>be me, circa sometime at the end of last year>Meet this girl via a dating app >Go on 3 dates, feels like things are going well because we end up fooling around on date 3>Invite her out again but get hit with a rejection >Sorry, I don't think I'm over my ex and even if I was, I don't think you're my type anyways >Think on it for a bit, say "no problem, but still invite her out anyways since didn't mind a friend in this case, thought she was cool" >Says she needs time time a bit, no problem I just move on at that point >Fast forward a bit, I got broken up with my gf >Hit her up on a whim, she invites me over >We catch up, fun talking to her>She bluntly asks me "I know this is weird but do you wanna fool around?" >I of course say yes>We've now been fooling around and fucking for a few months now >She's cool we hang out semi regularly and have great chemistry>But doesn't seem to have a romantic interest in me (was talking about being a third I guess in someone else's fling) >Meanwhile I'm over here developing feelings for her in a more strong capacitySo like what's the deal here? I don't think I'm THAT attractive and she's fine as hell. I don't know if I just enjoy a good thing and keep looking for a better partner and keep working on myself, or if there's something I'm missing here. It's weird that a girl will fuck me and not see me as a potential partner. Ain't the first time this has happened either but still >Tldr this girl will fuck me and hang out with me but doesn't see me as a boyfriend what's up with tha
i am in the same situation as you anon.>met girl in 6th grade elementary>had on and off crush/relationship with her (mostly off)>lost contact during college freshmen year>3rd year now, see her again>she invites me to her place and ends up fucking me>says she sees me only as a friend but not as someone that will be with her in the future>she is into another guy >say i cant commit so its cool (her family is loaded, im broke)>couple days pass, end up telling her i love her after intimacy>she says it back and starts playfully getting angry at me for not being able to commit>5 days later, she picks the other guy at the airport and gets fucked, missing her niece's birthday (to which her family invited me to)>she pulls up to the bday when we were already leaving>during dinner with her senpai, she updates me about the other guy and that she got a hickeyAbsolutely devastated. I felt like the man getting to fuck my long time crush but hooooly shit this sucks. Now she wants to talk to me cuz she feels guilty and all but i dont see her the same way, being able to fuck another guy like our shit didn't matter, even i wouldnt be able to do that.>tldr fucked long time crush but she fucked with another dude 5 days after knowing full well she loves meyou are not alone
>>33836488Idk that one sounds like a bullet dodged anon
>>33834438>doesn't see me as a boyfriend what's up with thashe said earlier than she doesn't consider you her type (of boyfriend)
>>33836488>>tldr fucked long time crush but she fucked with another dude 5 days after knowing full well she loves methat's horrible dude.fucking terrible.I moved countries, I don't know anyone from my previous life anymore.no long-term friends, or long-term girl friends.I can't see any of them, all these stories aren't relatable to me anymore because I can't do anything.I don't get crushes because I don't hang around girls unless I fucking date them, It's horrible but also I WANT A GIRL SO FUCKING BAD ;((((((((((((( I'm sorry for you man but I REALLY want a gf right now
>>33838443Well I guess what I'm getting at is why doesn't she see me as bf material? It's weird because usually the sex thing is always the give away but idk man
