How can you speedrun intimacy and not be scared to death over a woman wanting it? Also tips to survive random silent moments without dropping spaghetti?
>>33832104We all face death, but despite this we are alive. You may think in terms of the mind “how safe is this””what if this goes wrong” futures worry and pasts regret. Much more illuminating to follow the heart “is this right” “How much does it take to get there”. you ditch cold abstracted mental models for an alive intuition in regards to decision making. You may think being a pilot or a sailor as a job you don’t want, but we are all pilots and sailors in the sky sea of reality and our boats and planes rust wither and sink. How foolish would it be for the pilot or sailor to abdicate mid journey and rob himself of the view. All you have to do to succeed with women is be reminded of death (Davy jones locker) on a daily basis and all this becomes trivial and joyous humbling play and you can engage in true compassionate exchange because this recognition is not trying to generate the waves just sailing the ones presented to you.
>>33832262Thank you, good advice, you're right I think
