>>33825413
We don't know what you did, so how could we decide what you could have done differently?

Bitches who twirl their hair are low-key retarded so I wouldn't count it as a loss, next

>>33825413
at least this moid cant blame its looks

>>33825457
moids whine about everything

>>33825413
Don't change who you are for pussy. I have met 10/10s that I didn't click with for the same reason. Focus on yourself and the right woman for you will come along. You might be a guy like me who doesn't want to come off strong, maybe you're an anxious person, maybe you're autistic, maybe shes autistic, or maybe she is just a horoscope dumb bitch and she is only looking for someone to "vibe" with. I say nothing gained, nothing lost my brutha. Keep your chin up fr.

You'll find the one someday. I did.

>>33825521
Following up w/ 10/10 story

>Met cute white blonde girl w/ blue eyes in middle school
>Made out with her once in hs but never dated because we went to different schools
>College rolls around and she is hot as fuck, the type of girl you walk with and you notice people checking her out
>Breaks up w/ her bf.
>Makes IG stories about how she is sad
>Tell her I'm coming to her house w/ a suprise
>Bring her chocolate ice cream, snacks, etc.
>Asks me if I want to go to a movie w/ her next week
>Say yeah but I'm autistic and didnt realize it was a date
>Didnt dress nice at all, thought I was just picking her up at her door and taking her directly to the movie theater
>She brings me in to guzzy up, introduces me to her mom (literally a smoking hot milf)
>Go out to mall, buy food before movie starts.
>Small talk but not sure if shes into me, shes mentioned during the convo that Channing Tatum was ugly.
>I instantly sandbag myself because I thought I was 4 fucking points below channing.
>Go to movie
>10 mins in, feel her slowly nudging into my arm
>Ignore bc autism
>Keeps occuring
>Eventually get the hint and awkwardly hug her and don't go for any more moves bc I was a b.a.s.e.d Christian wamyn respecter at the time
>Movie ends (dont even remember the name)
>Shes kind of stand off-ish, borderline pissed
>Take her home and go to /fit/ to cleanse myself

She reached out years later via LinkedIn, seems like she liked me enough to keep in touch. Dodge a bullet tho, tolds me about hoe she has been kicked out of several living arrangements, she hit the wall and is a full on astrology retard who wastes every penny of hers on travelling and buying stupid shit.

Met my wife who likes me for me and supports my autistic lifestyle. Doesnt try to change me at all. Would've missed out on my perfect woman if I went all in and it worked out with that 10/10. Prob would've nutted in her and taken a completely different route in life for the worse.

>>33825515
Hair twirler detected

>>33825626
Too long didn't fucking read
Channing Tatum mentioned
Channing a cute, wtf

*Reads story*
Checks out

>>33825662
Reddit

>>33825413
You were taking too long without making a move. She even gave you the perfect opportunity to segue into a hook up and you pussied out.

>>33825687
Bro the entire night she was being dry asf to me and I could tell she wasn’t interested so I didn’t want to make things more awkward than they already were
>>33825521
Bro I feel like actual shit cause she was super into me over text until we met in person then it seemed like she lost interest. She’s probably getting cracked rn by somebody who’s better than me and it makes me depressed as fuck I actually really liked this girl

>>33825686
r/greentextstories down-boated cuz some dumb butterface blonde with a hot body said Channing was ugly when he a relatively cute

>>33825701
Yeah, been there too. I think that happens pretty often though. A lot of people feel comfortable in DMs and then act differently irl. Maybe next time try to call them or Facetime to get them comfortable with chatting / seeing you. Might be the move.

>>33825701
Forgot to mention, what makes you think she is getting cracked by someone better than you? Who determines your worth other than yourself? You gotta advocate for yourself man, stop thinking there is someone better out there than you. Get your income up, work on yourself, get /fit/.

If you think you are worth $150K. a year and you are qualified for it, don't yield to the first idiot that offers you $80K. The other "lucky guy" who pounced on the opportunity took the $80K is there with some busted ass job that he hates.

Same thing goes with this hoe. You're a good guy, shit didn't work out for some reason, move on. Some fuck boy with a Dodge dart raw dawg fucks her and gets her knocked up. He isn't winning son, you are.

>>33825737
Because if I was better at being a man she would’ve actually liked me and we’d probably be out on a second date by now. Instead I acted awkward and probably gave her the ick somehow. Now she’s probably going out with a better looking guy who actually has game. If I was better she would’ve still liked me instead I completely fumbled because I can’t talk to women. Just sucks knowing how much she liked me and as soon as we hung out she got the ick. Idk what’s wrong with me but I legitimately feel like total shit. I’ve been in bed for the past two days and haven’t eaten anything. If I wasn’t such a “good guy” she probably wouldn’t have gotten the ick so bad.

>>33825788
Sounds like you're spiraling to me, man. You should use that imagery to fill you with spite. You are in bed crying to anon faggots on a korean basket weaving forum about how you got no pussy while she is out fucking Chad. Fuck that bitch, get out there and do something productive TODAY. Sitting around mopping wont do shit. You are better than this and you shouldn't give a fuck about whether you gave some NPC bitch the ick.

>>33825413
Im gonna be honest you probably didn't have. A chance to begin with because girls make any and every excuse to be with someone they like. Even if you had a shot with this chick it would have been a fight the whole way to keep your interest. You would have lost at some point. Im not saying you can't get a "10/10" but just because she agreed to a date doesn't mean ahe even seriously considered you. You will get over it soon enough just keep chugging along and find another girl who actually likes you and doesn't treat you like scum like this chick

>>33825794
I’m a constant failure with women. I’ve tired time and time again and more often than not I always fumble them. There’s zero reason to “work on myself” or to “get money” cause I’m constantly going to be alone and miserable the rest of my life because something is so fundamentally unattractive with me that I usually just get rejected or ghosted. I really thought I had a chance with this girl but I failed like always. At this point I’m just giving up. I’m not working towards a future I’m going to be miserable and alone in

>>33825806
I’m almost 27 and I’ve been trying for years. At some point it seems obvious that I’m just pussy repellent and women just don’t like me. It fucking sucks because everyone else I know is engaged or starting families while I can’t even get a text back, and I’m supposed to just smile and act like everything is ok as I work a 9-5 for the next 45 years and then die alone.

>>33825413
Move on, screw women like her who expect you to be a fucking mind reader or to instantaneously hit it off. She's looking for thrills, not a genuine commitment.

>>33825872
They’re all like that though.

Bump

>>33825413
>What's the best way to kms?
Jump off the top of a very tall building.

>>33825413
>What could I have done differently?
Probably nothing. Sometimes there's a connection between people, sometimes there isn't.

>>33825844
>There’s zero reason to “work on myself” or to “get money”
You're certainly never going to get a woman if that's your attitude.

>>33825852
I go to school 9 to 5 but I started doing a fuckload of hobbies and attending events and losing weight, now I see around 120 women per week, 50 to 60 of them are new women that I haven't seen before. maybe that's what you need, more women. I really think there's a luck factor there, so it really is a numbers game. Keep it up brother you can do it I'm 29 and still no gf for over a year (had one for 5 years she cheated on me)

>>33825457
Elaborate

Bump

>>33825413
women be like "dance monkey dance" with this making moves shit

Bump

>>33825413
Look, women are weird. In her eyes, she was absolutely throwing herself at you and you rejected her.

>>33834551
I don’t think so. I could tell that the date just generally wasn’t going well. I should’ve put my arm around her for sure but I was too nervous and my self esteem was shot cause she just seemed bored and wasn’t having a good time so I didn’t even bother trying. Even if I did make a move I think she would’ve still ghosted me and putting my arm around her would’ve been pointless considering there was a 0% chance I would’ve been able to kiss her

>>33835182
>girl is into you
>keeps showing signs that she is into you
>you act as if she is not into you
>this comes off as you are not into her
>surprised pikachu face when she says she doesn’t feel a connection

>>33835209
You weren’t there but I could 100% tell she wasn’t into me. There was so many awkward pauses and moments that I lost count, and her body language was gave away from me a little and not towards me which is a huge sign they aren’t feeling you. At one point she legit asked me what my favorite color was which is just a huge sign the date isn’t going well if you have to resort to such a retarded and basic question. Even when I hugged her when I first saw her she gave my a awkward one arm hug instead of a full hug which tells me I wasn’t as attractive as she was hoping

>>33835243
You need to get out of your own fucking head.

>>33835258
>pick up girl
>is awkward quietly the entire time
>body language facing away from me
>unnatural conversations with long pauses
>gave me a awkward one arm hug instead of a full body hug
>refused to play music in my car despite us hyping up her music taste and listening to it together
>brooo she was so into you why didn’t you make a move?

Yeah I’m not going to make an awkward date even more awkward by holding her hand lmao

>>33835209
Genuine question, even if this is true, why on earth would someone throw themselves at a first date? I hardly know anything about her aside from just meeting, I want to take the time and get to know a bit more, sure call me a raging faggot, but why is it my fault if I don't feel like being affectionate with someone that I don't fully know yet? Especially if I say I'm looking for something long term, as does she, why is there a sudden expectation in the concept of love at first sight, without knowing anything about how they're capable of handling deeper feelings?

>>33835594
All of this stuff is in your head. You were the one who jumped to thinking i was ever talking about “making a move”.

You need to look at situations with their opposites. You interpreted her looking into your eyes and twirling her hair as disinterest. Disinterest is staring out the window or looking around the restaurant. You interpreted her asking your favorite color meaning the conversation was too stunted. Alternatively you could have interpreted it as a cute way for her to engage you in an easy and fun topic. You interpreted her not putting on music in your car the same as if you had put on music she likes then she turned off the radio,

So, like i said, you need to get out of your own head.

>>33835622
I wasn't OP, but I was speaking as someone with similar experiences with women acting interested then at the drop of a hat suddenly heel turning. Had a frustrating date this week where everything seemed great, she was engaged, laughing and going through a wide array of topics, then suddenly at the drop of a dime, she heel turned, made a piss poor excuse about leaving, awkwardly said "I'll text you" about a next date when she didnt have my number, and the date had an awkward end. I have enough social awareness to know I didnt say something controversial or radical, but the whiplash was so intense I have no idea how to even process what she was looking for. I just feel led on.

So why are women like this? What on earth are they possibly expecting right off the bat?