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Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)01:22:38 No.33835297

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Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)01:22:38 No.33835297

Encountered some conflict with my only friend group lately and thinking it might be the end. I was reassured by one of the people that everyone was "cool" with me but I also get the feeling that they only said that because they think I'm gonna kill myself if they cut me off. I think they're waiting for me to stop being a schizo before cutting me off. Also doubting if they're even worth keeping around, they are a solid group of people but there's concerning behavior I've noticed that makes me wonder if it's worth the effort it's gonna take to rebuild.

Realistically, I shouldn't be on here talking about this. I should take time off the Internet and work this out with a professional. But this gives me a great deal of anxiety and it's hard not to think about how I'm most likely gonna become a recluse soon.

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)01:51:45 No.33835409

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)01:51:45 No.33835409

Also to be clear the conflict started because I fucked up really bad. The biggest part of this dilemma is feeling like it's almost selfish to try and keep people around that I don't deserve.

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)02:01:37 No.33835459

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)02:01:37 No.33835459

>>33835409
I you don't explain why i'll only assume you're playing the victim card

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)02:06:48 No.33835486

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)02:06:48 No.33835486

>>33835297
>Encountered some conflict with my only friend group lately and thinking it might be the end. I was reassured by one of the people that everyone was "cool" with me but I also get the feeling that they only said that because they think I'm gonna kill myself if they cut me off.
yes? that's the definition of friends?

people that hate you don't give a shit if it seems like you'll kill yourself and don't reassure or change behavior

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)02:08:17 No.33835494

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)02:08:17 No.33835494

>>33835297
>everyone was "cool" with me
You just need to get a lot more chill.

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)02:17:06 No.33835531

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)02:17:06 No.33835531

>>33835486
Maybe I'm way too far gone but what if it really is not wanting to feel responsible for my possible death? I don't present that idea to paint these people as self interested monsters since there's no proven evidence of that, but I'm always preparing for the worst with everything in life.

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)13:15:45 No.33837046

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)13:15:45 No.33837046

After some sleep I realized I can't treat having a friend group like life or death. They're good people but I wouldn't be offended if they were uncomfortable around me. Right now all I need to worry about is making my own head right. Once it's right, I'll be able to take on whatever. That was really fucking stupid of me to post on this website again.

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