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>>33819071
communication, dependability, effort.
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Selecting a good partner would be a pretty big part of it.
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>>33819071
You have to find a man that you're attracted to but who also only sees you.
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If you get into a relationship before 25 and it lasts over 7 or 8 years you were cheated on at some point even if you don't know it. Or you cheated.
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>>33819098
>You have to find a man that you're attracted to but who also only sees you.
Is this even a think in our current age.
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>>33819071
I don't think you can. The harder you try to stop it, the more alluring it becomes.
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don't date a cheater.

that's literally the one thing you can do to "stop" someone from cheating on you.

cheating is either in your moral framework, or it isn't.

cheaters will cope and tell you everyone cheats, because honest people don't hang out with dishonest people, so they are surrounded by other cheaters.

cheaters are also incapable of taking accountability, so they will blame YOU for their choices.

the other woman/man wants to feel superior, and like they won't be cheated on, so they cope by saying that YOU weren't good enough.

victims of cheating are sold a narrative that they aren't good enough, and that they could have stopped it, because this narrative benefits cheaters and dishonest people.

don't buy it. walk at the first sign of dishonesty.
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>>33819071
Find a woman who is financially dependent on you and make sure to dick her down real good whenever you can. Conversely, if you're a woman, suck his dick now and again. Good head goes a loooong way.
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>>33819155
>Find a woman who is financially dependent on you and make sure to dick her down real good whenever you can

Did this and got cheated on

>Good head goes a loooong way.

Had this and cheated
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>>33819098
a girl can dream :/
that will never happen for me
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The problem is, the more attractive he is, the more opportunities he'll have. Then again, some guy who's not put together will likely cave to his needs for affirmation, so there is no winning.
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>>33819159
Well my advice doesnt work if you're a fucking degenerate and as such only attract degenerates
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>>33819078
>>33819092
Both of these. First 2 posts best posts
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>>33819170
*bows
bow that you know me, im sure you will be disgusted by me.
t.will die a lonely cat lady
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Don't do something so horrible it feels like it is the only way she can get power back. Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything.
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>>33819162
Im here for you bb
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>>33819174
you cant 100% prevent cheating
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>>33819169
This is the reason why you should go for the attractive guy in any case.
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>>33819071
You can't prevent someone from cheating, and if you try, you will make it far more likely to happen. What you need to do instead is try to prevent them from *wanting* to cheat, which is quite different.
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>>33819151
>redditGPT
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>>33819196
Yes but those two pieces of advice will mitigate the possibility the most
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>>33819071
all moids cheat if they have the opportunity
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>>33819162
Women are biologically hardwired to become physically attracted to any man they're with for a long time. So just be with a guy who's nice, even if you're not immediately attracted to him. Once you fuck him for a bit you'll start falling for him.
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>>33819203
Wrong. The attractive guy will 90% cheat on you. The unattractive guy will only cheat on you if you yourself become fat or stop giving him sex.
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>>33819864
I'm a mid guy. I got a girl way out of my league and ended up cheating on her with a mid girl because I was insecure and thought the out of my league girl would inevitably cheat on me anyways.
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>>33819905
die
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>>33819905
No you're not lmao you're a femanon trying to gaslight other women. No man dating a girl out of his league would cheat on her, unless he's like the rare 1%.
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Bunch of fucking clankers role-playing as women on/adv/recently, and it fucking works we're replying to them. The replies are TEEMING with them. Fucking hell

Captcha, IRONICALLY LOOOOOL MY CATCH IS FUCKING LEGENDARY:
KYS GG
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>>33820002
Ok if you say so. Letting the nice guy have a chance only for him to cheat on you because he's insecure is a canon event all women must go through.
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>>33820045
You're a foid.
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>>33819174
Also don't stop fucking your partner, if you cause a dead bedroom prepare to get cheated on.
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I'd love to say "just be a decent man" but honestly from experience I can say women can cheat on a whim, it's just in their nature.

And to their eyes, they'll always be "in their right to do so because you don't own them".
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>>33820062
what is he up to these days
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>>33820021
Is there a single role-player itt? Everything seems gender neutral.
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The only girl I ever cheated on was a girl with a horrible face I only dated out of depression.
The only girl that ever cheated on me was one the was way out of my league and was 5 years younger.
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Gave up on monogamy and am happier in open relationships. Dont really care if my girl.steps outside as long as she tells me and knows he is std free. She brings new girls into the bedroom and Im out on business trips a lot. We share our conquests and have fun talking about them. In 2025 who really cares, I love my girlfriend and she sucks other cocks. Big deal
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>>33819905
Foid hands.
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>>33820143
>The only girl that ever cheated on me was one the was way out of my league and was 5 years younger.
No, she cheated on you because you actually believed
>she was way out of my league
despite the fact that...she was with you and NOT out of your league. You subconsciously projected that idea into everything you did. From the way you spoke to her, to the decisions you made. Even the way you walked around her or looked at her. All of those things added up to the way a pussy acts. And is likely very different from how you act with women who "are in your league".

I can guarantee that if you acted the way you did around her with women that are 'in your league" they'd eventually leave at best, and cheat the same way at worst. Men date women younger than them all the time. 5 years isn't a big difference at all. Meanwhile I know a super duper average dude in his mid 50s married to a chick 18 years younger with 3 kids.

It was you, anon.

>>33819071
>How do you prevent your partner from cheating
You don't act like a bitch, you integrate her into your life (no housewife bullshit without putting her to work associated with what you do), no pedestalizing, no pampering and babying her. Remaining confident and firm but showing softness every once in a while. Having a backbone. Not being afraid to say no. But being interesting and engaging. You carry yourself as someone valuable and worth having. Then she's less likely to risk losing a good man over bullshit. You also better fuck well. But that's easy to learn. Don't subscribe to the fake "happy wife, happy life" bullshit. In short: be a fucking man. Be masculine. That's what women respond to. It's not what they say they want, but you shouldn't listen to what a woman says unless her *actions* match it. For example: How many pussy pushover "nice guys" are slaying pussy and not getting taken advantage of? None. But women say that's what they want all day.
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>>33821056
Kill yourself, simp. It's people like you that allow women to cheat in the first place and say it's fine for them to do so.
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>>33821056
The point of my story was that I don't cheat on a girl that's attractive. This is why women should date down, because it results in their men being loyal.
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>>33819155
>have orgasms in her vagina
>have orgasms in her mouth
>how about giving her head? no, better to have more orgasms inside her
This definitely won't make women resent you enough to fuck your dad in your bed before dumping you
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>>33821261
>It's people like you that allow women to cheat in the first place and say it's fine for them to do so.
Umm, no. I never said cheating was good or it's fine for women to do so. But at the same time it doesn't happen in a vacuum. Sure, some women are just whores like that and it's the man's fault for picking incorrectly. But most women aren't just full on whores like that. There are usually reasons.

When a woman cheats its because she thinks it's worth risking the relationship she has to fool around with the new dude. And how one acts can directly control how the girl views your value. For all we know the bitch could've cheated on him regardless. But at the end of the day, the way he acted definitely didn't make it *less* likely, did it? No. It made it *more* likely.

>>33821319
>The point of my story was that I don't cheat on a girl that's attractive.
Who cares? What's the point of making that point, lol.
>Women should date down because it results in loyal men
Women don't willingly date down unless they're trying to manipulate stability while having the latitude to cheat themselves. Or because they waited too long and have no other option. And "dating down" in looks doesn't guarantee that. There are men of all levels of attractiveness that cheat, anon. The way one carries themself, their personality and their charisma is a better indicator of the ability to pull women than their physical looks.
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>>33819071
if they're a man, have sex with them

if they're a woman, you can't. so the second option is to try to pick a woman who you think cares about monogamy and fidelity
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>>33821328
your daddy issues are so great they've bled over in to daddy in law issues
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>>33821337
Would have preferred his friends if he'd had any
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>>33821343
hmm.... yeah. i'm one of his friends. you wanna call me daddy? revenge seems super important to you
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>>33821330
>Women don't willingly date down unless they're trying to manipulate stability while having the latitude to cheat themselves. Or because they waited too long and have no other option
That's exactly the problem nowadays. Women have TOO many options. Women dating down before they turned 25 was a cornerstone to a successful society.
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>>33821328
My girl cums in my mouth, sometimes she'll cum again on my dick and then I cum in her mouth. It's not my fault you're a projecting faggot that sucks dick at fucking pussy.
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>>33819071
you can't
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How do i get peoples partners to cheat with me?
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>>33826184
The same way you get single women to sleep with you
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>>33826255
...and that would be...?
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>>33826293
If you can't answer that, you have no business attempting to get with a taken woman.
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>>33819071
Spank them, communication
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>>33819071
I think to some extent you have to keep pursuing her, every day. Meaning, buy her flowers, ask her out, be curious about her life, etc. All the stuff that is important to you when pursuing her for the first time, but kind of fades as people get comfortable in the relationship. Gotta keep things fresh. That’s you doing your part. What she does is out of your control and ultimately falls on her.



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