What do I do? My mother invited my junkie sister who punched her in the face back, saying she's hit rock bottom and she needs us, despite having punched her, threatened to kill us, had a restraining order on her, got invited back and stole from us and left, also slept with my stepfather and ruined my mother's marriage and also put him in jail (that's another story) but I'm just lost. I feel like I want to kill myself to escape these people. I feel like I'm never heard despite my best warnings that my sister is a ticking time bomb, no good for us, a whirlwhind of chaos and destruction, a demon junkie whore drug addict.
>>33821244Get a job, move out, and break contact with your family. There is nothing you can do with stupid and emotional people like that.
>>33821244Good morning my good sir. This is kinda your choice. Just because mom says she needs help, which she does from someone else, there is no reasonable reason to demand it from people she fucked over. She enables her, and your sister is most like, as you're probably aware, waiting for another crack at her scheme. No telling if she actually got clean. Lets face it... she probably has not. Sounds like home is at her place, she there isn't much to do other than ignoring her, and keep your things very secured. Don't know your age, but move out as fast as possible and try to distance yourself. Clearly both of them are in denial.
>>33821275>jobGot it>move outIt seems impossible, even though I have 60k savings. My mother and I were meant to be splitting the mortgage together but she does stuff like this behind my back. I even paid her (7k) debt she took out for my other junkie brother.>break contactI should.>>33821279Yeah I'm kind of fucked now. I was hoping to own this house in 10 years.
>>33821281It's not impossible to move out. You have plenty of money. Stop excusing yourself to stay in a shitty place. No one else to blame than you. Stop helping her and the others. She is a lost cause and will always be one. She refuses to help her only actually good child, which I assume is you, and wants to keep these nasty fucked up children around. If you aren't careful, guess who will be the third addict. After mentioning that amount of money, no one can feel bad for ya anymore. You're doing this to yourself basically. No advice even needed.
>>33821281Find a way to get out of the mortgage at any cost and just get out of there, it will save you a lot of problems, money, and stress in the long run. It sounds like you have done your best but you're an adult now and have no obligations to these people anymore. They're a lost cause.
>>33821244Lmao what a family to have, congrats
>eat shit from the shitty part of the family just so in the end, you'll own the houseHeart this tale a million times and it NEVER ever ends well, never, there will always be something unless they all die like tomorrow and you're left alone.My suggestion to you, as has been with everyone else that I know in this situation, is to stop thinking about the fucking house and move out even if it's just a fucking shack with no plumbing. I'm dead serious, you'll never have your peace and quiet and you'll most likely die yourself before these fuckers due to how you're wired and how they're wired. These problem-siblings/problem-relatives have a way of dragging everyone down with them
>>33821244Nigger why are YOU still there? Real question. What has prevented you from leaving?
>>33821281I'm sorry, I had to reread that about four times. What the fuck do you mean that you have $60,000 in your savings account? And you feel like you can't leave. Why on God's grain earth can you not leave? You are never getting that house. Do you understand that? You should understand that. That is a junkie house. There is one in my neighborhood, and you know what? It's still owned by junkies, because they own the house. So they just keep swapping out which drug addict family member has it. There's always one. There's always someone else to take it. Until your mother dies, that is just going to be a junkie house for your junkie siblings. And you know what? You had better damn well hope that she has not listed them whatsoever, but she probably has. Why? Because she's willing to go into thousands of dollars of debt for them. You're not getting it. She sees you as the one that will be okay. There's an American show that used to play Malcolm in the middle. There's a particular scene where a character threatens blackmail against the mother and her children saying, if you report me for X, then I will harm your very intelligent son, his future, by getting him expelled too. So therefore you can't do anything against me, to what she said, oh yes, I will. I would absolutely sell him down the river, because he will be okay. He's smart and he'll be able to get back up and make something of himself, even if he's crippled by me. I will cripple him as much as I need to to save his brother who's pretty much a retard and can't do it himself. Same shit here, man. He will drain your bank account to keep those retards afloat because she sees you as competent and capable and after all. Your family, which means it's like totally your job or whatever to pick up the slack and be the man of the house since you clearly have no father. It's not your job though.
>>33821244Is it possible she *has* hit rock bottom?
>>33821244Parable of the prodigal son>>33821281>60k savings>Can't move outlolwut
Start looking at potential homes to live in/ rent, this sounds like a mental problem moreso than an actual one
>>33821617the prodigal son stopped fucking around though, make sure she goes to a methadone clinic or something
