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I met her a year ago and she is really sweet and kind. She has been very forgiving with all my flaws and I have lots of them. I find her beautiful facially but she has small breasts and I've always been attracted to really large breasts, the ones many other men could find off putting. Is there a way to let go of this desire? Or will it be the downfall of my relationship?
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>>33835551
tell her to get breast implants or you'll break up with her LOL
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>>33835551
>but she has small breasts
hand her over to me instead.
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>>33835551
Are you into dirty talk at all? Maybe you can get into some light breeding fetish territory, and talk about how big her tits will get when you impregnate her. Just keep it confined to the bedroom. Weird ideas can become hot and permissible when you're both aroused and not thinking straight.
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>>33835551
>>33835568
No OP hand her over to ME


I HAD A BABY BROTHER!!!
AND HE WAS PERFECT!!!!! PERFECT IN EVERY WAY!!!!!!
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>>33835551
I stayed in a relationship for way too long with a girl with small breasts then finally broke it off and jumped to a titcow. So worth.
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>>33835624
>and jumped to a titcow.
Aren't titcows harder to get? I've always thought they had higher standards than most women
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>>33835551
Dude if you're not the kind to get dates easily I say stick with her. You know what's worse than a small-chested girl? No sex for years.
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>>33835671
The problem is that I have a hard time staying hard due to the lack of sexual attraction and makes me feel horrible for her because she is beautiful and deserves better and also the fact that I'm constantly tempted by the idea of busty girls even though I would never act on it
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>>33835657
It was difficult but worth it. I got her to leave her boyfriend the same week I ditched my girlfriend. Been together 3 years now.
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>>33835693
Do you have any advice? How did you do it?
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>>33835551
>I'm into really large breasts
natural?
those usually come attached to a large woman. you fine with this?
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>>33835757
Yeah I'm generally okay with it, the thing is that I would like to be sexually attracted to my gf because I don't want to lose her
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>>33835766
keep your gf and fuck a fattie on the side then
be smart about it so your gf doesn't find out
if that's unmanageable, go to a fat whore, should be cheap too.
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I'm so scared this is how my boyfriend feels about me. I'm probably going to screenshot this and bother him about it now, actually.
Do you also like ass equally? Is there anything she could do to keep you loyal and sexual with her? Eg. Supporting you financially, giving you money or paying for meals, etc.
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>>33835682
>The problem is that I have a hard time staying hard
Stop masturbating and gooning to porn so much. You've poisoned yourself with fantasies that are sabotaging your current reality.
Sex in a relationship isn't a way to satiate your fantasies or absurd sexual wishlists. It's more about touch, smell, taste, and familiarity than any visual components.
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>>33836084
ass is always more important
firm round ass = youth and fitness
big tits = fat
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>>33836084
Just do the best you can, as always.
Either it's a deal-breaker or not.
At least insecurity prompts you to try new things instead of getting complacent.
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>>33836084
Ass must be at least average.
Small ass + small tits = unsexy.
Normal ass + small tits = okay.
Big ass + small tits = good.
Small ass + big tits = unsexy and unbalanced.
Normal ass + big tits = good (my gf is here).
Big ass + big tits = good, although easily becomes too much.
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>>33836118
>Small ass + small tits = unsexy.
speak for your fucking self I would kill for a petite girl.
>Normal ass + small tits = okay.
would kill times 2 for this one

>Normal ass + big tits = good (my gf is here).
hmm I mean It's nice, but It's a plus. It's not require to have big tits. I honestly care about the asshole and pussy way more than the tits or ass itself.
just the smell and feelings it gives me when I sniff it, the flavor, god DAMN It's so fucking good!!!
t. lusting over genitals hoping to have some again
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>>33836218
By small I mean Hank Hill, unfit male ass kinda thing. Ass size is proportional to the rest of the body anyhow. I expect more on a dutch girl than a jap.
I'm biased of course.
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If sexual attraction is a deal breaker for you communicate this to your girlfriend and break up. If not then you have to be the best boyfriend you POSSIBLY can. Not only is she accepting of you but it seems that you both share a deep emotional bond. If you decide to split you will not find another woman like her for a long time
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>>33835742
He's a pieces of shit, don't listen to him, he'll ruin your relationship
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>>33836118
Your gfs ass is fucking flat
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>>33836527
Ok cool.
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>>33836084
Jesus, marry me when you break up. Pettan with a side of desperation is peak wife material imho.
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>>33835551
>>33835766
Don't sacrifice emotional stability for your dick. There is so much more to life than sex.
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>>33836306
>>>33836218 #
>By small I mean Hank Hill, unfit male ass kinda thing
It takes a special kinda girl (asian) to pull this off. I'm in the Netherlands unironically and we just don't have this problem here. The smallest of asses is still incredibly attractive. Might just be that the face and white skin and blond hair are so amazing that it just comes in such a.. full.. package
Oouugh
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>>33836491
Sorry ESL man
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>>33836672
Are you brown?
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Tits grow a size bigger after pregnancy. The downside being that they're filled with baby food.
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>>33836084
>Do you also like ass equally?
I wouldn't say equally but it does make a big difference. Also, every guy is different, I used to be a huge porn addict and I have severe mommy issues, most guys don't care about boobs as much as I do, I'm sure your boyfriend is perfectly happy with you
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>>33836914
>Downside
Feed me mommy
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>>33836448
>If not then you have to be the best boyfriend you POSSIBLY can.
How can I do that? I try but I always fall short. Whenever I see a woman with large breasts I feel guily over the fact that I do desire them, I wouldn't act on it but the thought alone feels like I'm disrespecting her and she really doesn't deserve this. She makes so much of an effort and there's nothing wrong with her, I wish I was normal. Lusting over busty girls makes me feel like I'm cheating on her
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>>33835551
>Or will it be the downfall of my relationship?
I hope it is. Increase the viable dating pool for us please.
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>>33835551
Let her do a surgery to add nibbles to her butt cheeks. That way you can suck her butt and give her oral sex in the same position. Both of you will be satisfied.
Or solution number two: marry her and breed her half a dozen children. And demand that she breast feed (the babies). Her boobs will grow during pregnancy and breast feeding and as she grows older.
Or solution number three: ditch her and find a bimbo with big jugs to satiate your lust.
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>>33835551
An attractive face is 1000 times rarer than big disgusting tits. May you suffer endlessly for wasting a precious resource with your mental illness.
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>>33837002
>May you suffer endlessly for wasting a precious resource with your mental illness.
It's not on purpose, I would change it if I could. All of this is making me feel like shit because I don't want to think about other women since it makes me feel like I'm cheating
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Bum
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>saving a picture of an unrelated big breasted female
(coveting obscene material) betrayal 1
>spreading this unrelated female across the internet
(popularizing a competitor of your gf) betrayal 2
>describing potentially undesirable traits of your gf to strangers
(bad mouthing) 3
>wasted a small breasted sentient beings time by pretending big breasts werent a requirement
(misleading) 4
>ever needing advice from strangers about things that most automatically understand should remain private and intimate
(clueless)

I hereby ban you from the girlfriend dimension. The next time you enter REM sleep your soul will be phase shifted into a suitably inferior parallel reality within which you will find only inceldom. You will learn what a downfall actually is.

May the being that was once your gf find your superior, one that knows how repeated impregnation increases breast size.

HER eggs be praised...

(her eggs be raised....)
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>>33835562
>>33835551
At least offer to buy her a boob job, and don't cheap out. You want round perky titties with no ugly scars.
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>>33835551
What your experiencing is common. I went through this with a few girls you eventually get bored of the same old thing. But trust me you need her hole, singledom sucks and you will have times where you regret breaking up. Don't deprive what your cock needs just because its bored of it. Remember needs out ways wants.
>>33835568
Me first you can go after.
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>>33836894
No, I'm white, also the stereotype is that browns love big, not small, chud
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>>33835551
Literally just put a baby in her you dumb fuck
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Do they still check the pope to make sure he has 2 testicles?
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>>33835551
If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging. If the packaging is a deal-breaker, the attraction to the person inside can't have been all that good.

I delight in my gf's itty bitty titties
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>>33835551
What I did was break up with my ex-gf and find a fat girl off OKC with gigantic tits. She was also a complete whore and disgusted me in more ways than one. That broke my fixation on women with huge tits, though my current gf actually does have pretty big tits, they're just not gigantic.
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>>33841281
I should add that if my current gf had to lose her tiddies for whatever reason, that wouldn't be a dealbreaker. Her values and personality matter so much more to me now than the size of her chest.



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