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>be me
>hate life
>introverst autistic teenage girl
>no friends, family doesnt like me
>beg for a cat
>family gives in and lets me have a cat
>suddenly want to not sleep in untill the afternoon, wanna wake up early every morning to take care of kitty
>love my cat
>cherish my cat
>talk to cat
>one day, retard parents leaves the door open
>we live in an appartment so no big deal, cat likes to roam around the front door balcony area sometimes
>parent closes the door, leaves for work
>no one is home untill the evening
>get home from long day of uni
>cat is completely gone
>sleep in untill late into the afternoon again
>drop hobbies
>life starting to feel meaningless again
Any advice? My cat has been gone for a week now, i cant take it anymore. He was my world. Now with autumn making the weather shitty and cold i feel like ive truly hit rock bottom again even though i was doing much better the past year or so.
Will he come back? I dont know what to do.
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>>33845970
Go away Ranjeet
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>>33845970
Get new cat
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>>33845970
>Will he come back?
not if you dont find him

>valuing a cat more than yourself
thats messed up
i advise you to force yourself to shower every day, and start doing positive self-talk in the mirror (it'll feel like lying, but you ARE worthy and lovable)
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>>33845970
Cats roam around and stake their territory. If the cat hasn't been killed by accident by a car or anything like that, keep your eyes open. Walk around the neighborhood, ask your neighbors if they have seen the cat and ask them to keep an eye out for it and call you if they see it (give them a description of the cat). You're not the first person to lose your cat. Most of the time they return. Good luck mate
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>>33846149
im not indian
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>>33846156
>Get new cat
FUCK NO, cats arent toys. You cant just replace them like used batteries?
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>>33846262
>>valuing a cat more than yourself
cats just arent complicated like people are, their love and appreciation is simple. Their boundaries are simple and easy to understand. We should all strive to be more like them.
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>>33847086
i agree with this. i lost my cat about 3 months now and i can't get another cat since i'll just keep thinking of my orig cat through the new one.
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>>33847086
No, they are irreplaceable, but that doesn’t mean you don’t get a new cat when the previous one dies. You just carry on their memories, and in your case get them gps chipped and given a collar with your address on it.

>t.farm kid that went through eight cats because coyotes and vehicles suck
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find a boyfriend and stop using animals as baby replacements. and no, neither "autism" nor age are an excuse



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