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i matched with my ideal woman in tinder but because i don't have (((gold))) i ended up swiping right on her too late and she ended up deleting her account, all i have is her name, age, distance and selfie; how do i find her? She probably goes to the same uni as me.
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>>33835040
found her, that's weird, looks like I've requested to follow her before but she hasn't accepted
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Its a tinder made fake profile so that you get baited to spend time and money on the platform, check out facebook dating that is completely free and you will learn how most women look like.
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>>33835040
Brother. Meet girls irl. You have much better chances that way
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>>33835105
>Its a tinder made fake profile so that you get baited to spend time and money on the platform
Nah, we literally have 100+ mutuals on instagram, lol, I thought so too at first
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>>33835112
Idk where to go, clubs and bars here are shit and I'm really only into certain Asian girls
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>>33835126
Then go to where you can find certain Asian girls.
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>>33835130
That's gonna be an expense of a few thousand which I refuse to spend atm
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>>33835137
Three options:
1. Either keep beating your dick and wasting your time not getting niche asian bitches.
2. stop beating your dick, be normal, and widen your net to more girls.
3. Spend thousands of dollars to get asian bitches

Choose.
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>>33835149
>stop beating your dick, be normal, and widen your net to more girls.
I've tried that, I seem to only appeal to asian women
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>>33835155
I guess you're fucked then, huh?
/thread
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>>33835155
or black women, which don't count
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>>33835120
How can you have 100 people in common on social media and have never met?
How can you have 100 people in common on social media and sincerely not think of a single way to get someone to introduce her to you?
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>>33835172
Because this is an energy trap thread. Just leave. He's either a complete dumbass or a troll. Either way, he's not worth your time.
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>>33835172
>>33835172
>How can you have 100 people in common on social media and have never met?
Those two aren't mutually inclusive, you don't meet everyone you follow online and vice versa.
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>>33835196
You have 100 people in common. In a college town.
Not one of them knows a guy who knows a guy?
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Update: so she accepted my follower request, and she blocks me when I texted her this lol clown world we live in
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>>33835201
I didn't know we did thus I wouldn't know who to ask in the first place, either way, it's over
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>>33835241
Well. Let's see it. Let's see the face on this girl you were willing to humiliate yourself over.
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>>33835262
go ahead and make fun of me, I honestly don't care anymore
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>>33835241
Desperate as fuck. No wonder she blocked you
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>>33835301
What did I say that came off that way? genuinely, I'm still a kissless hugless virgin so I don't really know the unwritten rules of dating
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>>33835293
blud looks like Sid from ice age
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>>33835326
The crying emoji. But moreso that you tracked her down because you saw her on tinder then told her so. She immediately put her guard up because think: who actually does that? That's weird. You should've tried to strike up a convo about her profile, etc. then just asked her out. Tracking her down makes you look super desperate and is creepy as fuck. And even if it wasn't creepy, women don't want to date someone desperate. It's basically proof that you get no bitches. And women are sort of a hive mind on that. They want men that other women want. If you carry yourself with confidence, they assume you get women. But if you're desperate they know you don't get women. And they wonder "whats wrong with him then?"
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>>33835349
That's fair. I'll make it seem as if I've got plenty of options next time.
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>>33835353
Yes, but you don't do that by saying so. You do that in your actions
>Not desperate
>Confident
>Assertive
>Not afraid to say no
>Not trying to bend over backwards to appease her
>Not worshiping her
>Not afraid to be your own person and disagree

You have to do all those things to seem like that.
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>>33835360
I tend to follow these sorts of guidelines very rigidly, so I just end up even confused on how to act with women ngl
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>>33835567
You need to learn to be more natural. And this is done with practice. You need to speak to 3 women a day. Not trying to get their number or anything. Just striking up a conversation. Like last friday: I was at the Post office and filling out an envelope. There was a woman who was being attended who was super polite and kind. I struck up a conversation commenting
>Wow you sound like a really pleasant person.
It went on for a couple of minutes while she was waiting for the attendant to come back from getting her package.

This builds up the muscle of speaking to them so it's not about rigidly following guidelines because you're used to it. Kinda like walking or riding a bike. Do you rigidly do that? No. It flows because you have x years of experience being a live. It just happens. Same thing with talking to women if you put the practice in.
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>>33835040
LMAO
>Josh is AI generated, I can tell from him being positioned in the middle of the picture with that blurry background and skin like in default prompt settings. And from having seen quite a few AI in my life
>James 26 is as well, from his posture he should be standing, the background does not match at all
>Jack takes pictures with a Pajeet for contrast, what a bitch move
>Theo is a faggot
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>>33835934
As if the girls will notice lmao
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>>33835654
>>Wow you sound like a really pleasant person.
Lol who even says that?
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>>33835241
At least you gave it a shot. She was apparently not worth it.
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>>33835155
Do you look Asian or something?
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>>33835972
Not OP here but my guess is he is a nerd. I speak from experience when I say non-western born Asian women value being a good provider more and also have lower requirements for being dominant.
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>>33835965
>Who even says that
I did. Someone not afraid to speak to women. Because she legit was like
>Thank youuuuuu. I *really* appreciate your help! So much!
But it wasn't forced or anything. You could tell that's actually how she was. So yeah. She sounded really pleasant.
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>>33836024
Why are femAsians like this?
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>>33836239
not all, just the ones raised in villages where casual hookups are not a thing or others being forced to study hard by their parents until they finally get their degree at 24. in some places they really have no time for social activities because of the permanent exams
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>>33836024
>Asian women value being a good provider more and also have lower requirements for being dominant.
But then all men would pass their test and they would get with anyone... So this is only a half-truth



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