>24, almost 25>About to graduate college with a BS in Biology with no student debt>Only 20K in savings, have not had a job in over 4 years>Only job experience is with fast food>No drivers license>Overweight, 240lbs>Have never had a girlfriend for more than a month; social skills and confidence have since eroded>Already doubting that my degree will get me anywhere before I even start looking for jobs>Have severe speech impediments; lisps, dyslexia, unable to speak on the fly without having to stop and spend 1-3 seconds thinking about what i'm going to say like a slow retardAll my hobbies have grown dull to me and every waking moment my mind is telling me that i'm wasting time, it is screaming to me that this is the point in life where I make it or break it, that i'll be a forever fuckup if I don't get my act together right now. What would you focus on doing if you were in my shoes? Lose weight? Focus on socialization? Work on my speech impediment? Go back to college for a more practical degree?>Inb4 suicideBelieve me, I know
>Only 20k in savingsCould be worse, you could be down to your last $100 with no job. Go get your driver's license, teenagers do that it isn't hard. Exercise can be hard, especially keeping a routine, but do your best to stay consistent and lose weight. Go to more social things. Can't recommend a bar unless you're a fag, then gay bars have very welcoming patrons, though this is kind of a bad thing because it means they have no standards. Go try new things instead of getting fatigued on current hobbies. You can return to them later down the line and fall in love with them again. Can't really help direct you with that other stuff but it seems like a decent amount of your problems can be solved. Even still, you're not in an unwinnable position with any of your problems right now. It'll get better, trust.
>>33833059>be me >30 y.o NEET virgin, kissless, hugless, sexless, loveless >short and bald >live with parents >no job experience, only getting by hustling >have a driver license from 9 years ago but forgot how to drive due to never having had a car >only thing I have positive is that I am lean and in shape, literally nothing else is good>extreme social anxiety, abysmally low social skills, maybe on the spectrum but idk >no friends >no family member cares about me or likes me beside parents, i feel sad and ashamed they still love me regardless >cripples by self doubt, panic attacks, insomnia, etc.. Don't do it.If i haven't done it yet, neither should you.
>>33833059> If I were in your shoes.Take them off and give them back to you.
>>33833059lose weight >drink nothing but water and coffee (as much sugar + milk as you want, but no milk outside of coffee, as it suppresses hunger, and milk makes you hungrier)>eat in meals, skip breakfast if you don't have work or school>slowly start exercising>join a boxing gym, it'll be months before you spar anyway>pay for driving lessons>practice talking, only way to improve idk howyou can do these all in the same general period of time If you don't do these, you'll just get worse. I have no advice when it comes to social stuff or education, however you do these, utilize them for social practice, use common sense.
>>33836257don't exercise too much and hurt yourself, try to do it every day, or 6 times a week, never been fat. Start with walking, or whatever the american equivalent is
