My last relationship my ex was the one that pursued me first. I really liked her and only broke up because she moved somewhere else. Since then, it’s been nothing but dry because I’ve had to be the one to pursue women who barely put in any effort. Even something as simple as saying hi, I’m always the one initiating. I just take it as lack of interest even if they tell me otherwise. I can’t tell if it’s because I’m ugly, not worth dating, intimidating, or something else.
>>33841122Most women are used to being chased and not having to initiate, even ugly ones. You're best off finding a more masculine girl, write in your bio you prefer tomboys and proactive girls. If a woman chases a man it's seen as cringe/desperate. Though I msg'd my bf first and begin conversations regularly, idc about dumb rules I wanted him so I got him.
>>33841122Women always chase, but they chase relationships instead of sex. Means you have the initiative to move things to fucking, once you are fucking you keep doing your thing and she will push things towards a relationship( which is where women also face rejection).Anyways, only a minority will be iwlling to turn atht dynamic on its head, and in my experience the chances are higher the less comeptent and confident you appear. In short, if you clearly give off the vibe that the only way she can get your D is by taking action herself, its more likely that she will do so. You of course need to be attractive.
>>33841122In my experience, women who take the first step tend to be on the more whoreish side of the spectrum.
>>33841250I mean they obviously don't give a fuck about what other women (the primary slutshamers) think of them, as doing trhe chasing instead of getting chased signals low status among women. Always remember that to a woman, what the other chicks think of her is far more important to her than what you may think. Same reason why the hotties won't even look at you sideways if they ever catch you plapjaking in public.
>>33841122I've literally never had romantic success with a girl I've had to chase and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. >I can’t tell if it’s because I’m ugly, not worth dating, intimidating, or something else.This shit is the most annoying to figure out. You can't even get a good read on your looks, attitude, etc. because women are all fucking liars and will never give you a straight up answer like "yeah you're chopped, I wouldn't fuck you with a blindfold"Then you have all the idiots on here that tell you "oh you're not trying hard enough, you need to put yourself out there, be more confident" well what the fuck are you supposed to do when you go through all those motions, you actually do get contact info, and they end up flaking anyway?>>33841250Opposite of my experience, the girl who chased me hardest was a virgin and ended up staying with me for 8 years
>>33841122I've had girls be the ones who act flirty with me and make the first move in starting a conversation and message me out of nowhere and ask me out and get physical with meand it's almost never the type of girl you'd want to be doing those things.They're going to be ugly and/or fat and/or insane in at least one of 12 different ways and/or just a complete mismatch for you and/or come off as completely fake and phony.
>>33842484>women are all fucking liars and will never give you a straight up answer like "yeah you're chopped, I wouldn't fuck you with a blindfold"I've had girls tell me to my face (online) that the reason why they broke up with me or didn't go beyond one or two dates is that I was a boring quiet loner.It couldn't have been any more straight of an answer.
>>33842518I have a feeling that never actually happened and your reply is actually meant to make some insinuation about meYour reddit spacing doesn't help me get rid of that feeling either
>>33841122>complain about womens voices and anything they do>women shut up and dont do anything>keep being triggered because women
>>33842484moids are the ones who admit that they all lie for sex, but you refuse to admit that youre inferior, so you act like women and moids are the same>>33842515see? all moids do is bitch
>>33842569You are a biological (XY chromosomes) male.
>>33842598retard who refuses to say anything true or original
