I don't really care what they're thinking anymore after having many of my evenings at least partially wasted by woman over the few years I tried to date them.

From a psychology perspective they're dellusional and over estimate their value. You mean bud I'm in my 30s and have had 2 woman in the last 2 years try to "hey remember me".

These were woman who didn't consider me "good enough" to date but have since fucked up their lives and consider me a bail out plan.

No thanks madam.

>>33821418
>Why do women get bored in a relationship and marriage
Because most dudes are boring, don't do anything spontaneous or exciting, don't do anything that invoke emotions, and think they don't need to continue to be attractive. Take dad bods. Do you really think women like those over fit, muscular bodies? Come on. Most men get the woman then immediately check out after marriage. You wouldn't like your girl if she all of a sudden stopped trying and gained 100lbs would you? Same thing for them. Except don't limit it to the physical. They're emotional beings and need to be engaged emotionally. Most men don't do shit after marriage.
>>33821433
>I don't really care what they're thinking anymore after having many of my evenings at least partially wasted by woman over the few years I tried to date them.
Don't take bitches to dinner. It's hard to get to know someone while shoveling food into your mouth. And a lot of women use men as meal tickets. Keep the first date light with coffee or something extremely inexpensive. Then go on dates where you actually *do* things together. Also it's partially your fault because it's clear these women weren't really that into you in the first place.
>From a psychology perspective they're dellusional and over estimate their value.
I mean, when you have a whole bunch of dudes paying for meals they don't deserve, why wouldn't they?
>These were woman who didn't consider me "good enough" to date but have since fucked up their lives and consider me a bail out plan.
I agree but you gotta choose better bro.

>>33821456
Kys foid whore

>>33821465
>Once I get the girl, I should have to do absolutely nothing more! Hell, I shouldn't even do anything to get her. I'm entitled
And you wonder why the divorce rate is so high, lol. I'm not even a woman, faggot.

>>33821418
Because a lot of women have disney-princess syndrome and don't conceptualize the reality of a normal, steady, non-dramatic relationship before getting into one. They also don't respect the sacrifices and obligations that are necessary for a fully committed relationship; it's just like a midlife crisis where the fear of mundane, adult reality leads one to wish for their days of irresponsible, carefree youth back, and in turn they do unrealistic, sometimes toxic things to cope with what they think they've lost. It's not that the relationships or the people were better, but that they didn't have to consider others nearly as much, or deal with the weight of obligation and adult responsibilities that are inherent to their lives now. They're usually also underdeveloped people who either never had real interests or have neglected them later in life, so of course their lives seem boring, but the issue is just that they themselves were or are boring. Life is a series of trades, you trade one thing for another, and every trade offers both positives and negatives; when you trade being single for a committed relationship, you lose your freedom and gain the opportunity to build love. It's only human nature that we want to have our cake and eat it too, but it takes maturity to deal with the contradiction rationally, gracefully and with consideration. Most people have trouble counting their blessings and instead always lament what they're missing rather than appreciating what they have. In short, everyone thinks of the halcyon days of their youths, and even longs for them, but mature people are able to let go of what is gone and move forward, while immature people will sabotage what they have now for a taste of what they used to have.

In my case it would be because she realizes I am worth everything, I'm her true love, and what she's involved in now is worth nothing

I'm bored in my relationship because my boyfriend is a stick in the mud. He doesn't want to go out. He doesn't want to do anything indoors either. Just exchanging backrubs or trying a foot bath at home is too much effort, too out of the norm, which is him taking turns sitting at his PC and on his phone and then complaining about what he saw on the screen. Exactly like boomer dads with their TVs. This is the default state of the average man. Once they have food and pussy they cease all social functions and become mindless golems.
I liked that he was a good conversationalist but apparently that was an extreme feat for him and he only put in that herculean effort to impress me and I can't expect him to talk or even think about anything now that it's done.

I miss being single. If I'd at least been on dates with dumb assholes before him I'd be romanticizing the fuck out of them now, but I just want anything that isn't this. A cat or a dildo or something, living with mom, literally just his absence would be exciting and emotionally and socially fulfilling compared to having him around.

>>33821888
i hope this is copypasta

>>33821888
have u tried confronting him directly?

>>33822086
LMAO this, joining in on this guy's question

>>33821888
>complaining about what he saw on the screen
Is he a chud?

>>33822079
It might as well be given how universal an experience it is.

>>33822086
We've had serious conversations, playful jabs, friendly reminders, nagging, shouting matches, all of it. Like with our sex life and chores, he knows what the problem is and what he needs to do. He's very agreeable and submissive during our talks but when it's time for him to do the shit he promised he's suddenly reluctant and has a million excuses.

>>33822160
unironically keep pressuring him until he does what he said he'd do, stop cutting him slack

>>33822160
so why are you still with him? betting for money or place to stay

>>33822200
Probably a good dicking too

I hate women and the men they date, I hope they all die of painfull illnesses

>>33821888
You made your life choices now live with them you fucking whore

>>33822442
Based!

>>33821888
Thanks, I needed to read this before getting into another relationship.

I want to experience a pure, untainted relationship with the next girl I date, and that means avoiding as much sadness and tragedy like this.

In my most recent relationship, I was the computer Chud, but I felt guilty about always working or programming. I frequently asked my gf is she was ok with me working, or if she was bored, and she always assured me everything was fine.

>>33822545
Any woman you date is a fucking whore retarded brainlet bitch anyway so who gives a fuck, you're destined to be a cuck faggot.

>>33821418
>Why do women get bored in a relationship and marriage
Because their husbands are boring.
>and start thinking of their past loves who were actually interesting and exciting to them?
Er... *because* they were interesting and exciting. What's hard to understand about that?

Have you tried being less boring?

>>33821456
>Most men get the woman then immediately check out after marriage.
Don't act like women don't do this either

>>33821550
lmao this sounds like my 22 yo moid ex that dumped because he wants to accomplish his dream of flying out of the country and “try new things”. I felt like I could die of happiness when we were doing mundane stuff like watching a show while eating or visiting him after a long day of work. It felt like home to me. But I guess he’s at the age of exploring things, spending the night at vapid social hangouts with coworkers, drinking and sleeping 3 hours before work I guess…I just want a comfy life and getting enough sleep time to enjoy the day. This isn’t gender exclusive.

>>33821418
>Why do women get bored in a relationship and marriage and start thinking of their past loves who were actually interesting and exciting to them?
Did you just answer yourself?

>>33822671
I never said they didn't. I'm just answering the question. Women are way more likely to divorce over this shit than men are.

>>33821888
The alternative is getting pumped and dumped by chad after chad as you end up alone and childless in your 40s which leads to depression and craziness. Dumb foid has no perception of alternative choices.

>>33821418
Grass is always greener. It's that way for you too, and don't pretend it's not. Everyone yearns for what they don't have; or what they had and no longer have; or what they had to give up to get where they are. That's life. People are nostalgic. They're a lot of other things, too.

>>33821418
Is she lesbian? Dear god I hopes she's lesbian

>>33821888
>living together outside of marriage
>sex outside of marriage
>being his live-in maid and enabling his nonsense for free
If you did none of these things, you wouldn't feel stuck and you would have ended things a long time ago.

>>33821418
Some anons above are somewhat right but the key thing is that if you don't put babies into a woman then everything that makes faithfulness necessary in a relationship falls out. Humans are wired to remain faithful in a relationship only until the necessary amount of weeks or months have passed for the Woman to get hopefully pregnant. After that, the emotions ebb off and suddenly other people start looking attractive again. Even worse when you as a man got fat and unattractive. But when she is pregnant she will have all the attention in the world without having to suck men's dicks and she will be happier than ever, and if she isn't an absolute whore neglectful about her children, she will also have no time to hook up with other men. Every evening exhausted, you will provide the most comfortable and ideal plap basis.

>>33827427
>until the necessary amount of weeks or months have passed
And how long would that be?

>>33827538
More or less until pregnancy is almost certain under natural circumstances. After that emotional faithfulness is replaced by a materially necessary faithfulness.

>>33821418
People like new experiences and life can become boring and routine after a while. It's like wanting to play a new video game when you've played one for too long. Men don't have options to cheat so it's something they never have to worry about whereas women are always being hit on so it's easy to fall into temptation for them.

>>33827556
Are you a father?