i think my gf has become detached mentally/emotionally lately, she did not confirm or deny but she once said she feels unappreciated/used but does not want to open the subject anymore. i mean she is still polite and gentle, will react to me and we still get along but something is different? she isn't as talkative or emotionally spontaneous as before. Is this fixable? i checked through her phone and she is not cheating + home almost all day
>>33826285>she once said she feels unappreciated/used but does not want to open the subject anymore.If you started appreciating her and stopped using her, perhaps that would help?
>>33826410I didn't know I was not appreciating her or that I am using her?
>>33826446>I didn't know I was not appreciating her or that I am using her?That makes it worse.
How are the little things? Do you do chores evenly/fairly? Do you still smile at each other/touch each other? Are you still goofy with each other? How are talks about your future? When's the last time you went on a date? For me my ex mentally checked out (and eventually broke up) when I just really didn't give a fuck and I realized it too late and she didn't want to go back where we were.
>>33826446Did she go into specifics about why she feels this way? Either way you're going to have to have a discussion about it and there's no guarantee where it will go, but it needs to happen. Otherwise, the most likely thing to happen if you don't discuss the matter is she leaves you, or she goes and finds someone else to satisfy her needs while likely keeping you around unaware of what's going on.So why does she feel that way?
>>33826493>Do you do chores evenly/fairly?Not quite, the workload is more on her but idk homekeeping is more for women somehow>Do you still smile at each other/touch each other?>Are you still goofy with each other?Yes, we are quite playful in general. Albeit I'm more the affectionate/touchy one, her style is a bit more detached, instead of physically and verbally warm>How are talks about your future?What should that include? >When's the last time you went on a date?I don't remember to be honest. I'm more of a homebody and prefer takeout. It's been a while since we've been on a walk too I guess, though she often goes out on walks to keep active>For me my ex mentally checked out (and eventually broke up) when I just really didn't give a fuck and I realized it too late and she didn't want to go back where we were.Did you slack with all of the things you asked about? How did you tell she checked out and for how long?
>>33826285isnt that what moids want? you always complain about women thinking that the "friend" in bf meant something
>>33826285I won't read threads whose premise is that sex is for entertainment rather than for procreation. If the woman had any sense she would dump you and find a serious man.
>>33832367"serious man" is an oxymoron.BEGONE, BREEDER
