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I know you're not supposed to take it personally when somebody doesn't like you. But how exactly are you supposed to behave when that person acknowledges everyone around you and then continuously ignores you like you don't exist?
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Idk, women want bears now.
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>>33811251
Don't seek approval from people who clearly don't want your company.
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>>33811252
Hmm?
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>>33811256
Yes
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A lot of good comments here
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>>33811405
Yes
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I really thought someone around here would have commented to my post
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>>33811501
I said YES, you motherfucking 4chan paid subscriber douchebag hole licker.
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There's so many people in this thread, I just don't understand why no one has replied to me yet
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>>33811810
I will fucking kill you
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>>33811251
You just pretend they also don't exist. It's that easy. Why are you trying to interact with someone who doesn't like you.
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>>33812000
Exactly. What a great comment person.

Two and a half hours, maybe this reply will finally have a comment
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>>33812086
I will find you, and I will fucking kill you.
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I thought I heard something but It really was nothing
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>>33812615
It's gonna be a long and painful death for you.
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Bumping thread.

If I don't receive a reply to this post I accept status as king of this thread.
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>>33811251
There's this girl at work
she works in another office
I felt captivated by her the first time I saw her
I started with greeting her whenever I saw her, gave her some chocolate on valentine's (but I gave chocolate to everyone else too) and tried to become friendlier
I also noticed some disgust/discomfort expression on her whenever I talked to her (I'm not a total robot)
she told me later that we needed to talk and asked me about my intentions
then I told her I was interested in her and wanted to know more about her
she told me she was just trying to work, that she wasn't interested in anything else, also she didn't want any trouble and wanted me to stop bothering her
I just said ok, and left (and cried a lot at home later)
now whenever she sees me from afar, I notice she hides wherever she can (like in the women's restroom, or run down stairs)
it has been like 7 months since then, and she still does that, so I haven't even greeted her
I guess this is better than being denounced for sexual harassment.
Yeah, I have an ugly face (my face is like a thug, and I have a kinda muscular frame due my father genes) but I still feel hurt whenever it happens and I don't know what even to do either.
She seems to normally interact with everyone else, so I guess it was my fault for "being too creepy with her" or way too obvious.
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>>33811251
I ignore them too
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>>33817846
Okay
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>>33811251
I treat them with the kindness that they don't show to me. I'm not going to be a jerk just because a person doesn't like me, if all they do is ignore me. If they're going further and insulting me or being a dick, then I'll do the same to them.
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>>33818894
Alright
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>>33811251
>But how exactly are you supposed to behave when that person acknowledges everyone around you and then continuously ignores you like you don't exist?
Be polite and carry on with your time. Life isn't like a movie where you're going to come up with some epic comeback that embarrasses them or say something magical that makes them suddenly like you. There is no dramatic secret or lifehack. It's just a boring everyday minutia.
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>>33819183
>Life isn't like a movie where you're going to come up with some epic comeback that embarrasses them
Man it would be so fucking cool if I could do that though. Goddamn so fucking cool.
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>>33816224
She sounds like a teenager or a cunt, I'm sorry for you but hard to imagine mature person sperging like this, don't take this too personally. Muscular thug sounds hot which proves she also has no taste
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>>33819361
It proves she has taste
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>>33815652
You ain't gonna be king once I kill you, motherfucker. I'm coming for you, bitch. Your ass is dead. Your fucking white bony ass is dead.
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I really thought someone was going to come much on that post, but alas, silence.

Also as I have not received a comment on my king post,

I AM NOW KING OF THIS THREAD
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>>33819909
*Comment, not come much
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>>33819913
I'll cum down your throat, right before I slice it. I'm coming for you bitch.

You can take that king shit and shove it up your ass, right after I cum inside you, bitch.

Your ass is dead.
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As king of this thread I would of expected someone of worth to of replied to me

To bad, none of the fine folks here did.
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>>33820626
You ain't king of shit, bony ass white boy. When I find your house, you gone wish you were never born.
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>>33821512
You need a banana
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>>33821521
Nah, dude. Keep it. You clearly need it more than me.
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Feels good to be king. .

What's with the random post after mine that says you need a banana.

It's not like anyone else commented below me besides the banana post
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>>33821688
That banana will be the first thing that goes up your white ass. Right before my size 13 boot. That's the only thing you're gonna be feeling as I slowly torture you to dead.
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Really interesting as well because the original post literally had no words in it.
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>>33821740
You must be blind as a bat. But don't worry. I'll gouge your eyes out after I shove my foot up your ass. And that's only just the beginning.
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>>33811251
> Romans 12:2:
> And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
> Do not be deceived: Bad Company corrupts good morals.
> 1 Corinthians 15:33
You deserve to be around people that respect you anon. You are precious and I'm sorry you had to deal with this person who hurt you. Let it go and turn to the Lord Jesus Christ, for:
> Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."
> 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
> For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
> Matthew 28-30
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I keep seeing empty posts in the thread too. Really weird
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>>33821778
You know what you're going to find weird? The taste of your own eyeballs after I shove them down your throat.
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I was trying to think of a comparison, but I decided it was a waste of my time
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>>33821972
Your will dying. Your pompous attitude is fading. You're growing restless as I get closer and closer to finding out where you live. I can feel the fear oozing out of your pores. I can smell it.
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whenever I see a blank post here I feel The person who's creating the blank posts value drops lower but it's confusing because I didn't think there was anything less than worthless?
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>>33824272
Yeah, that fear is getting stronger now. It's practically dripping out of you.
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Not even concerned, probably a glitch
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>>33824548
lol you know it's fascinating what a man thinks about when he knows he's about to die.
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It is quite interesting though. Not the blank post itself, something else that's actually worth thinking about
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>>33824818
I mean I would think about my family, my friends, my accomplishments, my dreams, my regrets. Stuff like that. But you, you seem to be wasting your last moments on earth harping on this blank thing.
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I was just thinking about all the amazing things happening in my life right now
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Don't acknowledge it.
Be kind to them and others.

Don't give anyone else reason to believe that the "conflict" exists in anyone's mind except the other person, who is making it obvious. That makes them toxic, problematic, etc, and you the victim.

If it's sincere, it may make it increasingly difficult for them to justify their disdain for you to themselves - unless they don't care, in which case again the goal is to allow them to make it obvious to others that they are the problem, not you. Someone with superior social skills, etc will near always be able to turn things around on you, if an open conflict arises. Avoid that, and they look like a bully.

Remember - someone who "doesn't like you" and makes it obvious to you and/or others is near *always* trying to make a move against you socially, professionally, etc, and lay the groundwork for you to be undermined or excluded, often to their benefit. There's no rational reason to do so otherwise.

I would never signal to people that I dislike them, because (a) If it's only subjective dislike, it is completely unfair to make them feel that way - struggling with neurodivergence (and *possibly* a little covert narcissism, but that might simply be years of internalized self loathing talking), I know better than many how painful it is to be disliked, especially for things you can not or should not have to change; (b) I don't have delusions about my ability to read others' character, and I have been wrong before; (c) Why would you make your (especially subjective) enmity toward someone obvious, closing the doors if you ever need them, opening the doors to future conflict, revealing your position in advance should one arise, etc? It's just a bad move.

It only makes sense as an attack - on you, your place in the home, friend group, workplace, etc. Kindness removes the attack's power. It is the best defence and offence in these situations. It drives people like this *crazy*.

But either way, keep things classy.
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>>33825112
Good advice to deal with these narc asshats. Hopefully I'm almost done with this bullshit.
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>>33811251
ignore them back?
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>>33825031
It is good to think about these things. They'll make your life worth it after I kill you.
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This blank post glitch is pretty weird because it only happens after I post
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>>33826999
That's a funny name to give to your killer. But whatever you need to cope with your death.
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Maybe captcha related
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>>33828254
It's only a matter of time now.
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>>33811252
>admits he fell for the ragebait
found the retard
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>>33811251
What do you do if they walk on you when you DO turn the other cheek?

When you back down from them influencing the people around you then you have shown them they CAN and WILL walk all over you.

There are two ways to solve this, you can filter and refine yourself to make sure if anything is said about you that your actions are the observable opposite of whatever rumor is in the air. Or, you have to confront them directly with evidence and upon being denied your arguments validity THEN turn to your circle and show them whats going on. "Heres what they think of me, heres why, its not right. Will you stand by me?"
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>>33828869
At the end of the day, I've done this and it's down to trusting her that she knows me for who I truly am. She should know more than anyone, as we spent the most time together.
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Put the step away from the serious shit for a bit and have more fun.

Still don't understand why there's so many blank posts after things I write
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>>33828899
There's no need to understand. You won't need to after you're dead.
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Maybe it's a ghost haunting me
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>>33831020
I am no ghost. I am very real.
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Sometimes I'm curious but then I remember that If the blank post ghost had anything important to say or was worth anything at all the post would not be blank
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1. leave the shit environment

2. if you cannot do 1 then stop interacting with them

3. make sure you have a solid support group who will back you up when they pull this shit
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>>33831560
The only important thing you need to know is that you will die a very painful death.
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This namefag is so starved for attention he's threatening himself to generate responses, this is so pathetic. You've reached boogie2988 levels of mental retardation, except boogie did something good for the world at some point, you did nothing but consume air and disperse a metric ton of methane gas
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It's banter retard
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>>33832491
It is more than just a threat. It is a guarantee. It is a promise. It is a mathematical certainty that this man will die because of me. It is just a matter of time.



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