Bros I need advice.I'm a guy early 40's, married with a couple of kids. Life is so so. But Ive had this feeling that I havent done what I've wanted and the years are flying by real fast. So I decided I still want to fuck a young hot girl. Started checking out social media for about two years now and finally found one that ticks all the boxes...young(19), hot and curvy, girl next door type not model type, and really in need of money.So I start chatting with her and offer her cash to go away with me for a romantic weekend...and she said yes.We have been chatting and planning this for more than a week now... but here is my problem... since she said yes I have been so fucking nervous about it, having erection problems etc. I can go to the doc to get some dick pills, and I hope that will help boost my confidence and help calm my nerves.On the other hand I feel like just cancelling the whole thing and saving myself a lot of money and planning and stress...But if I dont take this chance now I never will so I feel like I should just push through...Whats should I do guys?
>>33821283I would focus less on the dick problems and more about the marriage part. 19 year old does sound good, but you're thinking with your dick aren't you? This whole "ohh I feel like life is fainting away" bullshit is kinda small of a problem. Basically a midlife crisis, which isn't really a crisis at all if your emotions are in check. There is nothing romantically about this. Nothing more than a sugar daddy type of deal. My question is: is this really worth possibly throwing your current life for some younger clam. Is your wife that disgusting and your kids not worth it? Don't blame ya for getting those feelings, and that doubt is also a healthy sign, but I feel like it's more because of nerves than actually bad conscience from cheating. I'm no cringelord who sits on here jealous of you having a wife. Many on here will scream you have to kill yourself an so forth. A man has needs sure, but those might bring consequences. Also that statement of never fucking a younger girl is not true. 10 years from now you can still do that. Pay enough just like this encounter, and there should be no problem.
>>33821283At least tell your ugly wife about it first don't be a dick to her
>>33821283Fake and gay story but you're having problems because you know what you're doing is fucked up. Even if your wife never finds out, you're gonna start acting different. You know you betrayed her and you'll start compensating and acting differently. Basically you're going to simp for your wife, which will turn her off, and continue until she divorces you because you stopped being the man you were this whole time. You're better off either keeping it real and saying what you want to do, or putting your dick the fuck away and sticking with your wife. In the first case, yeah you might divorce. But you were gonna fuck that up by overcompensating either way. But there's a chance she...just sticks with you. Women share men all the time. Or you just put your dick away and the problem goes away because you're not doing bad shit. your choice anon.
>>33821347Whats fake or gay about my story?And yeah I get what youre saying
>>33821366>What's fake and gay about my story>On 4chan>Has "wife and kids">"Is chatting with 18yo who he's *totally* gonna fuck"Please, lol. It's possible, just unlikely. If it is real, though, you're not equipped to cheat. You can't handle it. So either be up front about what you want or stick with your wife. And this is before the fact that you've basically hired a prostitute and have zero game. The fact that you even have to pay....lmao. At least get it for free dude. Simping is the reason lots of women have inflated views of themselves.
>>33821375Well being a married guy in a smallish town doesnt really give me opportunity to go out hunting for chicks...So yeah my game is just fine, well at least it was 20 years ago when I was last chasing. And yeah it is basically hiring a prostitute, but more fun...hopefully
After our third kid, my wife was feeling a bit unattractive. Or more felt like I wasn't attracted to her anymore.Every marriage has that, every guy does look at 20 year old bodies and reminisce back to those days.We talked about it openly and kept going. One day I randomly suggested she should do the schoolgirl uniform thing. I thought she would be grossed out, just laughed it off, thought nothing more of it.Couple weeks later, she randomly appears in the bedroom, full St. Trinians style, hair done perfect, how she pulled that together so quick I have no idea. Let's just say, it's that and more which is what led to baby number 3.Talk to your wife and don't be a cunt. Shut this bullshit about swanning off with a 19 year old for a week down. She's not your scene, she won't understand your references, she won't find your jokes relatable, she will not have anything like your experiences in life.
>>33821394>Well being a married guy in a smallish town doesnt really give me opportunity to go out hunting for chicks...Yeah, but that doesn't mean you can't have game or are required to pay, lol. Leading with the wallet is never good, anon. You're just a mark whenever you do that. It's kinda like dudes paying to fly bitches out across country to see them (meeting over social media). They pay all that money to make it happen and the bitch doesn't even fuck because "she totally didn't know" what he expected. I see something similar in the cards for your setup here.>So yeah my game is just fine, well at least it was 20 years ago when I was last chasing. The fact that you even call it "chasing" tells me you've got the wrong concept lol. But okay bro.>And yeah it is basically hiring a prostitute, but more fun...hopefullyYou'll be lucky if you catch a glimpse of her pussy, anon. Unless you've outright said you expect to fuck I doubt it'll happen. And even if you did, I wouldn't be surprised if she pulled the whole "I'm suddenly feeling sick" deal. Don't forget: she sees you as a mark. >>33821404This anon is absolutely right. Be a man and talk to your wife. Spice up what you already have. Your dick literally stopped working over the subconscious anxiety and guilt over this and the fact that you haven't completely thrown this idiotic fantasy away is mind boggling.
>>33821283You should kill yourself.
>>33821411She knows exactly whats up...I offered her one amount to just go away with me...and I would quadrouple it if we could be intimate, but only if we get along well and she is totally comfortable etc...I also asked her to go for std testing and that I would do the same...and she said yeah. And this talk about having game is kinda stupid, just seems like a bunch of word play
>>33821404Thanks this seems like real advice
>>33821283When you're with the girl, every single second you are going to be thinking about the fact that she wouldn't even be talking to you if you weren't paying her to.
>>33821498Can I ask for how much?
>>33821572Well she talked to me before I made the offer...and anyway even if thats probably true that wont bother me...shes there for one thing, but so am I. She will also enjoy it....if I go through with it.
>>33821638I am not from the US, basically a shithole, so I dont know if the amounts will translate that well, but I offered $300 just to come with me and if shes comfortable with intimacy $1200 and I will pay for a nice cabin in the mountains...food, drinks etc.
>>33821653Fine enough amount honestly. Don't know if it is worth it though. Not moneywise. Fuck the money. More regarding the wife and kids.
>>33821640>She will also enjoy itNo. She's there for the money AND THAT'S ALL. And you will be thinking about that all the time. Every orgasm will be faked, every sound she makes will be acting, and in your heart of hearts you will know that.
>>33821728Yeah obviously I dont want to harm my wife and kids...but I dont think it will...I just want to go bang for a weekend and get it out of my system...
>>33821729Your advice is bad...She will enjoy some sexy sexy with older man...esp after a few drinks.And I really dont care about her orgasm
>>33821753Cheaters never expect them to get caught. Guess what, it happens all the time.
>>33821763>And I really dont care about her orgasmOh yeah, she's going to have a *wonderful* time.
It's every man's given right to experience young pussy before he settles down with a mother to bear his children.
>>33821947I've already settled down...this girl i wanna see is only two years older than my eldest kid. But I feel like I should experience it again while I still can.
>>33821283Okay but why is her bikini bottom like aaaaaaaaaaaaalllll the way up her butt crack? That doesn't not look comfortable in the slightest. Is that why some women wear thong bikinis? To avoid that?
>>33821283I think you are a loser. You are going to basically steal $1200 from your family so you can screw a whore. Who might actually blackmail you for even more money.If you had actual game, you would get it for free and the wife wouldn't even care.How would you feel if your wife was doing the same thing?
>>33821283You have a family. If you were single or divorced i would say go for it.
