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I can't find much online, that isn't some backhanded way to please women. I'm a virgin, but probably going to have sex within the next few weeks. What should I do to make my boyfriend like me more?
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>>33851130
Do whatever position, probably missionary
He's your boyfriend so you will have much more sex and over time you both should strive to satisfy each other
If it doesn't come naturally after a few times, start working towards it verbally
Have fun
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>>33851130
we don't care about sex positions, classic missionary is enough. doggy and cowgirl are just things for in-between so you don't sweat too much or get cramps.

If you want to please him, wrap your legs behind his back and whisper to him you want him to finish inside, that should do the trick
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Honestly as long as you show that you're into having sex with him then you'll be fine.
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>>33851130
Unironically missionary.
Maximum skin contact. Eye contact. Hearing and feeling every little breath. Kissing. Slow lovey passionate sex is best sex
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>>33851181
>If you want to please him, wrap your legs behind his back and whisper to him you want him to finish inside, that should do the trick
Unironically this. Leg locks and being told "cum inside me" is pretty much every man's biggest fantasy. If you can orchestrate it so you cum at the same time as him, all the better.
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>>33851219
Just whatever you do, do not just lay there and do nothing. Touch his arms and hips. Caress his body. Eye contact. Kissing. Very very slow. Put your arms around the back of his neck and pull him close like a hug. Do not over act like you're in porn. The goal is to try to merge your souls into one, not make him feel like he alone is some neanderthal sex god conquering your pussy. That type of sex can be fun too, but that is intermediate level.
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>>33851181
>>33851228
Guys she said she is a virgin. Presumably he is inexperienced also. You want her to act like a slut right off the bat. You're fucking retarded. They have to build intimacy first. After they have their connection solidified, THEN she can pull that trick when he doesn't expect it and that is how you get it to blow his mind.
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>>33851130
The best way to make a guy like sex with you both during and after the sex is to connect with his brain. The body parts are a given, that is not where you should focus your attention. That's basically just masturbation using someone else's body. He will have plenty of time to ogle your body during every other aspect of your relationship. The brain is the most powerful sex organ. Focus on connecting with it and he will feel like you have something special beyond just sex.

Source: Have had lots of sex
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>>33851249
>You want her to act like a slut right off the bat.
Cumming inside =/= being a slut. A woman you are dating telling you to cum inside of her is not only sexy as hell, but it is a HUGE show of trust and intimacy. It says "My body is yours and only yours, I'm willing to give you my future."
If she doesn't want to do it because it's too much, fine. But don't you dare cheapen such a special and intimate act by saying only sluts do it.
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Baka is spelt with Katakana? That is so racist Japan. You can't just spell all the bad things with the foreign letters.
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>>33851302
Yes it is the ultimate intimacy. It is how you take a close loving partnership to the next level. The best sex I ever had was the first time my ex had me come in her. That was after weeks of connecting and getting as close and familiar as possible. That is intimacy you have to build up to.
If a girl lets you come in her THE VERY FIRST TIME YOU FUCK HER that is slut behavior. I have done both things and I can assure you there is a distinct difference in how it feels. Stop being retarded.
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>>33851302
>>33851228
I think having semen inside of you makes vagina smell like fish, and he doesn't want children right now.

He's told me how nervous the idea of sex makes him since he doesn't want kids, which means I'll put my kid at risk of being fatherless for no reason other than trying to sexually please him.
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>>33851318
Alright, alright, point taken. I'd argue that if they've been together for a few years and are now finally crossing that line that cumming inside is well earned by this point, but I understand that it's extremely unlikely that that's the case, so I concede to your point.
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>>33851130
>What should I do to make my boyfriend like me more?
Asks his fetishes and what's he's into and do what he wants. If he's being shy about it go figure out his browsing histories in secret.

What other says here are bullshit. The best one is cowgirl position where you're on top riding his dick. He can suck your tits easily like breast feeding position also when you bend over kissing him. It's less work for him and more work for you but it's exercise and erotically pleasing to our eyes seeing you move your body, swaying your hips and seeing your breast and vagina all at once while lying down and also get to suck your tits only if you bend over.

>I'm a virgin, but probably going to have sex within the next few weeks.
It's going to be painful at first. If I were you, you should start practicing with a dildo or makeshift object down there so your first time will be pleasing and memorable than being felt like being raped. You need to insert something in motion til you feel pleasure. Finger won't do. It has to be at least the size of his if possible if you could find any.

Girls only knows how to play with clit at best and never insert something inside their vagina. Boys wants to insert their dick inside the vagina and if possible cum inside it but of course you don't want to get pregnant nor does he wants to be a father. If you two could do it raw with birth control pills where both of you verify that you've taken it all the time then it's the best experience he could get out of you and of course you also if you're that responsible enough not to be stupid to miss any schedule for taking the pills.
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>>33851413
You guys are completely fucking cooked from too much porn.
>Fetishes
>Virgin
You're talking about looking at her body. You are talking about physical sensations. This is minor league sex. You literally can not even fathom what it is like to connect mentally. I genuinely pity you.
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>>33851130
I think you're a slut. Save yourself for marriage.
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>>33851470
You're such a sad fucking incel who doesn't know how to spice up their life. If kissing is all you fucking know then you're a loser at bed.

>You literally can not even fathom what it is like to connect mentally. I genuinely pity you.
I do you dumbass. It's done outside of the bed.

You don't connect mentally at bed when that's how you get freaky and make babies. Porn? You illiterate dumb fuck has no idea how ancient civilization go down so bad without porn back then. You're the only porn addict who mentions that kind of shit and try to act holy.
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>muh missionary is best
Vanilla-ass motherfuckers. Nothing compares to cumming inside during prone bone, arm wrapped around the bitch's neck as you impregnate her like your ancestors did
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>>33851633
Anon, our ancestors also did missionary.
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>>33851691
They did doggy style before that, and masturbated onto eggs the women laid before that. People used to be kinder back then.
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>>33851601
Lmfao you are actually 12
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>>33851776
A 12 years old wouldn't be watching porn you retard. Your IQ is 12.

Why is a mentally disabled person like you giving advice here? OP wasn't even asking for your thou holy advice about your normie social ethics and mention bullshit about "connect mentally" when you have mental illness?
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>>33851815
>A 12 years old wouldn't be watching porn you retard
lol
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>>33851879
that's why your ex left you. You're useless in bed.

You couldn't please her at all. Connection, mental intimacy you name it with the rizz crap you make up, they're all fake lies coming from your mouth that you can't fulfill your promise.

Intimacy my ass. You don't even know the term slut mean you illiterate fuck.
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>>33851920
Not me. I didn't think I had to respond. You're doing a good enough job of outing yourself as an ESL zoomer. Seems this guy also noticed.
Anyway I have work tomorrow, goodnight faggots. Good luck OP I'm sure everything will work out.
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>>33851946
that's you, faggot. It's from the same IP address.

You've lied to everyone including yourself that's why you're a loser as you are right now.
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>>33851707
I wish I were oviparous
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>>33851174
Missionary is boring and for men who have small dicks
>>33851413
If she uses toys she will be too loose for a guy anyway and why take BC when there's always easy abortions
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>>33851228
>cum at the same time as him
That’s pretty hard



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