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wtf is this? sex app or im looking for marriage app or look at my beatiful pictures app?!?
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>>33851605
Please to redeem the cashapp saar app
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It's basically just a hookup app + I'm a fuckin' pretty princess as far as I've ever been able to tell. That's not to say you can't find a long-term, loving partner there - but that's not what most people there go for.

Never held a relationship myself but I would go basically anywhere else if you're looking for anything beyond a quick fuck and suck.
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>>33851675
problem is, all the women there are looking for long term stuff, maybe its because im getting old, remember back in 2017 or something had so many matches, now not so much, maybe because i dont live in a city i suppose, not attractive unless you wageslave and rent and live alone or with strangers.
i wonder what happened to ‘hey, lets just start a family’
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>>33851605
There are some women wasting peoples time just looking for attention and likes, yes.
But afaik women treat it as a hookup app and bumble is the 'serious dating' app. Tinder is just low expectations where you hookup then see where it goes.
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>>33851605
It's a very expensive Tumblr knockoff
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>>33851605
validate me/validate my pajeet scam app
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Every time I try this fucking app I get exactly one match and it's some time waster and I rage delete it
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>>33852625
meant to be
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>>33852625
are you sure you aren't shadow banned? deleting and re-creating accounts can get your device shadow banned btw
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>>33851710
>i wonder what happened to ‘hey, lets just start a family’
Divorce ruined it. Now even the women don't want to fully commit
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>>33852718
I am definitely shadow banned. I might try some non- match owned app sometime but i'm working on myself instead
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>>33851605
Its an 80% men app + a we're going to shadowban your profile if you don't pay the highest tier subscription app

>>33851675
>I'm a fuckin' pretty princess
Duh. Every woman with a profile on there is automatically in the same situation as a hot cosplayer at an MtG tournament, if the nerds could appraoch ("match") her freely without being scared.
Why the fuck you'd seek out the equivalent of an MtG tournament to get laid is utetrly beyond me.

>>33851710
>i wonder what happened to ‘hey, lets just start a family’

Arranged marriages at the age of 14 no longer being a thing happened.
If you legit want to "just start a family" with someone who is basically a stranger, you badly need to get a social life and perhaps get your head checked before you do somethign runious to yourself.

>>33852726
The so many examples on this board alone of women turning fat or crazy once they have a man "in the bag", why the fuck would you want divorce to be impossible? I can't imagine anything worse than a woman who knows you cannot leave her no matter how bad she gets.
Ever wonder why boomers constantly joke about "the old ball and chain", as if it was a given that having a relationships sucks? Now you know.

And btw, under trad marriage cheating is not grounds for a divorce. Because no divorce means no divorce, period.
Methinks you tradfags did not think this through at all.
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>>33851605
It is a gambling app in disguise, and as with all gambling, it is a losers game.
Whether you are looking for hookup sex, relationship, or marriage, you are not going to come out ahead.
If you think carefully, it is fucking desperate to look for a suitable partner (for whatever purpose) by swiping on random profiles.
It is okay to try it for entertainment purposes, but don't fool yourself that you will be the one to hit it big.
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>>33853786
I've met all my gf's on dating apps but what you're saying is entirely correct. You can do things to increase your odds but the game is still rigged against you so they can show you as many ads as possible
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>>33852726
Why should a woman commit to any man below 8
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>>33854061
Because shes a 4 herself. IRL, an objective 4 and an 8 are barely going to hang out in the same circles and will never meet, except at the supermarket checkout maybe.
E-dating is a great cope for uggos and fatties where they can swipe through endless gymbros and phantasize about actually getting with them beyond a pump and dump, thus overinflating their egos to the point where they will reject the 4/10 loser incel who is their match.
But as said incel seethes online about how its societies fault taht he doesn't get his 8/10 virgin teenage wife (sexlave/housemaid in this context) all day, it evens out.

>>33854050
>I've met all my gf's on dating apps

What people forget is that Match Inc. is tightening its algorithms constantly. The less users those platforms have, they harder they need to push monetization, leading to more users leaving the platform as monetization turns it shit.
All these pps have been in that death spiral after the temporary boost Covid lockdowns gave them, now it becomes harder to actually meet anyone on there month by month.
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>>33853745
>under trad marriage cheating is not grounds for a divorce.

WTF kind of "trad" marrige are you talkign abotu cheating and infidelity is literally said to be a valid reason for divorce in the bible.

Also even if not ideal this changed is 100 times bettter than just letting her take half of your shit with no regards for anything else.
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>>33853745
>Arranged marriages at the age of 14 no longer being a thing happened.
>If you legit want to "just start a family" with someone who is basically a stranger, you badly need to get a social life and perhaps get your head checked before you do somethign runious to yourself.


Worked for most of human history and now only countries with simialr practices still ahve above replacement birth rates.

Your post modern moralism means nothing, it´s by design a suicidal idology which leads to the anihilation of our species.
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>>33851605
should we lie about our age since zoomettes hate age gaps?
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>>33854379
>is literally said to be a valid reason for divorce in the bible.
First off, point out where it says that.
Secondly, divorce was legally forbidden expect for special dispensation from high Bishops themselves until the 19th century.
Thirdly, even if it was legal, being divorced was a branding that would outcast you from society completely no matter whether man or woman. Just ask your grandparents if they were born before 1960.
You're basically making up a pure phantasy world if you think divorcing was a thing before that time. Even if you managed to get a divorce legally, you'd be a social Pariah afterwards. Modern family courts may enjoy raping men economically, but they are downright benevolent compared to the shaming that pre-1900s society will bring down on you if you are dirvorced aka scum of the earth aka terminal sinner aka complete and utter failure.

Society isn't and never was inetrested in the individuals wellbeing, only that its system was kept. Its like you don't even understand the meaning of the word "forced monogamy".
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>>33854410
But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. – Matthew 19:9

Fuck off out of here with your bullshit.

>. Modern family courts may enjoy raping men economically, but they are downright benevolent compared to the shaming that pre-1900s society will bring down on you if you are dirvorced aka scum of the earth aka terminal sinner aka complete and utter failure.

AHAHAHAHAHA, you didn't have many people you know closely get divorced did you?

mate have you had a man close to you divorce or even interacted with a divorced man?

For fucks sake, even though now things are getting a little better msot of them are treated as pariahs.
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>>33854444
The male is always punished in Christianity it enables women to be whores.
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>>33852718
>>33852821
"Shadow ban" is just a cope for being ugly.
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>>33854511
Most foids don’t pay to see who liked them so she will never see your profile card
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>>33854444
>didn't have many people you know closely get divorced did you?
I'm not from america, most peopel who marry here are together for like 10+ years so divorces are fare more rare. If they happen, they are seen as a breakup with extra steps. Our courts and laws also aren't nearly as rapey. I kno w some dude who gets alimony from his ex because she used to earn a lot more than him.

>But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. – Matthew 19:9
Thats very nice and all. However, until about the 19th century no legal pathway for divorce existed. So again, unless you're a richfag who can bribe a local Bishop its not going to happen.
And neither is it going to wash off the stain of being the town cuckold. The fact that your ex was a slut doesn't make you look any less ridiculous. Why do you think that "cuck" is one of the harshest insults on todays internet?
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>>33853745
Infidelity is indeed grounds for divorce in trad marriage.. something the church recognized for centuries. Its a broken contract
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>>33851605
Met my wife on bumble and I know actually multiple (3 off the top of my heas) with that outcome from bumble. I also had better quality matches and connections from there in general before my wife.

So if youre looking got LTR id recommend that just from what ive seen..
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>>33854782
How do you cope with the fact that your wife had dozens of one night stands and/or situationships with people from dating apps before settling for you?
I could never.



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