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why do neet girls rarely struggle with dating as opposed to their male counterparts
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>>33838808
Men are expected to be independent providers, women are encouraged to be as well but still have the "housewife" card up their sleeves.

Not working *and* being a layabout is frowned upon for women in long term relationships, but desperate men may suffer through it for companionship and sex at least short term.
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Women are not evil, but they are elitists. If you want to get a girlfriend, you have to be at their level. It's superficial as fuck to want status, but it is necessary for your dream woman. The worst part about it, is you have to continually keep up with it.
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>>33838808
>using /adv/ to ask questions you'd ask a chatbot
my advice is to fuck off
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>>33838808
You answered your own coombrain question posting a pretty girl. Vagina makes the world turn
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Cuz they can pick an ugly desperate low self esteem guy. But an ugly desperate low self esteem girl probably won't want to go with a guy as easily, because they probably want to stay "virgin" since it's their only "value". Ie the double standard of virginity being prized in females but disgusting in males. (Also males desperately wanting to remove their virginity adds to this power dynamic or whatever).

Just a possibility in what goes on in some of these people's heads, not saying this is the case with everyone.

Also, girls are easier to stomach than guys - less "disgusting" overall, not to say that they're charming in any way, just less disgusting. As in, more tolerable

I can't see a relationship really flourishing with neet girl or guy, but a relationship starting may be a bit easier than the male counterpart, just the girls have it on easy modo but applied to neets for some reason of OP's
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>>33838854
You NEED to go back
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By who lol? Ain’t no chad putting up with that; when I used to join those kinds of servers there were neet foids who only got bfs short term bevause even they eventually got fed up with their bs

Not saying people won’t accommodate them, but like male neets they have a ceiling
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>>33838808
Because men's sex drives mean they put up with a LOT of shit if it means getting pussy, even if it's with a girl who's only mid looking at best, is lazy and has mental issues.

Hope this helps you understand out the last several thousand years of society.
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Because men make themselves socially dependent on their gfs by refusing to bond closely with other men or form platonic ties with women. I had a boyfriend for years despite never working or doing chores at home. He rarely wanted to fuck either which was why I eventually dumped him.
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>>33840656
To add, many men let their juvenile standards and insecurities win out. Gf never going out and socializing with other men balances out her not going to work. Gf being sexually inexperienced balances out her being a socially inept misandrist. Gf not nagging about cleaning balances out having to live in filth.
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>>33838808
Because women are always going to be the ones who are being pursued, if you're out of the game there are others lined up. It's biology and women know this. If you are resentful for that it might be a good idea to look to improve yourself and work on your self esteem, self-pity doesn't get you anywhere.
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>>33838808
If a neet guy can somehow find the confidence within himself to endlessly pursue women he will do fine. Even hobos and fat dudes get laid if they exist in the real world. Neet isn’t even a bad deal for a lot of girls if the guy is otherwise good looking, it implies that his parents love and support him which is better than most families.
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>>33838808
womb has higher value than coom
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>>33838808
Isn't it obvious
Men are culturally expected to be providers
Despite feminism being obiquotous, women are culturally not expected to do anything
Men are expected to chase, women are expected to be chased
So if you're a dude living in your parent's basement no one is going to chase or even know you exist and no one is going to want you if you don't have a job or a house or a car.
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>>33838808
moids gangrape lizards
>>33838936
used up moids are not desirable. sadly all moids are whores
>>33840825
>Despite feminism being obiquotous
takes a moid who cant spell ubiquitous to think that feminism is ubiquitous

moids are the ones who demand sex. you SHOULD be the ones who put effort in, but you wont even listen to a woman who says she isnt a masochist. get fucked
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>>33838808
Because women suffer on the back end of relationships. Guys suffer on the front. That's why a guy is concerned about a woman's past but a woman is concerned about the future of being with this man. This equals them having a much easier time ENTERING into a relationship but have many issues in it or after it ends whereas guys go through shit at the beginning or middle and are usually ok after it ends.
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>>33841374
Go get raped
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>>33842432
>Go get raped
>Why do women hate me? Must be my canthal tilt
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>>33838808
I don't know how true this is. I don't know a ton of NEETs, male or female. Do you? From my limited anecdotal experience, every single person with a severe anxiety/depression/social dysfunction struggles with maintaining relationships. I haven't met a single BPD schizoid self-cutting NEET girl with a successful relationship nor have I met a blackpilled XXL fupa MLP autistic NEET guy with a successful relationship. Both groups, to my estimation, appear to be absolutely fucking miserable.
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>>33842633
I wish women hated me more so they would interact with me less actually
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>>33842686
All you have to do is show them what kind of person you are. They'll run for the hills, trust me.
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>>33842686
cap. moids constantly beg for sex
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>>33843014
You are a biological (XY chromosomes) male.
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>>33843091
moids are actually too retarded to have original thoughts. moids are the ones who shouldnt vote
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>>33838808
we are moids, we are simply less valuable
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>>33843014
Foid hole good
Foid whole bad
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>>33838808
his place/status in society plays a role in a male's attractiveness
it does jack shit for a female's attractiveness. it may even decrease above a status threshold.
I mean would you rather date the cute 7/10 cashier or the 7/10 executive woman who's going to break your balls non-stop
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Which is weird, no one likes a lazy woman. Even if she's offering her pussy for rent it's not enough nowadays. She has to at least work a part time job or keep the house clean/cook dinner.
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>>33838808
I don't know why you say this. What do you base this on? You're telling on yourself that you think women with no prospects, just pussy, has an easy time "dating." They're good for a fuck and nothing else. This is not ideal.
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>>33844300
moids are the ones who demand sex slaves
>>33844482
males are SOLELY motivated by hunger, hatred of women and girls, and horniness
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>>33843421
You are a male, kys tranny
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>>33846509
>moids are the ones who demand sex slaves
I'm not taking applications right now, sorry



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