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Alright so I’m in law school right now and was sitting next to this gal in a class. I felt like we were hitting it off and started hanging out outside of class but with mutual friends. She said she wasn’t looking to date anyone so I didn’t officially ask her out. To be honest, yeah I did have feelings for her but I never overtly expressed it.

Over the last couple weeks she started getting a little more distant so I gave her some space. Two weeks ago when were at a brewery she was acting super awkward towards me. We then had this text exchange.

We haven’t talked in about two weeks and I’m fine giving her space, but I am worried about getting accused of sexual harassment. Do you guys think I’m going to get accused of sexual harassment here?

To be clear, I know I’m fucking stupid and really screwed up here, I’m not looking for dating advice, etc. just worried sick about getting accused of harassment.
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>>33846441
Youre not gonna get accused of sexual harassment dude fucking chill lol.

She said back off and you did. Harassment would be if after this very clear exchange you keep pushing her. She deals with 1000 dudes a year. Im sure your handling of it is probably among tbe best shes ever seen.
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>>33846441
I don't know how you acted irl. I don't think it's harassment, just her getting signals from you showing you like her and she started to block. Maybe because she already had experience with a similar situation
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>repost
i dont understand your motives and hope terrible things happen to you
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>>33846441
No, I don't think you're going to get accused of anything
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>>33846441
I think she's just letting you know she doesn't feel that way about you and is being cautious because it's something men chimp out over. Unless you were handsy I don't think it's an issue.
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>>33846441
She's just shit testing you anon. You should follow her home to get her address and then send her flowers.
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>>33846441
OP has made this same thread about 5 times stop responding
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>>33846470
>>33846542
This. OP is a verified homo. Sage.
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>>33846473
No, I wasn’t.
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>>33846542
I’m just worried…idk what the fuck I’d do if I got kicked out.
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Today I saw her and she made direct eye contact with me, I just smiled but didn’t say anything and she just smiled and walked past me, but maybe one of those nervous smiles.

Is that harassment?
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>>33850463
fuck off
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The moment she said no you should have just dropped her completely. Women are shallow creatures and would let you die on the streets even if you took a bullet for them. Never ever interact with any women that rejects your romantic intentions as they will perceive every future interactions and intentions as you trying to get with them.
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>>33851292
OP is a turbo faggot
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>>33846441
this is some of the best communication i've ever seen. you both are incredibly mature (i'd hope so, y'all are law students). you should be good bro!
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>>33851313
Stop taking the bait.
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>>33851321
There’s no bait motherfucker. I am extremely anxious.
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>>33851313
I thought this too. I wish this was normal.
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>>33854588
Seriously?
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Your not going to charged sith secual harassment if she's backing off and your leaving her alone. What the hell happened to the world where people dont know how to interact with each other anymore. U like girl. Girl can tell. Body language, your actions, your demeanor, etc. Alot of communication between 2 people is non verbal. This is important to remember. You were putting it out there. She wasn't interested. She let you know. You did the appropriate thing and backed off. I would advise that you just avoid this stupid cunt all together if you can. Dont waste your time chasing people who dont want to be found.
Only you know for sure if you did or said anything inappropriate. In which case you will reap what you have sewn. But just from that Pic it seems harmless and respectful. I wouldnt worry about it bud. There's too many fish in the sea to be chasing after ones who dont want to be caught. Get your stdick back in thr lake homie! Good luck
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>>33854981
Stop taking the bait. Half the posts in this thread are OP samefagging
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>>33846441
Honestly bro at this point you have done everything you can do not to harass her. Just leave her alone and if it shows up at your door, show them text.
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>>33855048
Do you think the text exchange would help my case?
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Go to the Dean and beg for their mercy.
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>>33846441
OP IS A FAGGOT AND POSTED THIS EXACT BULLSHIT STORY MULTIPLE TIMES. THIS IS A ENERGY TRAP THREAD.

LEAVE NOW

LEAVE NOW

LEAVE NOW

LEAVE NOW
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