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I always see Plebbit tourists here saying that there's nothing wrong with being a virgin man (objectively wrong, see picrel) and telling incels that they should "self-improve" (translation: Just become a Betabuxx!). Why? Do you seriously believe in the "advice" you give?
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>>33837533
Paysex serves Shlomo in various ways. That's reason enough to eschew it.
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>>33837543
>Muh Joos
Instinct is more important than politics.
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>>33837533
The person in your image is mentally ill, and so are you.

Virgins are usually timid faggots, and yes, timid faggots are looked down upon as men. Timidity doesn't garner respect from other men nor attraction from women.

Notice that no one makes fun of a guy who is attractive and women like, if he is a virgin out of some personal conviction. They generally find that respectable. They will, however, make fun of a guy who is timid or off-putting.

As for paying for sex, you can do whatever you want. But the reason people say not to do it, is because it's not going to fix your problems. If you can't attract anyone, paying a woman to pretend for a little bit isn't going to fix that. You're still going to be the same person afterward. Being a virgin is not your actual problem. Being who you are is. Putting your penis inside a woman for 5 minutes isn't going to fix anything.
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>>33837533
Virgin isn't always an insult because you've "failed a conquest." Often it's an insult because it indicates you've failed to become intimate and trusted enough with another person to make love.
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>>33837584
>The person in your image is mentally ill, and so are you.
Cope harder, it's basic biology.
>Virgins are usually timid faggots, and yes, timid faggots are looked down upon as men. Timidity doesn't garner respect from other men nor attraction from women.
You just confirmed my point lol.
>Notice that no one makes fun of a guy who is attractive and women like, if he is a virgin out of some personal conviction. They generally find that respectable. They will, however, make fun of a guy who is timid or off-putting.
They don't judge these men because they are attractive. Halo effect.
>But the reason people say not to do it, is because it's not going to fix your problems.
Yes it will.
>Being a virgin is not your actual problem.
So there's nothing wrong with being a Eunuch? lol
>Putting your penis inside a woman for 5 minutes isn't going to fix anything.
Cope.
>>33837590
>Often it's an insult because it indicates you've failed to become intimate and trusted enough with another person to make love.
That's literally failing a conquest.
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>>33837597
Wouldn’t call it a conquest. Maybe an errand? Conquest implies domination over another person. The accusation is more that you lack empathy and a capacity to connect and be loved than a potency to conquer.
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>>33837597
>Yes it will.
Not the person you're replying to, but every single word of your reply is so retarded...
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>>33837775
Fuck off Normalnigger.
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>>33837533
>telling incels that they should "self-improve" (translation: Just become a Betabuxx!)
Everyday I beat my head against the wall telling you nerds to stop focus on money and your job and doing homework, and instead develop your social skills and charisma but noooooo

and it's not so much about "conquering" a woman, it's about knowing that she likes you - likes you well enough to have sex with you at least once.
It feels like achieving something, whatever analogy you want to use like climbing a mountain or clearing a tricky video game area or scoring a big point at the sports game and winning the big sports game.

With buying sex, it's more like the motorized wheelchair kid being allowed to score a pity point during a practice game, playing a game with all the cheats turn on which removes all the fun out of it, or taking an express elevator to the top of a mountain while everyone else is climbing it.

When you get to the top of the mountain you'll of course go "that's it? That's all the hype? just a shitty view of more mountains?" and it's not the destination that matters but the journey itself.
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>>33837783
>Fuck off Normalnigger.
why come to the advice board and then be mad that you're receiving normal advice lol
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>>33837787
>All this Normalnigger babble
Achieving something isn't the point, retard, it's the loss of virginity and the ILLUSION of achieving something. You have access to free sex, so you could never understand. And no, you're not supposed to impress women. Attila, Genghis Khan, Timur, Ted Bundy and Jeremy Meeks conquered women. They didn't negotiate with them.
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>>33837815
Comparing Ted Bundy to Genghis Khan is a huge insult to the Khan
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>>33837533
i'm not
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>>33837815
>>All this Normalnigger babble
again, why come to the advice board and then be mad that you're receiving normal advice lol
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>>33837787
how do you improve social skills if you're 30 and no one has ever liked you ever and you had no friends growing up and your family is insane tweakers who hurl verbal abuse at you
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>>33838048
just join a fuckin thing bro
boxing gym, tapdancing class, LARPing group, grindcore band, Friday Night Pokemon Card battles at the Nerd Store, whatever your thing might be.
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Conquering women bahahaha what's the point in that, can they construct fruitful developments in your little civilisation? What's the point of conquering them when they serve no use? Other than filling your le insecurities teehee, like your insecurities could be filled with validation of retards

Have kids, have hypothetical kids, see where it takes you



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