I made an admittedly huge mistake and during a recent fight I called my partner fat (which is correct but obviously one shouldn't angrily call their overweight partner that during a fight).My partner is a dramatic kind of person and said all sorts of things like never forgetting this and deciding to not eat for the next day etc. We made up, but probably thanks to all the leftover anger and anxiety we had a smaller fight again the very next day, and even if I proviously apologized for the fat comment, I kept getting shit on and taunted to say it again. Now it feels like despite all the apologies, everything revolves around that angry fat comment I made originally.So, is it better to just end it than try to endure things out? I feel like there's a real possibility now that my partner plans on enacting a 'revenge' by finally actually losing weight and then dumping me as a gotcha, or something similar.Is it worth it to continue? We've been together for 4 years and I feel like my fat comment doomed the relationship. And it's not like I really mind it, I was just trying to get revenge for being offended and wanted to say something very offensive during that first fight.
Cool skeleton.
>>33833334He is
>>33833331What's her excuse to be not fat anymore? If she can't lose weight, then don't bother being with her anyway.
>>33833331I like the picture that you posted OP. Do you mind if I save it?
>>33833345There haven't been any excuses really, just being lazy I suppose and being audibly insecure about it. I have been genuinely understanding because I have also been lazy and in the past 6 months I went from just skinny to essentially skinnyfat
>>33833331Where do you see yourself in a year with this woman, realistically? Do you see yourself happy?
>>33833350Do not save it under any circumstance.
>>33833360I saw myself as happy before this fight but I feel like it may have ruined the relationship, neither of us have ever gone that far, actually insulting the other ones looks/weight.
>>33833368If thats all it takes then yeah youre fucked. Do the cost benefit analysis of if you actually want to be with her then decide.
>>33833393I do want to stay but I'm basically afraid of the secret "lose weight then dump" strategy, or even a milder version of that, meaning losing weight and then going out of your way to get attention or startinh to flirt with people constantly. I just don't know.
>>33833409Relationships are built on trust and trust is built on faith. Do with that what you will.
>>33833331If she's willing to demolish your relationship with her over that one comment, then yes, get out of there. She will not stay loyal or committed to you for much longer. Speaking from experience here, anon, get out of that relationship.
