>>33852519
I don't think that's true. Confidence is required for attraction, social consensus it required for them to even speak to you

Think of it in lizard brain terms.
Confident man can kill mountain lion and not run away.

>>33852528
>I don't think that's true
Convicted murderers still land girlfriends. The guy too scared to ask women out doesn't.

>>33852519
"Confidence" is facial attractiveness. Furthermore, the majority of women are more attracted to psychopaths than nice guys. (Women are retarded)

In a study by Carter et al. (2014), 128 women were presented with male characters of varying degrees of dark triad (narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy) personality. Physicality was held constant. Men with dark traits were rated as dramatically more attractive to women compared to control characters who lacked these traits (with >99.9% statistical certainty, p < 0.001). Furthermore, the attractiveness of these dark traits was not explained by other characteristics like extroversion.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245

>>33852538
all of the success of dark triad traits is linked to more direct pursuit of women and more aggressive courting. you can literally have the same results if you do those things. it's what everyone constantly says to the incels here, talk to more women, that no one takes to heart. it's not magical qualities of having dark personality traits, it's just going through life like someone who never doubts they're valuable and worthy of being chosen

A good person doesn't do good for the sake of getting a reward.

>>33852519
I won't read the chin-scratcher subhuman moron's wonderings because he wonders why anyone would dislike traits in no-one in particular who is probably himself. So in the present case he is neither confident nor a good person (but he imagines that he is the latter).

>>33852519
Because they don't want a good person who's a doormat, but they also don't want a confidently wrong man.
>>33852537
>Convicted murderers still land girlfriends
Their girlfriends are of low-quality and should not be treated of as anything of value. Stop caring if a thug gets laid by a low-value person.

>>33852700
how do you know someone's motivation for being a good person without them telling you?

>>33852751
nta but sometimes you can tell, sometimes you can't. You simply learn over the course of getting to know them. It's a trial and error thing,

consider the following situations
>situation A
>caveman times
>woman mutates a preference for kindness over confidence
>she gets with a kind guy. He isn't very confident, but he treats her well
>life is gud
>one day a tiger shows up
>nigga pussies out and runs away
>whole family gets eaten by tiger
result: the preference for kindess over confidence doesn't survive

>situation B
>caveman times
>woman mutates a preference for confidence over kindness
>she gets with a confident guy. He's an asshole and beats the shit out of her every day
>life is terrible
>one day a tiger shows up
>our darktriad cavenigger chimps out and kills the tiger, then goes back to beating his wife and kids
result: the preference for confidence over kindness DOES survive

remember, natural selection is not some benevolent force that is working to make all humans as happy as possible. It's just a very long chain of causes and effects. Whatever works survives, even if it makes everyone miserable

>>33852782
>then goes back to beating his wife and kids
geg

>>33852519
women care about looks

and people who have looks are usually more confident

being a good person is a meme

>>33852856
>being a good person is a meme
says the anon on the frog forum

>>33852860
define good man
>you can’t

>>33852897
A good man is someone who acts out of altruism.

>>33852519
In women's mind, attractive men = confident men
and confident men = good men

>>33852721
You just did

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You can't be a truly kind person if you are unconfident since acting out of kindness does require confidence a lot of the time. Such as going out of your way to for example help a struggling woman (or even a man) in front of a crowd.

>>33852519
>I am good. A good person. I am a goody good man. In my youth, I was a goody good boy. When people ask me how I'm doing, I reply "good". Goodness gracious how good is it to be a good good good goody good good? good.

This isn't a personality. It's mental illness. Most confident people are "good" as well. good.

>>33852700
And the other shallow palindrome is "Kindness always gets rewarded in the end" fact is being kind and good is bullshit. Humans work on reward and if you aren't rewarded enough, or worse get punished for your kindness, then people are going to stop. People who constantly preach about being kind and telling people to do good usually end up being the true monsters just guilt tripping people to do their budding.

>>33852925
such an oofy doofy betabuxx mentality
this kind of thinking causes males to rope en masse