f & recently turned 18, and i know most later adults say at that age life "hasnt even started yet", but what is it that makes it start? does life get any better from here, or is it just getting jobs and driving and paying things and being expected to go out and party and get a boyfriend, etc?im homeschooled, i did in person til freshman year because i couldnt handle it anymore, i havent gotten a job yet because it intimidates me, ive been suicidal since i was 12 and it hasnt gone away and i dont know where else to ask adults if theres actually anything worth sticking around for or if this is really where the good/easy parts of life end. i dont understand what happens from here
It starts when everything you thought you would do one day makes you realize that you will do them soon enough to achieve them or simply leave them as the possibilities you had in life.We don't see life as it is, we see life as we are, this age is precious, try everything you want.
You just have to be brave enough to get a job, any job, and see what happens then. University is pointless if you don't have a clear technical inclination.But preferably a job that entails some type of human interaction
>>33833606The resting state of life is entropy, decay, shit, and tears. You have to actively make it better. (Or just marry a man to take care of it for you)
>>33833606>life "hasnt even started yet", but what is it that makes it start?>if this is really where the good/easy parts of life endi think seeing adulthood as the beginning of life or the end of "the good part" is the wrong way to go about it, it just leaves everyone wondering "what the hell do i do now?">is it just getting jobs and driving and paying things and being expected to go out and party and get a boyfriend, etc?Seems like all these things don't sound appealing to you. Life doesn't have to be that way, most people just stick with that because it's easier than finding freedom, so much easier that many of them don't even think about looking for it.Your goal should be finding your freedom, what your life should look like, who you want to be.>ask adults if there's actually anything worth sticking around forStick around for everything. Every sunrise and sunset, every new place to go and new friend to make, every bruise and scrape and broken bone, it's all worth it.
>>33833606I doesn't spontaneously "start," by and large, although people will tend to give you a break compared to when you get a few years older. To be a success you must work at it and have a long-term plan. Check out a book titled Succeeding by John T. Reed, intended for your exact age.>t. I sound like the proverbial broken record saying this, but it is true.
>>33833606>does life get any better from here, or is it just getting jobsA job is completely optional as a female, as long you arent obese you can just housewifemaxx. As for it "getting better", it depends entirely on you finding meaning or direction in life.
Well, it's not something that starts automatically with an event like a game at 18. Instead, it progressively improves. In the sense that everything you thought as a child (like "when I grow up, I'll have a house with lots of dogs" or "when I grow up, I'll help people") can now come real. And not only can you fulfill your childhood wishes, but you can also discover new dreams, passions (like vocations), hobbies or even skills. This stage also allows you to make good friends for the rest of your life. It's when you have no ties or limitations and can freely explore without restrictions. And (over time) you'll discover many interesting things for yourself. It's when you begin to lay the foundations for the rest of your life. So don't worry, run, explore and enjoy!
If you what to see more how it turns out you can play some video games about this (life/grow up) I think there are some that are entertaining!
>>33833606What are/were you doing before, and what's stopping you from doing more of it?
>>33833606they probably dont actually know anything 50% are literally bellow average. it started at age 0. you're not an adult until you're 36, 18 is just an expedience for wanting to sex you.