I have been seeing this girl I met at the gym for three months. At first, everything was great. We texted all day, called every night, joked around, shared memes, made plans. I'd say for the past month we have been meeting up multiple times a week, staying over for the weekend etc.Last week I think she ghosted me. She doesn't text back on SMS, no DMs on instagram, nothing. I see her posting Instagram stories every day at the gym (I don't go there anymore, fuck that). I’m sitting here wondering what the fuck is going on? I reached out with a big message asking her if she's going through something and if she needs space (in which case I will give it to her of course). Nothing, but she does keep uploading stories of her at the gym. I honestly have no idea what I did wrong since everything went great and there didn't seem to be a change in pattern in the last month. I feel angry to be honest because if she had just broken up with me I could have moved on. It feels like she did it on purpose to prove a point or something but I'm not going to psychoanalize a situation like this.I don't need this shit but what do I do? I'll go to the gym again soon and if I see there is she just gonna ignore me or what? Should I confront her? No, right? At the same time I am so angry because why the fuck would you do this.
nigger she got the ick and is actively ignoring you.Move on, walk away.
>>33841514We were having sex for more than two months. I don't get why all of a sudden she would grow uncomfortable?>sex was normal, no weird fetish stuff>texting daily>both working stable jobs
>>33841523she is fucking a better looking dude with a bigget dick
>>33841508If you see her make eye contact and see how she reacts. If she is keeping ignoring you, then don't bother. You won't know why that happened, and it's not helpful if you knew. You don't need to change, unless you did something obviously wrong. But for some women it's just>the vibethat somehow changed and she can't explain. Or she met someone she likes way more than you.
>>33841508Yes, say hello in person, and ask her what happened? Have some dignity. You spent 3 months on her.
>>33841556>>33841563>that somehow changed and she can't explain. Why doesn't she explain it to me then? It's not like she's afraid of my reaction or has to move houses and change her identity, so why not just tell me?>Or she met someone she likes way more than you.We were meeting up regularly the last weeks before no contact
>>33841567>Why doesn't she explain it to me then?Because she's a major bitch
>>33841567Can't be answered, because we don't know the reason. Sometimes it easier to ghost someone, as it can be too painful to tell directly. It pretty shit to do it after 3 months unlike after 1 week. But there's nothing you can do right now.
>>33841567Because this kind of behavior it’s not punished by modern society. It’s just cowardice
>>33841508You should go get checked for STD's. She's definitely riding other cocks.This is what women do, they are really shitty humans. Just be thankful she didn't take too much of your money or baby trap you for life. Treat it as transactional. Treat them ALL as transactional. But a Fleshlight is cheaper and will never ghost you or say no.
>>33841508You were probably too overbearingly nice. I can tell from the way you write that you are way too nice to her still. She's a fucking bitch! Stop sugarcoating it. Confront her, close the chapter, then move on. Next girl.
>>33841508>>33841616She went to the gym for a reason. To find a swole man who treats her like a man, not like a weak nice guy.
>>33841567>It's not like she's afraid of my reactionThe reasoning why women ghost when asked about it oftentimes seems to be something along the lines of>we can't be honest about it or we'll get abused, raped or killed in retaliationI'm not sure if I am to believe that. But if there's any truth to it, it might indeed be the case that she's afraid of your reaction.
>>33841753This just makes women sound more retarded
Moids never bother to imagine themselves in a woman’s perspective unless it benefits them sexually.
>>33841946The same can be said about women though
>>33842020Not really. Plenty of women too busy focusing on their work to ask male colleagues out.
>>33842224What are you talking about? I meant that women also never try to imagine how it's like to be a man.
>>33842299Why should they? Men are the one killing and raping women over rejections.
>>33842364What is this fallacy called?
>>33842425It's not a fallacy if the risk is real and has been experienced by every woman above 16.
>>33842442Okay sufermacist
>>33841508Just ignore the bitch. Be glad you got your dick wet and move on. There will be no closure, she doesn't give a fuck about any feelings you might have.
