>28 year old neet >8 years of chronic pain>5 years singleStarted talking to cute girl (25) on hinge 3 months ago. She lives 2 hours away and neither of us drive, and she has a busy schedule with work and school. Text almost daily, a few phone calls and one brief facetime. She's legit hot, I have a man bun and no chin, and I recently shaved my fucking goatee for some reason. First date is tomorrow and I'm having an acne breakout that does not look good. Seriously wish I could just call it off because I'm not really comfortable with the man bun in public yet (I normally wear a hood) but I know I won't get another chance like this for a long time, if ever. Feels like there's a solid likelihood I'll get a long text after saying she's focusing on herself right now or some shit.I know I sound like a complete pussy saying this but I'm actually nauseous right now thinking about it.Tips/tricks to mask/overcome the basement dweller incel vibes I radiate?
>>338437703 months. Don’t self-sabotage.
The point of a date is to have fun. Both of you should be there to have fun and flirt. Instead of focusing on your incellular side, try to focus on her needs instead. Give her princess treatment and make a safe place for her to be her genuine self. If you’re focusing on your own insecurities you’re gonna have a bad time. You need to show your confidence in taking care of a woman, your confidence in yourself. Fake it till you make it.
>>33843770Relax. Be yourself. Have fun. That's all you can do. The fact that you've already talked with her over the phone multiple times is really good. She obviously likes you.
