>>33844000
I don't know man, see my experience >>33843906
The girls on tinder and other dating apps are normies, the girls on duolicious are autistic albeit shallow, soc is cool but I ran into a lot of dead ends. After 2 years I only met like 3 cool people and two of them are men.

maybe I could get a girlfriend on tinder after I become more successful but I don't know if I even want to. I've become really disillusioned

if you try your luck on /soc/ don't bother with sfw or the gaming thread unless you just wanna talk to people, typically a few days. just post in the dating threads. fewer people will add you but they'll be more interested

>>33844000
There are 2 possibilities, it's either your own fault or it is not.
If you believe that it's not, then the only thing you can do is to go into the other direction and not care, don't try to please others, don't live for others but embrace humility, and guard this said humility with everything.
Be happy that you're free, don't let it bother you, many people have dated and cheated, abused or otherwise hurt other people, you are blameless in that regard and you won't be judged for it.

>>33844000
>years of trying
what have you actgually tried
describe what happened the last 3 times you tried to fuck a woman

>>33844000
At your age, the teen-style dating scene is not likely to work. In fact, it is most likely that the woman you will fall in love with is someone you already know - as friend, work-mate, friend-of-friend or the like. The friendzone so dreaded of teenagers may not be a happy place to end up, but it can be a very good place to start.

>>33844775
I dont have any of those

>>33844604
I go to multiple regular social events and go to bars every weekend

>>33845591
and? have you tried anything? flirting/trying to get a number/date/etc?

>>33845798
you cant just walk up to a stranger and ask for her number

>>33844000
>>33846049
It's another "I don't talk to women, explain to me what women are doing wrong" thread

>you cant just walk up to a stranger and ask for her number

Have you tried talking to them as if they were a normal human being? Do you have any shared interests or hobbies? Is there a big sports game or music genre or films or literature you'd both be interested in talking? Have you ever asked girls at bars if they wanted to play pool or dance with you? have you ever offered to buy them drinks?

>>33846065
yeah, doesnt work

>>33846204
works on my machine

>>33846227
I dont have your machine

>>33846233
user problem

>>33846243
quit being retarded. when I try to "just talk to women" it never works out.