I have a friend who's really passive aggressive and it really fucks me off. She's mentally ill so I never call her out on it because she can't handle any level of criticism without mention down. Today she's properly rubbed me the wrong way and I don't know if I want to hold back. Should I keep being the bigger person or should I say something? I was trying to do what's right but I'm getting hurt regularly.
You're the one in the wrong. How does she know where your boundaries are if you don't tell her
>>33842219I tried, every time I try to set boundaries she spergs out, hence why I stopped. But it's getting to be a real problem now.
I'm in the same situation. Just let them fafo.
>>33844247Had to go in on them this morning. I've got a kidney infection so bad that I'm sick with it. I said I couldn't meet up this week and todsy she's gone in on me for being a shit friend. She hasn't asked once if I'm okay, I think I'm done with this.
>>33842207If it's a repeated pattern, talk with her about it. If nothing changes, move on. Tell her to go to therapy. She isn't your responsibility, especially if she doesn't wanna improve.
>>33844459Im still trying to salvage a thread of hope with them and I dont know why because instead of apologizing theyre just doing what youre talking about, OPWe both have outbursts but I dont know whats going on so we are clashing at the moment and I want nothing to do with bloodsports/drama Im so tired mimimimimi
