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i am obsessed with her. i love her more then anything. she is perfect and i only love her. i need her. i cant live without her. but she wont look only at me. ive sent 70 messages while she slept, drew her many times, and text her every few minutes im awake. im currently getting her a gift as well. i tell her i love and need her constantly and describe how and why. should i start sending letters to her house? i talk about her daily on my blog and social medias.

how can i get her attention better so she only wants me? what else should i do? i feel like i could be doing more…
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>>33823786
If you have to put in this much effort to get someone to like you it's not gonna work out. The messages and gifts are probably going to freak her out, and your possessiveness/obsessiveness is going to come off as creepy/stalker-y. Find someone else, you will thank me later. Also, never ever do this shit again.
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>>33823826
she does like me though? she replies to my messages. we are going to date soon… she just still wants other guys…
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>>33823786
Letters to her house are a great idea if you want a restraining order fagtard
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>>33823854
You don’t think she’s leading you on? How naïve
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>>33823786
There's literally nothing you can do, anon. Some people's brains just don't work the same as yours. The way your brain works, if you're madly in love with someone, you stop being interested in other people. But the reason that happens is because there's a limit to how much love you can feel: if you love one person with all your heart, you don't have any capacity for love left over, and you can't love anyone else.

Most people's brains work the same way as yours, but some don't: some people have a far greater capacity for love than you will ever have. They can love someone as intensely as you do, but still have a whole load of love capacity left over. They can be in love with two or three or four people at once and love ALL of them as intensely as you can love one person.

(If this seems unlikely, then think about how other kinds of love work. It would be ridiculous to suggest that a child can only love one parent, or that a parent can only love one child. In your brain, romantic love doesn't work like this, but in some brains it does.)

People like this have so much of their brains dedicated to love that they feel negative emotions like jealousy and hatred far *less* strongly than you, and generally don't really get jealous at all.

So, what it comes down to is that someone like that is going to love multiple people, and it is unfair of you to try to prevent them. This, in turn, means YOU SHOULDN'T GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT. And really, she ought not to get involved with you either; it's irresponsible of her to do so. You need to let her go. You can't change her: you can't take away her ability to feel more love than you can. But, given that she has that kind of brain and you don't, the two of you will never be happy together. Let her go.
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she loves me and she will always love me. ill make sure of it.
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>>33823826
Calm down. It's a larp clearly.

Op is just a massive faggot
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>>33823786
Have you told her how jealous it makes you feel?
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>>33824330
Clearly jealous enough to make this LARP
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>all this
>domme gf
Damn, should I be making my bf feel a bit less secure in order to get this level of worship? Do I need to Domme Staceymaxx?
But also, OP you should move on and find a lady who actually loves and appreciates you. I treasure my cute boy.
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>>33824326
im honored you think its a larp υ´ᴖ ﻌ ᴖ`υ but i am truly like this.
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>>33824531
Unfortunately for you. Narc, you suck so much
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)━゚.*・。゚ It turned you gay
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>>33824350
she treasures me. and i cant leave her (she is my owner). i just want to be all that she needs to be happy
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>>33824588
If she isn't monogamous and you need monogamy to be comfortable, she may not be the one for you, anon. And you can't change her to be that way.
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OP is such a cuck it’s funny



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