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I have an ego problem. When I meet new people I automatically expect them to worship me and treat me like i'm their best friend and if they don't i lose interest fast. I'm like this with women too. If i feel even slightly rejected or the other person doesnt show much interest i also lose interest fast and give up on them almost entirely. I used to burn bridges a lot but now i only fantasize about it while enjoying solitude. Maybe im bad at pacing things because its like i want to rush 0 to 100 fast. This is probably due to having an extremely narcissistic father. Any advice? How do you keep the flame going in a relationship when it starts to get cold? I still miss one of the worst toxic exs ive ever had because she became obsessed with me and gave me attention all the time.
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>>33826220
>This is probably due to having an extremely narcissistic father.
No, it's due to *you* being narcissistic.
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>>33826220
Hey, I just listened to that last night! Lol!
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>>33826220
Take a martial art, you will be forcibly humbled for a long time before you get any good. It is physically/emotionally painful but probably the best thing you can do.
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>>33826419
fpbp
OP's father is very likely a narcissist also of course, but OP learned all the wrong lessons from it.
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>>33826419
My mom divorced my dad because of his narcissism.
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>>33827626
I've taken up boxing recently and it is helping me.
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>>33826220
So, like avoiding being around people who don't like you is narcissistic now?
Is this like the new term for force teaming people?



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