i might be hypersexual or at least i have a strong sex drive and since i was like 12 I've been really into gross hentai and i can only make myself orgasm when watching that stuff, like when watching vanilla, i just don't get off. i think it's because of my low self-esteem, so i want something degrading for me. now that i have a boyfriend (we both were each others' first, so we're inexperienced), he's been trying to make me cum but i don't think i can if I'm not watching gross hentai and I'm not telling my bf that bc i know the stuff he likes is vanilla and i don't think he'd be accepting of what i like bc it's too much for him. also I've started to get disgusted of myself whenever i watch anything too weirdhow do i become normal so my boyfriend makes me finish?
tone it down, inch your way back into normality little by little. Also, holy shit take a break from porn for a bit. The cure for your addiction isn't surrounding yourself with more of said addiction.
>>33828739I've tried to get away from hentai and even after not watching any for many months, i eventually relapse. usually after a guilt-filled wet dream. but yeah toning it down might be an idea
>>33828773maybe try to start reading doujinshis, then ero mangas, then work your way into real life JAV, and work from there is my advice. Also, how gross are the things you're into? I'm sure he might understand you and your fetishes
>>33828786>maybe try to start reading doujinshis, then ero mangas, then work your way into real life JAV, and work from there is my advicei don't know if the format is the problem but at least i gotta work myself down to vanilla hentai first >how gross are the things you're into? I'm sure he might understand you and your fetishesessentially anything that's degrading i think. he would understand the more normal ones like bondage, i think i briefly mentioned wanting him to restrain me before. but when it gets to morally ambiguous areas (i like ambiguous consent up until straight up rape (i imagine myself at the receiving end) and i'm desensitized towards pretty much anything, including gore and stuff), he's not gonna understand.
>>33828880Ah, I see. Are you into the loss of control or the more aggressive/violent and/or animalistic aspects of it? You could try to curb your wants into a more comfortable field, such as tying your arms or just being aggressive in general.
>OH I'M REALLY GROSS AND KINKY, I'M AFRAID MY BOYFRIEND WILL LEAVE ME IF HE FINDS OUT HOW FREAKY I AM>it's just men overpowering womenEvery fucking time. Your relationship is fine, lass, go and tell him what you're into.
>>33828880>i'm desensitized towards pretty much anything, including gore and stuffEvery male weeb has long since accepted that women like guro
>>33828913i think it's loss of control. the problem is also that i think my bf and i are both kinda submissive, so i don't think there's a lot we'd actually go through with. at least it's worth bringing up though i guess
>>33828923it's not just overpowering, it's rape, something i know my bf doesn't like lmfao. also stop the kink competition
>>33828940he's not a weeb, so this doesn't work here
>>33828966What do you guys have in common then?
>>33828970we're both into games and stuff. he also watches an occasional anime with me but that's it
>>33828722Were you molested by any chance?
>>33828956Yeah, you can maybe try to push him into being more assertive during sex. But also, don't get too deep in your fetishes please.
>>33828961>it's not just overpowering, it's rapeAka the most milquetoast female fetish ever. The sooner he learns women love that shit, the better.
>>33828996no.
>>33828999thank you maybe I'll try to ask him to be more assertive but also yeah idk if it'll work. and yeah obvs im not gonna go too far
>tomokoniggerkill yourself
>>33828722Genuinely, let him fuck you in the ass.
