>>33846216
You voted for it

God loves you and cares for you, turn to him and he shall not ever abandon you

>>33846242
Who's God? Whose God?

>>33846216
>And the man I love and believed respected me, does not in fact.

Why not? What changed?

>>33846216
This is because you're a dude in a wig. You're not a woman, you're a larper fag tranny.

No man will respect you.

>>33846216
>i derive my value from 2 people, based mostly on my gender
>suicide is the only solution i can think of
weak

do something worthy of respect, faggot

>>33846216
Are you sure your dad doesn't love you? Maybe you see it like that, but he probably really does love his little girl. Just talk to your dad about how you feel. And for your bf, there are plenty of men who will appreciate you once they get to know you. Maybe just being single for a while and making friends will help. If me and you dated, I'd appreciate you as a person and human and would love to get to know you. Men like me definitely exist and you can find one hopefully.

>>33846315
This is OP comforting himself btw, the amount of schizophrenia in this thread is insane.

>Jews
>Indians
>Trannies
top 3 group of people that should be banned from going online

You could have lots of casual sex. That seems to be the thing young women do these days. Suck and fuck your feelings away.

>>33846216
>>33846394
Or internalize that sense of worthlessness and find a way to make it your kink. Guys love that shit.

>>33846242
Jesus

You guys don't even have a shred of empathy for OP (who is a faggot) why are you even on adv?

>>33846282
it's literally explained a bit in the next sentences

>>33846311
But I have no girl friends, I cannot make them for some reason. Or I think I do but they backstab me or ghost me

>>33846394
I tried that and it made me want to kill myself.

>>33846432
How do you internalize it in a way that you convince yourself to enjoy it (and make it sexy for others, since we're at it)?

>>33846216
ALL males hate women. take the catpill

>>33846636
I already have cat. But I never stopped believing that men are good, or some are, or at least those in my life (compared to angry anons here or unknown strangers on the street or on the internet). Never took anybody's side, women or men, in their gossip of the opposite sex because I believe we complete each other and we need each other

but for that...you need to have a minimum interest and respect for your partner. To see them as an autonomous human being. I don't know, maybe all this gender hate and divide is justified after all...

>>33846507
>>33846610
This guy is the actual faggot. It's real advice, plenty of people are much happier having some fucked up sexual expression of their trauma than they would be actually having to feel the weight of it every day.
As to how you get to that point, I'm not really sure. I developed a cuck kink after getting addicted to fucking someone who used to talk about it as a pure fantasy in bed all the time. Probably some kind of brainwashing. Then when she cheated on me the trauma was too much to handle and something broke in my brain where now it just makes me horny.

>>33846680
Same shit that happens to half the people on this website. They edge to hyno and tranny videos long enough and eventually they want bbc or to transition themselves. You have the fucked up thing happen at the same time as the pleasurable thing enough times and your brain associates that pathway in your brain with pleasure

>>33846216
>He does not even have the slightest idea how disillusioned and depressed I ahave been the past few days
Have you, you know, actually told him? It might not be that he doesn't care, but just that he can't tell. We can be pretty dense about stuff like this.

ALWAYS try speaking about something directly before assuming someone doesn't care. If you think people should just be able to tell, tough shit. People can't read minds.

>>33846680
so I should tell my partner to use me and humiliate (dissmiss or ignore) me in bed so that when he does that irl I enjoy and get horny?

>>33846690
It briefly occurred to him a couple of days ago because I was not "reacting as pleasantly" to him as usual. But he called it "pissy" and now he's probably waiting on me to diffuse by myself because "it's nothing". He is dismissing/invalidating me basically

Other times, or if he thinks this thing is more serious or I don't resolve on my own in a few days (thus disturbing his emotional comfort), he'll resort to agreeable/peace-making but manipulative tactics to alleviate my frustration in the moment. Long term he'll still push towards whatever he wants on his own terms. So he only cares to the extent that his emotional comfort and safety is disturbed or to the extent that he isn't getting his way. Why are men like this?

>>33846610
>I tried that and it made me want to kill myself.
Then why didn't you suffocate yourself on one of the million dicks you sucked?

>>33846725
Can confirm, am man and every ex gf had this same complaint. My therapist says those narcissistic traits are a result of unmet childhood needs.

>>33846216
>And the man I love and believed respected me, does not in fact. I'm merely an accessory for him and a means to an end (a family/legacy and his comfort).
"He doesn't respect me, he just wants me to be the mother of his children and keep me around in his life." Woman moment.

>>33846725
You didn't answer my question. Have you directly told him how you're feeling? That you feel he's dismissing and invalidating you? That you're feeling incredibly depressed?

Also, if a man wants you to have his children, he does respect you on some level at least.

>>33846758
>>33846779
Yeah on some level. I've seen the level of standards men have when it comes to gfs
>just breathe and pay attention to me

Next level wife/mother of their children would be
>just don't leave me for a sufficient amount of time that I get to plant my seed into you and trap you
>don't be a psycho

Great respect, especially since he's planning to pass most of the responsibility to me and/or his mother. He only gets the best of the experience

>people change
But if that was such a generally true experience, why don't relationships get better after marriage or having kids?

Other times yes, all of it. This time, I have directly told him what it is about. He said it's "pissy". I did not go further into the depression details because it's just "pissy". He sees I'm "pissy" but won't open the discussion (and did not continue it when I first told him what it's about) shows that he does not really care and it's just waiting for this to fade as usual. With each moment that passes that he could have asked or explored this, I lose more faith and withdraw more

>>33846858
Well yeah, if you've directly told him how you're feeling and he's dismissed it, then you're right, he's probably very self-centered and maybe narcissistic as the other anon said.

Maybe time to consider leaving him, at least if you want to be in a relationship with someone that loves and respects you. You might feel like no one ever will, but you're going off a pretty small sample size here. There are definitely men out there that will. I won't, but some out there that will.

>>33846858
Then leave him, otherwise you are in fact just being pissy. What are you even bringing to the table?

Have you ever considered that they do love you and that you're just mentally ill? Just kill yourself and get it over with. They were never the problem, you are.

>>33846507
Assuming they are a fagot then tough shit. No one cares about men in the slightest. I tried to off myself a while back and the help I got was zilch. Suck for them because now I'm out for blood.

If they are a women then I don't care either. Women are fucking vile and treating them as anything but property is the worst thing a man can do. I guarantee she had more than enough good men and threw them all away because she wanted superficial value and wealth. Never ever care for a woman or their feelings again.

>>33846914
nothing, woman has no value. Only value is in the food she cooks for her man, the cleaning around the house she does, the kids she pops and in today's age, the extra money she does in her work that also benefits the man

Someone out there loves or will love you. Go home.

>>33846216
Lmao women live life on easy mode and still complain

>>33846956
thank you. Bless you, bot or not

>>33846598
what the fuck does having friends have to do with anything?

you need to be capable and achieve things, to get respect

>>33846216
I'm 35M, had 3 long term relationships, I'm married, employed, all normie. I'm not an incel.

In my life I learned 3 things about women:
>1. They're not bad drivers
>2. They're not worse at math
>3. They're not better at emotional intelligence

Most women I met throughout life struggled horribly with delusions about what others think about them. One girl was dead convinced I was head over heels for her, while for another I gave an arm and a leg and she'd still insist I don't love her. Maybe some gesture was missing for her head to complete the picture, but a girl's never aware of any of this. Also emotional memory for women is horrible and leads to focus on negative memories, instead of all of them.

It's also why dating is so hard for men, you can do everything right and still lose.

Here's my advice for you.
1. You don't need sympathy from your dad, but you deserve it from your bf/husband. Tell your husband that you feel horrible, and sound the alarm that this is serious.
As far as I know people, you haven't told him or didn't tell him loudly enough. Or he's a twat.

2. Seek proper psychological help. Sometimes nothing's actually missing in life and only neurotransmitters are fucked up, this can be fixed. But therapy can help too.

3. Women need contact with other women that they trust about 1x/month. If you don't and that goes on for years, mental damage accumulates. Try to find some friends. Considering that this problem is a problem for millions of women, you should find someone.

>>33846216
Do you ever tire playing the victim? What did they do to fail you because of course only THEY could fail YOU, right?

>>33847031
This may help you

https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/82751665/

>>33846216
I hope it will get better soon, God bless you

>>33846242
You mean the male god that puts females subservient to males