall keep raping women and girls.if moids dont all hate women, why do moids keep proudly telling me that all moids hate women?wild animals are cool and distract me from moids. that's the only kind of effective distraction>>33815982why? because i think that adults should control themselves?
>>33816022>>33816022I'm not doubting you or trying to talk down to you but what triggered you disliking men?Are the "moids" you interact with all off 4chan or other internet forums?All the men I know don't feel like that about women, but then again they're all normies.That's cute, same, keep looking at animal videos because animals can be very silly.Recently I discovered what a "pukeko" is thanks to a page raising an orphaned one. Watching the daily growth videos makes me happy.
>>33816064i'll explain how my views on moids changed, but it'll be long.
>>33816133NTA but I'm curious too. What happened?
>>33816022ok thats an awesome bird
>>33816133Sounds good OP.>>33816137Right? I love nature so much. Animals and plants calm me down in this stressful world.
>>33815908>want to rape and torture us.I wish you to live a meaningful life and maybe have fun doing so in between.
>>33816064>>33816136so, originally i though men were all different. i thought that they were generally less cautious, hornier, more aggressive, and had different interests, but i thought men were still more similar to women than different.i also thought that most men had a misogynist bias, but not too many men were really misogynistic, and vanishingly few men were actually sadistic.i considered myself a feminist because i thought women and men were equal.but i started seeing men on the internet saying things like:>all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it>men are biologically wired to cheat>repeal the 19th>men are simple creatures who only want food and sexi'm not surprised that some men say these things. the part that surprised me is that men never disagree with other men who say things like this. i've tried to explain it to myself, but all of the explanations relied on the idea that most men have complex thought processes.so i just concluded that all men are motivated by horniness, hunger, and hatred of women.another part that messes with my head is that men say "the only men who care about a woman are her father and brother"my dad said that rape is "When someone goes, 'Hey, I like you naked' and then they do stuff they shouldn't do 'till they get married"my dad also said he'd choose who i marry, and both of those statements together mean that he wants to force me to have sex with someone.my dad dumped my mom when i was 5 and my sister was 1, but my dad whines about single moms.my mom got married to another man, but they divorced when i was 9. a little while after the divorce, i was playing an online game with my ex-stepsister who is three years younger than me. she jumped off a building in the game, and she told me she'd do that in real life because her dad "touched my girl parts" and that she wasnt allowed to see him anymore.if that's what males consider to be caring, what do males do to their girlfriends and wives?
>>33816150one of my favorite animals are coyotes to be honest, they're so elegant and cute and resilient
>>33816189>all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it>men are biologically wired to cheat>repeal the 19th>men are simple creatures who only want food and sexWhere are you seeing these things? Sounds like /r9k/, which is not a good place to learn how the average man thinks. I browse it a lot and I'm getting annoyed by posts like that too, it just feels pointless to fight it. Its making me a bit depressed too, everyone just seems so negative now. Sorry to hear all that stuff about your dad. Boomer males are unique in their awfulness. I'll never want to act like they do.
>>33816189Wow, there are bad people in the world so therefore you should spend all your time shitposting on 4chan instead of going out and living a life. Get a grip.
>>33816189There are kernels of truth to some of those things but not all of them. Also remember, you're on the internet where literally everyone has a "soapbox" to yell from and unfortunately the biggest assholes tend to yell the loudest.>horniness, hungerBase animal instincts, we're all animals at the end of the day.Your dad sounds dumb as hell, he's definitely projecting his fuck up on you in some way. He royally fucked up and he's still a bitter man. Hope your mom is doing better now.Your step-dad is scum, he's worse than scum and needs to be put down. No mercy for child molesters.OP you have run into some bad examples of men, and probably have too much exposure to internet incels. Internet incels are a different breed of "man" with alot of unresolved issues. Issues regarding women are the most obvious but thats usually due to their own short comings and not wanting to "heal" mentally.>>33816192Coyotes are cool for sure, they have learned to adapt to human environments/habitats like the ones that live in cities now.
>>33811770>brings up sex even though I never mentioned sex, only loveCoom-brain
>>33810719this seems like something aryanfemcel would post on twitter lol
>>33816273Alright OP i'm off to watch animal videos before bed, I will talk to you tomorow, have a good night.
>>33816203if men aren't all like that, how could i tell what a man is like without putting myself in danger? don't some of the most vile misogynistic men pretend to be respectful?>>33816237i could say the same to you. i dont spend all my time here>>33816273yeah but if men are motivated only by base animal instincts, they must be dangerous.my dad is even worse than i mentioned because he literally claims to have "visions". he believes that he's been swept up by clouds and seen heaven and hell. i just pretend to believe him because i dont want to set off a trigger.my mom has definitely been doing better the past few years>>33816280men call emotional connection "the gauntlet you need to get laid" and apparently think anything involving a woman that isnt sex is a chore, so when they talk about things like "love" and "dating" i just assume they're using euphemisms for sex.that's why i asked for advice in the first place. a male even asked why girl"friends" are called that, and that's what's making me sad.once i thought about it, i realized that males dont actually like being around women. have you ever heard of a male irl who sees his gf or wife positively?
>>33816422good night
>>33816464>how could i tell what a man is like without putting myself in danger? don't some of the most vile misogynistic men pretend to be respectful?Some do, but they rarely have the patience to keep up the act for long. That's why I think its best to take it slow and get to know people. More chances that they'll show their true colors.
>>33810719you women are starting to sound exactly like us men sounded when we were teenagers pining for female affection online and got the impression that all women must hate us lol. covid must've taught you hoes a lesson because you're all virginal compulsive yearners now. but i like that, it makes you more relatable.
>>33816464Good morning OP.You could say that same thing about women, they are driven by base animal desires too. Men and women aren't that much different, we're all animals.Animals can be dangerous, take the coyote for example, in urban areas they're known for hunting down pet cats and small dogs for food.Your dad honestly sounds like he's having schizophrenic episodes, is he medicated or self-medicating?That's good for your mom, be there to support her since it doesn't seem like she's unstable compared to your dad. Your dad needs a little bit of help.
>>33817752good morning. i know women have basic instincts too, im just confused because most women have more complex desires as well so we have to control our base instincts, but i dont know if men are like this too.i have no idea what's wrong with my dad. he's charismatic and has a lot of friends that apparently believe what he says.my mom isn't like my dad at all, so our relationship is good. makes me wonder what my dad used to be like
>>33818040Men have feelings too, not everyone is the same, some are more brutish than others for sure though. You can blame how people act on hormones, life frustrations, and overall how their quality of life is. Incels and other chronically online people seem to act out the most online because they're safe behind a screen. People really need to go outside and do some form of physical activity to help with pent up energy instead of sulking and looking at a screen all day.In regards to your dad keep him at arms length, I think you already are. He is definitely not acting like a normal person.You could always ask your mom and see how he's changed over the years.Alright OP i'm heading into work, i'll talk to you in a few hours. Have a good morning, let me know what kind of animals you see outside today.
>>33818088I saw a couple of black squirrels and wooly bears :) they're kind of tempting to pet lol
>>33819698Hi again OP. That's a cool looking caterpillar, do they sting? What do they turn into?I got shrieked at by a Stellars Jay earlier today. Thought it was a blue bird with a black head until it started imitating a hawks call, that was cool to hear. I didn't know they could do that.I was also chased by mosquitos, not as cool lol
>>33820283they dont sting, they turn into the isabella moth :) sooo prettyyy
>>33820521It's so cute I like it.>when present a sign of a healthy ecosystemVery nice, they remind me of dragonflies in that sense.Catch one and keep as a pet