My girlfriend is obsessed with me, loyal, and will do absolutely anything for me. Problem is I don't really like her. She's boring and into retard zoomer shit i don't care about at all. She's pretty retarded and can't follow simple directions. I'm totally checked out and tell her I don't want to date anymore, but she's incredibly insistent on staying together. It's hard to just cut ties since we live together. Is it worth it to keep a girl I'm not interested in? People always say get a semi attractive girl that will "serve" you, but I'm much happier alone doing my own stuff. I've wanted out for a long while, but I'm at odds if I should just try and work on my perspective on things.I've started hating women more than ever and think that they only exist to waste your time and money. All the dumb shit they want to do prevents me from doing anything of value whatsoever.
yeah you should leave her and be alone forever probably. it will be easier and cheaper for you
>>33824678Yes, you should break up. You don't sound happy with her
>>33824678retarded asf how moids say "choose better men" (even though they ADMIT that all moids are the same) and then date women that they hate.yall project too. i'm a virgin and i get moidiots telling me to look at my exes
>>33824695This is my first actual relationship and it's made me realize a lot of things.
>>33824727okay? and if a woman whined about her borfriend and said "This is my first actual relationship and it's made me realize a lot of things."?"i chose to have sex with a woman despite hating women!! those proves that woman bad!!!!1!1"
>>33824738I genuinely didn't feel this way until getting into a relationship. I know I'm being dramatic, but there is some truth to it.
>>33824695>>33824738You need to stop, completely irrelevant, no not all moids are the same, no not all femoids are the same, and no, sex is just a transaction it's nothing sacred, time to lose your virginity because it's worthless and not some massive prize like you make it out to be>>33824678Break up otherwise she will once she realises your contempt and the limerence ends. Find a gal who's less retarded. Or just tell her your true feelings and see if she still wants you or wants to change for you or whatever
>>33824751>I know I'm being dramaticyeah, moids tend to be. if moids hate women, they should leave us alone. i hate moids, so being sane, i refuse to lose my virginity.i'm not taking blame for something another woman does>>33825150moids admit that they are all the same. YOU are the ones who think virginity is sacred.
>>33825150kys subhuman
>>33825641No, it's YOU who thinks virginity is sacred because you bend over to all of society's brainwashing, you subhuman freakazoid of retarded proportions. I'd say kill yourself, but I know you won't so I'll just say, enjoy your miserable existence you brain fried gen alphaYou cling to your virginity like it's your only saving grace because you have no other positive features about yourself
>>33825685i always say that i'm a virgin because every time i dont (and sometimes when i do) you moids say that only my exes are like that.moids will rape a child and then call her a slut
>>33824678Hey OP, I know how you feel. I just had the same experience, but for 3.5 years. She was loyal and devoted to me, but way to much like a pet and a daughter for me to respect and value her. I want someone who is more of an equal to me, I don't want a woman who has a transparent personality and fills in her colors with who I am and what I suggest. It is tiresome, and not a burden I want to bear.She refused to break up with me countless times, and it made me angry that I had no autonomy. A man who can't leave a woman because she won't let him go. That induced impotent rage in my mind and chest.The most fucked up part is I didn't really like her from the start. She was just a good girl, cute and well behaved, and I didn't look ahead into the future at the time. I was just dating for fun and experience.Yes, I think you should break up. You need a woman that inspires you to be a great man, and by being a great man, you inspire her, and the positive feedback loop from this will be infinitely more fulfilling that what you currently have.I am enjoying my time alone right now, after being trapped for so long. Now I just get to observe, patiently, and decide what ever it is I want to do. It's incredible.
>>33824678If you think a 22 year old woman and a 35 year old man can't have anything in common, why do you think a 140 IQ man and a 110 IQ woman can?There is all this outrage over age gaps, but precisely none over IQ gaps. Do you think a non-autistic man two standard deviations in cognitive ability above a woman cannot manipulate her to the most insidious and absolute of degrees through just the sheer breadth and magnitude by which he outclasses her? Because I assure you, he can possess her in ways her opposite sex peers could only dream of.He can perceive and plan, encode and employ in myriad ways she is blind to, his capacity for dominance transcending her mere comprehension of the concept, able to recondition, rewire and rearrange her in ways she didn't even know possible. She may read inane magazine grade fluff pieces, misattributing cathartic armchair psychological jargon like "narcissist" to him in an attempt to seem aware and informed when she's upset, but she doesn't actually have the capacity to perceive what's going on, nor penetrate the depths of the mind of the man who can comprehend her singular fullness in ways not even she can.
>>33827385Now before you panic at this realisation, you need not worry, for when the intelligence gap is too wide, the less intelligent person becomes something akin to a pet. That is to say, a type of affection can be felt for them due to an appreciation for certain moral qualities or traits they might possess, like courage, conscientiousness or compassion, but ultimately the one C that matters most - comprehension - is absent. And so he is a forever obscure and impenetrable depth to her, an unsolvable puzzle - which may prove tantalisingly agonising for her, but ultimately unrewarding for him.His self-expression, breadth of being and depth of thought is never truly appreciated by her, because she cannot grasp it. Colour and vibrancy is lost in the air between them as it travels from his mouth to her ears, as her mind naturally gives rise to an ineffable gulf in its habitual dilution of his complexity, blinding her tragically to his totality, thereby rendering true connection impossible.IQ does not merely reflect abstract reasoning ability - it sets a ceiling on one’s capacity for psychological development. The higher the IQ, the more complex a person's neural architecture becomes. Emotional maturity, depth of self-reflection, capacity for abstract pattern recognition, and spiritual integration are all constrained by the limits of one’s processing power.A woman with a 110 IQ will plateau at a certain point cognitively, relationally, and spiritually. No matter how good her intentions, her mental bandwidth limits her ability to keep up with a man who lives several layers above her in perception. Her emotional responses will feel sincere, but to the high IQ man, they will often appear simplistic, recycled, and insufficiently individuated.
>>33827400This is why mental age is the far more pertinently relevant metric than biological age. A 22 year old woman with a 130 IQ will be closer in maturational structure to a 35 year old man with a 140 IQ, than a 32 year old woman with an IQ of 105. Without this parity in abstraction, one partner will inevitably become a teacher or a caretaker rather than a true complement, and thus the relational dynamic is doomed to collapse into instruction of her, compensation for her, and boredom with her.Such a woman is unable to properly intuit him and give him what he needs, because she cannot map his crevices and indents and subtle patterns. After all, how can she engage with what she cannot perceive? Truly then, soul deep connection is not possible between the intellectually dissimilar, because dominance without resonance comes at the cost of depth. Yes, the man can rule more easily with less challenge - but at grave cost, and for an ultimately less fulfilling prize. To use a grotesque metaphor that drives the distinction home: it is like being the king of a dump rather than a palace, infinitely easier, yes, but exceptionally less rewarding and infinitely more pointless.Some disordered, shallow and insecure men who prioritise control over depth of connection may relish in these kinds of relationships, as they look to maximise the power differential at the expense of all else, whilst some women may enjoy them, because irrespective of their insecurity and how small he effortlessly makes her feel, she sees him as a sort of high status all knowing magician she can treat like ChatGPT. To her, he is a pattern recognising problem solving demigod she can go to with all her problems and questions, where he always responds with something "smart sounding" she doesn't really understand, but feels assured by because "he sounds like he knows what he's talking about".
>>33827405For the woman, this is akin to having a direct connection to divinity, a splash of water to the face and a breath of fresh air in a desert of dry and comprehensible dimness, but for the man, it is utterly underwhelming and banal, for she is completely incapable of bringing him anywhere near to his limits - she is in all her most tragic essence - underwhelming - insufficient.Just think of it, for all their familiarity, such a man would be a stranger in his own bed with the one who is meant to be closest to him - and so if you would speak of love and connection and the capacity to exploit power differentials, why do you never speak of this? Why do you always speak of age gaps, but never of intelligence gaps?High intelligence, when not constrained by cowardice, but applied with full intent to the totality of the pursuit and mastery of another being, is the ultimate form of dominance. If this is not the case, then why do we fear the capacity for artificial intelligence to manipulate us and take all our jobs? Because it is. That is to say, the natural hierarchy of society is in large part an intellectual hierarchy - and all societies have as such since the dawn of time stratified their population by cognitive ability through the complexity tiers of their professions.This is why I am of the (what should not at all be) rather controversial position that an age gap couple of more proximal IQ is more ethical than a similarly aged couple with a much wider one.Of course, women don't get insecure about how other women are smarter than them - only about how much more desirable, fertile and physically attractive younger women are. And so due to this motivation alone, there will never be the cultural energy and outrage for the IQ gap that there is for the age gap, in a feminised culture where the opinions of spinsters, divorcees and relationally dissatisfied reason-deficient women are cacophonously centred in public discourse to our collective detriment.
>>33827385>>33827400>>33827405>blablabla
>>33827416This is why - most uncoincidentally - the attitude of a culture towards age gaps is indicative of how patriarchal it is. Any culture that sees them as a good thing is patriarchal, and any culture that doesn't, isn’t. Why? Because in non-patriarchal cultures, the family unit has collapsed and divorce has become normalised, dare I say, routine. This means older women who should have long since been permanently removed from the market, continue to see younger women as competing potential wives to be sabotaged in their pursuit of seeking a masculine axis to orient themselves around, rather than as daughters to be mentored from a solidified position of wifehood.Truly, if people weren't just being manipulative and self-interested, but were actually operating from principle-based thinking, they would see there's a lot of merit in what I’m saying. IQ gaps near categorically allow for an equal, if not even greater power differential than age gaps, with no capacity for mutual soul fulfilment. And yet there is relatively little outrage over IQ gaps, and vast hysterics over age gaps, despite being the historically demonstrated proof of concept with the capacity to generate deep mutual fulfilment. This isn't to say age gap relationships can't come in a predatory flavour - because they can - only that they often aren’t, and need not necessarily be, whilst an IQ gap relationship almost always will be, even if not intended to be due to the structural irreconcilability of the dynamic.Power flows naturally to the one who sees more, thinks deeper, and understands further. His perceptive bandwidth eclipses hers, so even in kindness, he will be forever out of reach, experienced by her, but never truly known to her, because no resonance can exist between the comprehended, and the incomprehensible.
>>33827417Enjoy your cheerios and zelda games this Sunday. You have wageying to do all week at the supermarket - stocking shelves for 8 hours at the command of your obese chain-smoking manager.
>>33827426Wow, I did not see that coming. Only 2 sentences.
>>33827420> Any culture that sees them as a good thing is patriarchal, and any culture that doesn't, isn’t.I'll just leave this here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_European_marriage_patternAge gaps not being normal, let alone being celebrated, isn't a new invention in the West, and it has nothing inherent to do with notions of equality.>And yet there is relatively little outrage over IQ gaps, and vast hysterics over age gapsBecause IQ isn't directly related to the perverse, transactional nature of most age gap relationships (older man goes after younger woman for sex, she accepts for resources and substitute father figure for the one she didn't have). If a guy is dating a literal retard or obviously taking advantage of a woman, people still get upset. But nobody cares if he's just more intelligent.
>>33824695>>33824738>>33825641>>33825897This is a biological (XY chromosomes) male
>>33824678>I've wanted out for a long while, but I'm at odds if I should just try and work on my perspective on things.Nigga like what? You hate her and she makes you unhappy. You share nothing with her and you put up with her crap. How does she repay you? Does she try to enjoy anything you like? Either put your foot down and not give a shit and enjoy having a pet who will fuck you or leave.
>>33827917im not trans. moids just hate to think that their actions have even the slightest consequences
>>33824678Break up with her. Don't be a dick because she's a good girlfriend, you two just aren't in to the same things. You can be alone forever or alone for a while until you find someone worth spending time with.
>>33830104Pretty much this. It can take a while, but you can find someone.Source: took two years after a breakup to find someone new
>>33824678Seems youve been there for a while to have got the gains/xp from that relationship. Kinda like having a vacation on a mindset (being a zoomer servant) but now you want to return home to yourself.Cutting ties living together is hard but if the logistics are right (you can afford and have your own shit to live on your own) you have to rip that bandaid out. Important: if she has nowhere to go then it would be the right thing to help her out get on her land on her feet even more so when you initiated. THink that she might tell other people (i.e women) you are either a great guy or a total asshole. If you both would land in a good stop then GTFO.I had a similar situation but I was homeless so got a girl to have a place even when I didnt liked her. She was servant and had a similar situation you describe BUT it was a comfort zone that lasted 2 years. I mean, who TF want to go to work, cook, clean, can have my dick sucked at the wave of a finger, just play games and make music all fucking day etc... Its was a good life but I already had my mental vacation for 2 years and just wanted to do something else.Second part was after I GTFO that I had to pay rent, cook for myself, wash my own clothes, much less time for music and games etc... honestly, having to do all that shit fucking sucked ass. you might think "Oh, thats what I want IDGAF I'll do it" but adapting from total comfort to not having it, takes time.
Interesting that some incels/4channers are getting old/succesful enough for a relationship with normie women and realizing that shit sucks. This isn't the first time I see a thread like this and I'm going through the same situation. Giving up your life, hobbies and money to a person whose entire personality is twitter and tiktok isn't worth it. Sex is a meme too.
>>33830168Men really be hobosexual without remorse like this
>>33830168how did you end up homeless?how'd you meet that woman?how'd she react when you broke it off with her?
>nooooo this woman who sucks my cock, fucks me, is faithful, and wants to be around me i'm going insane nooooooo i need a boss girl who will bitch me out and be annoying instead!
>>33824678>Problem is I don't really like her.Then why are you even asking this fucking question? Take your double digit IQ and fuck off, retard.
>>33834506>>33834526the duality of man>>33830168if i find a moid in ur situation, could i get it to be honest and obedient?
