I need fucking help /adv/I am a 33 year old who's life has completely passed him by. I was in a depressive fog for a long time, have had a chronic disease since I was 12 but in the last 3 years got access to new management technology and I've been able to pull myself out of the fog a bit. I genuinely did not think I would live to see 30, so I did not plan for anything, yet here I am. >33>living with parents>no uni degree>college diploma (I am a leaf, college and uni are very different here)>work a job as an office admin for 45k/year (it's a contract though so it's possible in a few months I do not get brought on full time)I didn't go to university when I was younger because I thought I would have killed myself or otherwise died by this age. My life is kinda fucked at this point, I am so far behind my peers I just can't see any light at the end of the tunnel. I definitely had a case of psychological arrested development, and feel like in recent years I've been crossing life milestones that other folks went through at appropriate ages. I'm effectively trying to speedrun building a career while avoiding burnout. Have done digital marketing, construction, and now admin work over the past few years trying to find out what I enjoy (or at least what is tolerable to me in regards to work) that could actually afford a life for me one day.Idk, does anyone have any advice for me? How do I build so late in life? People wanted to offer me opportunities when I was younger but I didn't take advantage because I believed I'd be dead by now.Is it possible for me to build a life at this point?Any words of wisdom are appreciated. Thanks.
>>33829492Organize, minimize, optimize, invest.
>>33829492You totally can still build a life, and it looks like you’re taking positive steps in that direction, which is great.You could start looking for a full time job doing something like your current or previous jobs and get more experience, or try something new. If uni is still an option, you could consider that. Also, therapy might be helpful. You might even try meeting new people and dating when you feel ready for it.While I understand feeling bad about the past, I think you should focus on what a good life in the future looks like for you, and keep heading in that direction each day. Good luck, anon.
>>33829492>depressive fog>chronic diseaseDo a parasite cleanse but first do the Andreas Moritz liver cleanse so dead parasites won't overwork the liver.
I'm 40 and still trying to build a life for myself.A mouse doesn't stop looking for cheese because it thinks it's too old, it just goes for it because why the hell not?
>>33829492https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 33 or 23 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
1. everyone is different and their life path is different2. you seem extremely spoiled/privileged if you can go through a decade of that with full support3. just find any job and build from there. maybe ask your relatives to set you up. if not spam applications until someone takes you
>>33829492>I am a 33 year old who's life has completely passed him by.I won't read any further, and I won't read calendar of doom threads. No, you passed life by. Start now making something of your life. There are no magic cures here.
>>33831446>everyone is different and their life path is differentThis such a massive cope, its unreal.
>>33832371>DUDE COOOOOPEif you can't offer anything constructive to say just shut up. There's ten dozen other boards here where you can be an uncaring catchphrase-spouting asshole. What have you done with your life, sir?>DUDE SEEEEETHINGPredictable.
>>33832492Its just a profound saying without any essence.
>>33829492I’m in the same situation you’re in but i’m 27.
>>33829492I blame the previous generation for being complete and utter fuck ups as parents.You’re not at all alone in this.There’s tons of depressed guys just like you out there.I would specifically put the blame on marxism/misandry and mass immigration, but it’s the narcissistic shitheads of our parent’s generation who supported and caused all of it.
>>33832583>Its just a profound saying without any essence.Beautifully ironic post.
>>33830948Is this AI? It reads like it. No offense if not anon>>33831446I've definitely been pretty privileged, you are correct about that. I think I would trade a lot of it for not having dealt with health issues for the majority of my life though.>>33832199I'm not looking for a magic cure by any means just...idk, stories of people who have dug themselves out of a similar hole and made something of themselves, you know? Advice from people who've gone through it and come out the other side>>33832644Honestly if I could give advice to myself at 27 years old it would be to stop letting life happen and try to make it happen a little earlier if that makes sense. Idk what kinda health issues you have going on but doing whatever it takes to get that under control makes a huge difference as well. You're still under 30, people are willing to give you a chance.
