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How do I break up with my gf?
>been dating 6 months now
>just genuinely not feeling any strong attraction to her
>feeling more and more annoyed that I have to spend time with her/talk to her
>never said I loved her
>Im 32 shes 30
Whats the best way to do this? I've never broken up with someone before. Shes a nice person and I know its going to suck for her, but whats the cleanest way to go about this without needlessly upsetting her further?
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>>33849401
meet up with her at a neutral location like a bar or cafe and say
>hey I don't think this is working out, it's been 6 months but I don't have any feelings for you, but think you're a great person and I would hate to string you along amy further than you deserve. I've had a great time with you, and I hope you find someone deserving of your time and company.
or if that sounds too corporate
>hey so I slept with someone else
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>>33849401
>>33849416
>meet up with her at a neutral location like a bar or cafe and say
This part, yes, but none if that other ramble. The only words you say are “I’m breaking up with you. Goodbye.” And stand up, leave, get in your car and drive away. At the first red light or stop sign, block her number and all socials.

Just rip the bandaid off.
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>>33849445
nigger he fucked the girl for 6 months, he should be cordial about it. Girls are fucking scheming assholes when you hurt their feelings.
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No offense, but you sound like an autist with zero social skills.
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>>33849463
meant for
>>33849445
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>>33849458
>>33849463
There are no words that are going to be able to help for either of them. No matter what it’s going to hurt but matter what it’s over. Just make it be over so both of them can start getting over it.
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>>33849480
youve never been in a real human relationship and it shows
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>>33849401
have sex with her friends and relatives
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>>33849445
bro LOL this is really funny to me for some reason idk why



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