35 , broke on neet bucks, living at home, ptsd, depression, sciatica, epididymitis, no prospects ,mentally burnt out.What do I do in life, when so much time passed by. Fucking spend my days zoned out mentally, sleeping and doing what tasks that need to be done around the home and errands . Otherwise I was constantly stoned due to chronic pain.I don’t think I’ll marry anytime soon or even capable of having kids. Don’t know what to do for work. Where to start on getting that zest for life like traveling or hobbies or where to live on my own or be more independent.
>>33844220That guy looks amazing for 47
>>33844220assuming you have the resources talk to a therapist you're too far gone for us to help you. maybe a public one could help too lookin to that.
Did you consider trying something completely new to your life? You're stuck in a stale, repetitive lifestyle where everything is guaranteed to loop, you won't get the zest for life unless you go out of your way to try something new, something you know you wouldn't normally try (not something bad, harmful, dangerous or risky) but go out of your way to try it simply because you can and because you've got nothing to lose.It helped me personally and my situation is similar to yours (I'm 32 though). The tl;dr is get out of your comfort zone but I don't like saying it that way, I hate generic advice, I'm trying to entice you to do something more interesting than just a simple 'go out of your comfort zone', I want you to discover something new in the process, not just limit yourself to trying it.
wtf do all of you have PTSD from?
>>33845171parental abuse, bullying, harassment, physical and mental abuse for decades. It gives you PTSD after years and years and years
>>33845194You guys are just being fucking pussies. My dad hit me with his belt and took the valve stems out of my tires. My mom threw soup cans at me when I complained I was hungry, threatened to put me up for adoption, and never hugged me. I was a shy loser nerd who got bullied every single day all through elementary and high school. I had half a dozen girlfriends cheat on me, one even sent me pictures of her giving another guy a foot job. I definitely hate my parents and women now, but I am not sitting here being a victim and calling it PTSD and pretending like that is the reason my life sucks. You fucking man the fuck up, learn how to fight, go to the gym, get rejected over and over until you can get some new pussy and feel better about yourself.
>>33845398That is Copeing with ptsd. Usuallly taking up mma and lifting is the result of it. Like Sean Strickland, gsp and many ghetto third world fighters.Your folks and bullies deserves an ass whooping though . Think we’d all do it, but fuck the law for not allowing revenge . IRS hard to let go because you can’t go back and undo it.
>>33845398Lmfao.
>>33845017I did for a while but really fell off. Had a psychiatrist that died from Covid and never got a new one. Funny enough he never gave me anti depressants like new gp. He just gave me books like “toxic parents” and “myth of mental illness “>>33845144Definitely in a loop but it’s like where to start after being so complacent and apathetic. Being consistent with training and building muscle is difficult I wish it was so I can try out mma or boxing or something. Probably study for a new career. Always wanted to do solo travel to another country . But I’m just too cautious and hesitant.Life is long and a slow decline . Just dunno what I can commit to with the lil youth I have left
>>33845171>>33845194translated: normal discipline, normal teasing, being awkward in normal social situations, crying if it's too cloudy outside
>>33844271That girl looks amazing for 20.
>>33845398>thinks getting belted is abusedude can you shut up, you are a faggot. My dad literally punched me until he left bruises.
>>33845710>But I’m just too cautious and hesitant.Ask yourself why. Are you scared of failure? You've been beaten down in life this much. What's the worst that can happen? You're gonna fail again? And then what?>Life is long and a slow declineYou are correct. That is why you must revitalize yourself and take back the time you do have left. Rotting away in your room will only sure your decline speeds up.You don't have to do anything amazing. Just DO something.
>>33846811>trying to seem tough by one-upping someone else's suffering in a sad attempt to gain sympathytruly the highest level of faggotry
>>33847085You're gonna fail, your body will stop responding, and in failure you will die.Guy is asking for help because he's wounded and can't go on. Nobody will offer help because this world we came into is called hell and everyone is a dipshit.
>>33844220Bro basically same except minus the neet bucks and add homeless and not being able to get over an addictive toxic relationship.
>>33847115This. It’s like gang rape victim dunking a molestation victim. Maybe both situations suck .>>33847118Agreed. But it would be good that we get to together as a tribe to survive this shithole we call earth>>33847123Dam that’s rough bro. Hope you can move past it. Do you have goals to help you through it
>>33847085Yes I’ve been beaten down by life and failed many times and always crash out . Like 1 step forward 2 steps back while my childhood friends and family have flown and lived their lives. Had fun, travel , new exciting experiences, dating , love ,marriage. I fell out of Facebook long ago because I’m a brain dead loser that starts out strong but fails in the endYou’re right. But dam where to find that purpose . My city is also expensive to live in like a $1million bucks for a shed. These anti depressants don’t feel like it’s helping. Still feel the same but now getting headache lately
>>33847888Unironically, find God.
>>33848647Been going service for years vet a decade, lately just to meet with dad. But I don’t feel a change in outlook and motivation
