With my gf of 4 years, live together. Things are great, came off a 10 year relationship so love was a bit hard to find again but I got there. About half a year ago one of her friends goes through a huge breakup...almost identical to my experience and through that we bonded and became close, so did my gf. Long story short feelings were there, my partner was even fine with a 3some, which we had...which only made my feelings grow even more...this is such a dumb unrealistic situation but I thought I could have both. Now my gf isn't for it anymore, couldn't stand seeing me woth another woman even though she got more attention...I was fine with this not going anywhere until I was allowed past that point and was lead to believe my gf felt the same about this other girl...now it's been snatched away and I don't know what to do. Heart just feels broken and empty...Yea that sounded kinda gay but fuck knows what I do now...I just want to leave it all...
>>33833378Maybe she is concerned how it wouldaffect the relationship dynamic between you two.
>>33833407That's valid...but my feelings toward her haven't changed, I just feel hurt, like I was given so lead and had it all yanked back...it's not even the sex just emotionally I feel like I've been stunted now.
>>33833378assert dominance via rape...both of themor, stop being a shitbag and either pick one or leave both
>>33833378make sure she knows her place and stays in it, use shock collar if necessary
Omg the other two have never even seen a woman in their lives. How about you tell her how you feel and try to be honest about your feelings? Looking for a middle ground where both parties' feelings are equally considered?(Probability this take a time)If that doesn't work, maybe you should see a professional (couples therapy).
>>33833533>stop being a shitbag and either pick one or leave bothListen to the anon with 6 3's. Quit being a dildo, pick one and live with your decision. You're being a total chode otherwise.
