I was raised to be very docile. My parents don’t believe in self defense and told me if I was bullied to just ignore it or do nothing. My mom said fighting back makes you just as bad. I grew up never ever raising my voice to anyone, even when something bothered me I’d just repress it and contain my anger.Now I’m 25 and I’m starting to realize nobody can tell me what to do and when I get annoyed I lash out. My mom can’t ground me anymore since I live on my own so it’s unleashing everything. I was at a family gathering and my Aunt kept asking me to try some weird sushi thing. >Aunt: anon you gotta try this!!!>Me: no thanks, I’m ok, but I appreciate the offer>Aunt: no anon you gotta try it it’s really good!!!>Me: no thanks I’m good, I think I’ll maybe have it later>Aunt: no anon you gotta try it you gotta eat, anon eat eat eat! Look at it it’s really goodShe then raised it up to my face. So many times in my life I’ve given into food pushers and ate something that I knew I’d find absolutely disgusting just to avoid conflict, and then have to sit with an unpleasant taste as I try to wash it away. The memory of all those instances came back>Me: Sorry but I think I’ll have to pass on this one, please don’t ask me again I’ve made up my mind>Aunt: ok, but you’re missing out… look, it’s got virgin oil sauce, I think you’d like it… try it anon you need to try it!!!!!! Here I’ll give you a smaller piece to try!>Me: Piss off!!! I said stop asking me!!!!>Aunt: woah what happened???>Me: I said stop asking me, I’ve said no twice and told you to stop, and you continued asking me to try it. Now I don’t feel respected. So please stop asking me to eat something I already said no to!!!That’s one example but there’s been a dozen other examples exactly like that.
Unironically don't. If they can't respect your answers and boundaries then fuck them. You where raised to be a good little sheep and now you have realized that you are a man and need to control your life.
youve been oversocialised and now are trying to gett off that psychological leash
>>33828852But this is how you end up in a lot of trouble
>>33828852>>33828884>>33828754repeat thread spammer/pasta poster aka "food pushers"https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/search/text/food%20pushers/filter/text/do not engage with him
>>33829012How much of a loser do you have to be to spend so much time here that you know when people repeat threads?
>>33828754What an ingrate. When I visit my family I happy chow down on whatever they offer me. Saves on the grocery bills.
>>33829133I'm much less of a loser and spend less time than the actual guy reposting threads on /adv/ as his full time jobIf I pop in once a week and see the same thread repeated over 3 months, that's just basic pattern recognition.
>>33829133you seem to be new here. If you visit /adv/ three times a week, you'll see the same spam threads three times.
>>33829194You’re a gross pig. Buy your own shit
>>33828754OP has posted this before. OP is not going to do anything or listen to any advice. OP is a fag.
>>33828754You did that right thing and you’re right wing which is based
