So I’m 20 and I just got a gf and she’s my first and I’m also her first. My entire life I’ve lived through life very calmly and whenever confronted with conflict I always resolved it in a healthy assertive respectful way. I’ve never had stress or anxiety. I was driving with her on a 3 hour drive and she started saying wow you’re so cute with the cap (I was wearing a cap) I then said thank you and she started talking about food and stuff and I got annoyed so I told her “shut your mouth, I’ve never met someone as useless as you” she said that’s not nice and then I exploded on her and told her that she doesn’t deserve anything and that I hate how she looks, I went on to say I’m better than her in every way, I’m smarter. She obviously started to cry big time. We went home and just slept without talking. Now for some reason whenever I behave like this towards her, I feel good about myself, I feel like all my anger is out, all my anxiety and stress leaves my body. Whenever I hold it in I get so stressed about stupid things. I’m very very scared that she thinks I’m weak yet for some reason I don’t care what any other human thinks
>>33843521Anon I think you should break up with her and date me instead (I’m 20 female)
>>33843596Why would you want that,
>>33843521>“shut your mouth, I’ve never met someone as useless as you”>whenever I behave like this towards her, I feel good about myselfWtf? You are extremely insecure and weak. Reacting like this is unhealthy. Stop being a bitch, bitch
I think you need a therapist
You don't need a therapist OP, you just need a good girl who conceal carries. She'll fix you right up for much less than all this self help nonsense will.
