Hey guys. How do i stop feeling unworthy of a relationship because of my dick size ? I have read all the blue red purple or whatever pillcolor truths about it but i simply come back to the same conclusion "it is simply not enough." Overall i am an average person with below average dick... Should i just let it go and forget it ? Does this really make me unworthy of a relationship ?
>>33852841In your case you need a different blue pill.
>>33852851That is pretty funny.
>>33852851ah maaan. do i have to ?
>>33852841Just care about your own pleasure and your own pleasure only.I have sex for my own pleasure and that is what matters to me overall.A woman doesn't feel satisfied? I don't give a fuck. Tell her to go fuck herself, then. It is her loss.It is her loss, because I fuck escorts. Where I am prostitution is legal and regulated.That means I get to fuck on my terms - at a time and place of my choosing, on an agreed price.I don't have to see the same escort if I don't like her, though I usually stick with one I like for as long as the circumstances permit.I stop caring about whether I am unworthy of a relationship, and now I only care about whether a woman is worth my time and money.Sure, it sounds cold, but it is not any more cold that the idea of "it is simply not enough".I prefer to be cold in my favor.So what's it going to be, player?
>>33852841Stop giving a shit about it. Problem solved. The only girls who care are slags.
>>33852884i do understand your point, i think this could truly work to just not care about her pleasure or thoughts and here comes the other problem. For me it would be important to make sure that it is pleasureable for her. Yes i do realise that i am simply not equipped enough to do that, and this is one of the part that cause my doubts about getting into a relationship.But yes, i do understand your point but i simply cant, and dont want to become a "selfish lover".I am holding onto something i can't have. That is the best description i think.
>>33852896It is not them who are shutting me down, but i am shutting down myself and thats why i am trying to find another thoughts ideas or mindset, that can set me free. I had sex before though, and never received a bad comment from anyone, yet the lack of their pleasure was evident, and it is kinda breaking me.
>>33852908Their pleasure is having your cock inside of them.
>>33852854No. Blue pills are just for blood flow.Dick size isn't that important.
>>33852903There are plenty of women who find selfish lovers appealing.If you are holding onto something you can't have, there must be a reason.Perhaps you seek common joy in shared experiences, rather than a big dick itself?In that case, you will have to search far and wide, and accept the necessary cost of finding a woman who, for whatever reason, can genuinely find common joy with you in shared experiences whether it is sex or others.If it is that important to you, you will have greater things to worry about other than your dick when seeking a woman that finds common joy in shared experiences with you.Hope this helps.
>>33852974Besides, dick size has little to do with eliciting pleasure.
>>33852841There is so much more to the game than whether you were allocated a handgun or bazooka at spawn. All setups have their pros, cons and meta tactics. Attachments are available. Power ups can be acquired. There is also the game mode to consider. This isn't adverserial or competitive. It's co-op story mode. Learn to communicate. Learn to assess the game properly, ask what is desired and deliver.Brutal truth time - your dick is not desireable for a drunken one night stand thrill ride with some cooked porn-damaged girlie. So fucking what. Those bitches suck anyways.Your dick size will not be the deciding factor in how someone feels about sex with you in a relationship context - presuming you get a woman who hasn't completely eroded their spiritual and emotional side to sex.You probably need to go off and burn yourself to the ground first. Demolish this weakness in yourself and get some objective perspective. Back the fuck away from porn with dicks in it and x,y,z-pilled rhetoric. At the heart of this is a fear of vulnerability and a crushing sense of failure at not being a fantasy for porn-damaged men.So earn some pride. Walk into the fire of internal despair and sit there. Get angry, get sad and journal through it. Develop real self esteem, view this kind of thinking as the fucking enemy to your destiny.We all deserve happiness. But only you can save yourself.
>>33852987Yes, and worrying about someone else's pleasure without having a good reason for it undoubtedly devalues and demoralizes oneself.If OP is worried about being pleasurable to women, he needs to reflect on himself on the reason first.
>>33852919It was still funny. Don't understand your reply.
>>33852974thank you for your reply! i dont really care about my joy because it is good for me either way, it will be pleasureable for me but i feel really bad if i simply cant make her feel good.>>33853031thank you for your detailed reply too! you are right, i tend to compare myself to the men in porn and i do despair on the fact that some positions and points in her body are out of reach for me so i can make her feel good, i cannot blame the girls for wanting bigger though because they know what is best for them. Unfortunately i don't know how to find pride in this part of my life yet.>>33853036thank you for your reply, i reflect a lot on myself and my value. in consider myself an okay person, average but a healthy average, and find it the hardest pill to swallow to be able to accept myself with my "handicap". Maybe im also afraid of rejection or getting degraded but at the moment what is clear for me is that i do not find myself enough sexually.i hope i didn't write any controversial things i had a lot on my mind when i wrote this comment
>>33852841One of my good friends from high school has a small dick. His lifelong crush told me when she was sucking my dick. Also his girlfriend a decade later told me the same thing while she was doing the same thing. He's married with a kid, a 6-figure salary in a fortune 500 company, and owns a house on a significant plot of land now. I'm broke and alone on 4chan on a Saturday. The universe has a way of evening things out.
>>33852841The size of the tool matters less than the skill with which it is employed
>>33854173I get your point but i am not really looking for "justice" from life, but wish i could know his mindset or thoughts on how he overcame his problem and reached the point of that kind of confidence to build a family without worrying about his dick.>>33854641I agree wholly.
>>33853056My b.I replied to the wrong thing.OP wanted to know if the pills actually helped.
>>33854641To a certain extend.
>>33857699fi enjoy them alot and recommend to my lady friends.
>>33852841Brother, the Gspot is like 2 inches in. Girls rarely cum from penetration, but still love the intensity and connection of sex. Every woman is different and likes to get off in different ways, get good at what your girl wants and reap the benefits.I'm well equipped and have been with girls who NEED to be fingered to get off, or can't cum without a vibrator, or like to masturbate themselves while you kiss them and caress their body; my wife is the only woman I've ever been with who's capable of getting off from getting dicked down. End of the day if you do what they like they're going to be satisfied.
>>33852908You mustn't let such women get into your mind, Anon. Those women who seek such practice don't realize the great trap they are in. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high? They went into the game w/ the wrong intentions (this also applies to men). It's just the devil using his tricks to waste everyone's time - including yours by making you think these things. God has a woman for you who is pure and wouldn't care about your anything really just wants to be with you. But you need the mindset of knowing that's why the statues of old deliberately had 'small members' - you are very much more than lustful cravings.
