>go on date with girl>I think the date went well>walked her back to her place and left it at that>msg her the next day saying I enjoyed the date and that I'd be interested in doing something again>replies saying she thought the date was nice, says she can't do anything this week but if she's free sometime next week she'll msg me for sureFellas am I ever gonna hear back from her? I don't want to be waiting around next week for a text that's never gonna come.
>>33842339Yeah, she's done with you. It's just a polite way to say "no thanks". The fact she said that SHE will message you if she's free is a good give away. She'll never do it, so move on. It's kinda annoying when they do this instead of saying it upfront. It's especially hard for people on the spectrum who have trouble deciphering social cues like that. Move on, but try to work on what went wrong. Although, keep in mind that many girls on Tinder often do this for free meals/drinks so it may not be something against you personally.
>>33842386Not OP but just wanted to add - attention is also a commodity, people forget that sometimes girls just enjoy the attention and the smooching and now she's done with you until she craves it again then she'll get it either from you or from the other 59000 options
>>3384233990% odds that you won't hear from her again10% chance that she is genuinely busy and already has plans for this week but will hit you up next week
>>33842454They also like to boost their ego by not only feeling they are attracting men, but also the power they get from turning down people so they feel in control.
>>33842386OP here, yeah if she just straight up said she didn't feel a spark or did the "I see you more in a friendly way" bs it would be so much easier for us both. I'm an adult, I wasn't gonna be upset if she flat out rejected me, but basically saying she may or may not text me next week is just annoying.
