There’s this dude I work with who’s a pretty normal looking guy and yet it seems like he has all the luck in the world with women. He’s not tall, he has brown hair and brown eyes, and he even says all the time that he needs to lose 20 pounds so he must not be jacked or anything. And he’s pretty dumb too. One of the older ladies at work calls him prince charming and on a work trip a bartender told him he looked like a Disney prince. He laughed and told the bartender that he used to get Tarzan before he cut his hair so I guess he used to have long hair too. I just don’t get it bc I’m literally taller and bigger than him but no one really compliments me or tells me I look like any characters or actors or anything. He talks about his girlfriend a lot but I don’t know what she looks like or anything. And it sounds like he had a bunch of ex girlfriends before her too.
>>33845668Looks aren't everything, charisma and social skills are just as important if not even more.
>>33845668Maybe he's just a nicer guy than you
>>33845668Make friends with him, hang out, learn from osmosis.
>>33845668He just has "it" and you don'tDoesn't matter if you're tall, good looking, intelligent, successful, etc. And it's not about charisma or social skills either.It's just the way your mind works. You're (probably) higher than average IQ, and not neurotypical. Hate to say it but these are pretty much death sentences for socializing unless you happen to be in a group of similar higher than average IQ, atypical people. You will NEVER be able to be smooth and relate to most women, who statistically cluster around average IQ much more strongly than men.You need to accept it and move on, do something with your gifts. You're never gonna be the type of person who can authentically engage in normie discussions about sports and fashion and brainrot shit like Labubus and Dubai chocolate, and you can't fake that authenticity either. Just bide your time and hope you can maybe find an introverted AuDHD babe who isn't already locked down to some other nerd.
its all in the jaw line, a few mm of jaw bone is all that separates you from the unwashed masses.
I actually talked to him for a little bit today since it was a slow day in the office and he invited me to grab a drink with him tomorrow. He said that he doesn’t really have any friends in the area except his girlfriend so he just goes to happy hour by himself most Fridays. How could someone be able to get compliments and attention from ladies in the office and random bartenders and be willing to ask people to hang out with him but not have any friends?
Howie thread
>>33847384>picI found an article on the topic. It says above-average IQ women, if you can find such a unicorn, will let you fuck them in the ass and then will suck your dick after. They just won't let you get their pussyhttps://www.psypost.org/relationship-found-cognitive-ability-experiences-vaginal-oral-anal-sex/
>>33847384Holy fuck. Story of my life. You can actually learn to be retarded and do a decent job of fitting in as long as you aren't completely autistic and can read social cues
>>33848344>You can actually learn to be retarded and do a decent job of fitting in as long as you aren't completely autistic and can read social cuesEventually though you get older, attention from young attractive women starts to wane naturally, and you just don't want to put up with it anymore. And no matter what, it's "learned" i.e. not authentic. You're always gonna be wearing the mask in front of normies, because normies weren't made by Geppetto.
>>33848034I'm a medium ugly playboy fun loving guy type without friends who goes to happy hour alone, but not sure if I can relate to your coworker because of my quirk.I have anti social personality disorder and it's all fake. The only emotions I know are extreme sadness and furious anger, but to society that's a no-no, so I always pretend to be cheerful and funny, but am conniving and devious behind the curtains.
>>33845668Wait, wait .... hold up!Is it possible, that all those virgin guys and social outcasts who "blackpill" on the internet... are wrong about what attracts women? No, that can't be!
